Originally posted by: pamk06
I would have liked to see her fighting back. I would have like to see her do some attempt at fleeing or keep verbally slapping Rajdeep for all she was worth. Even if her reason for sacrificing was Mauli, I did not like it at all that she just got ready and came out to get burned that way without retaliating at all. They showed her fighting with Rajdeep twice where she came out the winner then why not yesterday.
If she was ready to sacrifice by dying and then today she should have stood in front of Kunal and told him , "That this is my decision and I do not want to continue with you", whether Kunal wants to continue with Mauli or no its his decision and whether Mauli wants to continue with Kunal or no, its her decision but Nandini should have stood her ground.
Now, again it looks like she is letting Kunal take the decision for her. This is still the same Nandini who just does not want to think for herself and goes with the flow. Kunal told her, lets be together, she agreed, then Mauli told her leave Kunal, she agreed, now again Kunal is telling her, I want to be with you, not Mauli ,she might agree.
Its still is the plain old Nandini...
Exactly.
She takes one step forward sincerely, but she just goes back 10 steps. Sacrifice means standing firm on the ground no matter what. It takes a lot of strength to stand firm on a decision of sacrifice because there will always be temptations.
I can't see Nandini sacrificing. It was positive for me to watch when Nandini still decided to leave the city after that video message. (honestly it was) But like 10 hours later, she is back to her old self where she lets Kunal take a decision for herself. If she was so sincere about taking a decision for herself, then why not stand on it even now. If friendship was so important to her even now, then why not give it back to Kunal now. If she went to sacrifice herself in that fire, then it should be Mauli for whom she was sacrificing herself & not Kunal. What's the point of being forced to take a decision by blackmail or a pinky promise? How is it a sacrifice? It means you clearly lack a conscience of your own to see & understand things
And Nandini going back to Rajdeep for sacrifice will be the stupidest thing to watch. She can leave city but no, she has to go to Rajdeep & be abused, tortured & killed to show the sacrifice, as if there is no other way for her to show sacrificing in real sense. She is not trapped in Rajdeep's clutches where there is no other escape. She has escape & she can escape, then why not take that route to show that your promise to a friend means something. But it's no use now, since Kunal already knows about the pinky promise thing. So, the show has gotten past to show sacrifice on Nandini's part. Nothing at this moment can be considered a sacrifice on her part.
But NO, makers are more interested to show this woman as a true lover rather than a true friend & a woman who would stand for her dignity.
Nandini can compromise with her dignity, self-esteem as a woman but not with Kunal. And that's the part I don't like. She wants to be with a man who has barely taken any stand for her in front of the whole world. Kunal can take a stand for her in front off Mauli, his family. Nandini can take a stand for him in front of Rajdeep. But that's it. When it comes to others, these two just go quiet and Nandini goes to crying mode. None of them have words to utter escape Mauli who can still say that this is their matter to speak on.
That's the only reason why I am not liking Mauli too at this point. I understand her hurt & anger, her pregnancy & her own feelings weighing her down as a wife but I don't like her begging for Kunal since that's a compromise on her individual self-respect & dignity. It's simply painful for me to watch.
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