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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: pamk06

I think they have taken that from the forums. Everyone kept asking why only Nandini is getting blamed, why no one is putting the blame on Kunal, why he is not being held responsible, just because he is a man no one is questioning him, Dida is not putting him at task just because he is a son. So now they made Kunal himself say all that so that his family knows he is the only one responsible for Mauli's pain. Well, I wanted to hear all this but those dialogues should have been to her mother, Dida and Sweety, not to Mauli.


there is no whitewashing going on, Nandini is a character who would always be hated by a certain a sect of people and DD as well as PH knew that when she took the role. But there is another sect of people who do see her beyond the EMA knowing her actions are wrong. The PH with this show wanted all of us to face this difficult question of relationship, marriage and love etc and I think they have been successful so far. I wish they would also give us answers but alas that's not happening.




If it wasn't a whitewashing process, pray tell, why Kunal used woman Card to defend Nandini? Nandini and Mauli's relationship is older than Maunal and KuNan relationship, so why he thinks Mauli taunted his girlfriend because she is a woman, do you see the point in this? Why would Mauli go to Nandini's place? Why would they show that Mauli is alive because of Nandini's dua or Mauli had a baby because of Nandini's dua?

EMA is wrong, Nandini can be a good human but they are belittling the wife, trying to show Mauli as a sexist, regressive woman to justify Nandini's action or to say that Nandini was not responsible for EMA, Kunal was responsible for it but the fact is Nandini is not any other woman, Nandini is Mauli's friend.
Edited by FruitToasty - 6 years ago
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Posted: 6 years ago
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I think the backlash of using divine intervention as a means of getting KN together is getting to the creatives and writers of this show. They can use God only so much until all logic has gone out the window. I see this change in Nandani as the writers paying attention to their audiences' feedback. I think in order for the show to move on from this track of revelation and actually get to the storytelling part, the characters have to make bold decisions and should be given some change and development.
I didn't watch yesterday's episode so I'm not sure about the specifics of what Kunal said, however, I feel now the story is moving towards making Kunal just as responsible for the betrayal as Nandani. Until now the narrative didn't blame Kunal, he hasn't been questioned, his family is not asking him to fix the marriage, it's asked of Mauli this whole entire time. But, we did see a lot of characters blaming, rightly so, Nandani for all her actions. Dida, Mauli, Sweety, Mauli's mom, even freakin Rajdeep has said things to Nandani. The only person that I can think that's actually said anything to Kunal was someone they brought from another show, aka Tara.
Now, we are going to see the downfall of Kunal, hopefully. His mind is not working right now. The girl that he left his whole life for just rejected him and who does he blame? The wife, that too a pregnant wife, he cheated for said girl. Now, Dida and Radhika will rightfully put the blame on Kunal for hurting Mauli. They will hopefully at least see with their eyes that Kunal is killing Mauli.
For Nandani's redemption arc, I am here for it. I know everyone on this forum thinks she should basically die from guilt, but I want her to learn from this. I want her to know that betraying a friend that only helped her is not something to be taken lightly. If she doesn't get away from this situation, and doesn't think about her choices, and doesn't see the consequences, her actions are bound to repeat.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Why do I get the feeling that after kidnap incident she will be back in Kunal's arms, saying humne bahot koshish ki..
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Posted: 6 years ago
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The girl that he left his whole life for just rejected him and who does he blame? The wife, that too a pregnant wife, he cheated for said girl


@musiclover - ikr and he has audacity to say that he doesn't respect her anymore, that she has lost his respect because she yelled at his girlfriend who left him.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: FruitToasty



If it wasn't a whitewashing process, pray tell, why Kunal used woman Card to defend Nandini? Nandini and Mauli's relationship is older than Maunal and KuNan relationship, so why he thinks Mauli taunted his girlfriend because she is a woman, do you see the point in this? Why would Mauli go to Nandini's place? Why would everyone they show that Mauli is alive because of Nandini's dua or Mauli had a baby because of Nandini's dua?

EMA is wrong, Nandini can be a good human but they are belittling the wife, trying to show Mauli as a sexist, regressive woman to justify Nandini's action or to say that Nandini was not responsible for EMA, Kunal was responsible for it but the fact is Nandini is not any other woman, Nandini is Mauli's friend.


They are not belittling Mauli. Mauli is a strong person but she is also a woman who loves her husband a lot. When a marriage breaks because of adultery, the first question, be it career oriented or homemaker, a woman asks herself is that what was missing in me? Why is he not loving me anymore? What has she got that I have not? Why is he leaving me? This is insecurity that every person has which comes with rejection.
Also, its human tendency that we always think that our love cannot be wrong, its the other woman. Think of the situations she is in. She has just realized that even after everything she still loves Kunal, she is ready to forgive and forget everything and move on. But what happens, Kunal not only rejects her again but also tell her that he is totally into Nandini. Imagine the impact that must have had on her. So she needs answers. Generally a woman in this situation would go to her best friend but the best friend is the enemy. A very very horrible situation and Mauli is so broken and so desperate that she is ready to even take Nandini's help to ask her questions and find out the answers so she can move on her own journey. Mauli went to her best friend and the other woman. If they would have showed the interaction it would have been a mixture of anger, hate, need of a friend, plea for help, support and everything in between. Aditi and DD would have rocked this scene. This is Mauli's journey and though its difficult she has to go through all the steps.

Remember when Tara was bursting on Mauli and he defended her saying that just because she is the woman you are blaming her, but its not her fault, do not blame Mauli, blame me, its the same thing. No woman card here. This is Kunal for you. His savior, protective instinct, the very reason for the downfall of his relationship.
I think he would not have burst our so harshly but for his fear of losing Nandini. If you see from his POV, Nandini has left him and he is going crazy. He is doing everything to get that relationship back on foot and he knows Mauli is the weak link between them. He knows, for Mauli, Nandini will leave him for ever and he is facing his biggest fear in that moment. Whenever Kunal is scared he lashes out, its happened so many times in the past, and that is what is happening now.

Edited: Frankly, I do not know why they are using the divine card in this whole EMA business but the message they wanted to give is the importance of friendship of Mauli in Nandini's life. Little too late in my opinion but yes, they wanted to get that aspect back and hence they were showing those scenes.



Edited by pamk06 - 6 years ago
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Posted: 6 years ago
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@Pamk06 -
But situation is different here, Mauli is not responsible for her husband's EMA but Nandini is responsible for betraying her friend.
Take it as an equation -
We know that -
Kunal left Mauli for Nandini
Nandini left Kunal for Mauli

This is in case Nandini is not Mauli's friend, just a stranger -


Kunal loves Nandini and he is desperate in front of her, saying lines like "Nandini you are my oxygen", he somehow got to know that Mauli is responsible for Nandini's absence and he manhandled her

Similarly, Mauli loves Kunal. She is not as desperate as him to beg him to stay or say that he is her oxygen but she does love him, and she knows for sure that Nandini is responsible for Kunal leaving her.

Kunal is hurting his wife because his girlfriend left him, he doesn't care that this woman has given him 7 years of her life, people cry for their pets who live with them for a few year, Mauli is still his wife but he shows no emotions or regards for her feelings, the point being he is blaming Mauli for Nandini, Mauli is simply blaming the other woman. Both are not blaming their love, so what's the point of saying that Mauli blames Nandini because she is a woman? My post is on this topic, this woman Card being used to support Nandini against Mauli, to say that Mauli is not blaming Kunal because he is a man and she is blaming Nandini because she is a woman hence she is this sexist woman who blames women but loves men.

Now, if you add Nandini being Mauli's friend in the equation, Mauli has even more right to lash out at Nandini because she did everything in her capacity to help Nandini and Nandini betrayed her in return.
Edited by FruitToasty - 6 years ago
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Right now
I am just hoping that Mauli is pregnant for real and she will give birth to wonderful baby girl, who will love her no matter what, I don't want Kunal to be a part of this child's life or Nandini will woo the baby away from Mauli with kheer, because as single mother she will work day and night to fulfill her needs and Kunal will take her to Nandini, Nandini will feed her kheer, the baby will go - I love Nandu mama, nandu mama is my oxygen.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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In one of the recent interviews, Shakti said Kunal lashes out at Mauli bcz he expects Mauli to blame him for the blunder & not Nandini...why she had to go to Nandini ? Only he had wronged Mauli & bechari Nandu is so bholi .
Have they forgotten that Nandini was Mauli's bestfriend ?
She has full right of lashing out at that ehsaanfaramosh.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: FruitToasty

@Pamk06 -
But situation is different here, Mauli is not responsible for her husband's EMA but Nandini is responsible for betraying her friend.
Take it as an equation -
We know that -
Kunal left Mauli for Nandini
Nandini left Kunal for Mauli

This is in case Nandini is not Mauli's friend, just a stranger -


Kunal loves Nandini and he is desperate in front of her, saying lines like "Nandini you are my oxygen", he somehow got to know that Mauli is responsible for Nandini's absence and he manhandled her

Similarly, Mauli loves Kunal. She is not as desperate as him to beg him to stay or say that he is her oxygen but she does love him, and she knows for sure that Nandini is responsible for Kunal leaving her.

Here, Kunal is hurting his wife after rejecting her, he has spent 7 years with her because his girlfriend left him, Mauli is simply blaming the other woman. Both are not blaming their love, so what's the point of saying that Mauli blames Nandini because she is a woman? My post is on this topic, this woman Card being used to support Nandini against Mauli, to say that Mauli is not blaming Kunal because he is a man and she is blaming Nandini because she is a woman hence she is this sexist woman who blames women but loves men.

Now, if you add Nandini being Mauli's friend in the equation, Mauli has even more right to lash out at Nandini because she did everything in her capacity to help Nandini and Nandini betrayed her in return.


I totally agree that Mauli has every right to lash out at Nandini as a best friend and also that its totally understandable that she blames the other woman, but from Kunal's POV, (why do I end up defending this idiot I dont know😆) he is thinking that the blame should be his, Mauli should blame him,lash out at him, fight with him, curse him, because he and only he is responsible for the breakage of their relationship not the other woman.

In one of his previous conversations he did say that the wife/husband relationship is their own and they themselves are responsible for its state and its fate, so blaming or involving a third person is really not the way to go. How much ever we hate it or do not like it, Mauli was ready to forgive Kunal and when he rejected her, instead of lashing out at him she did go to Nandini to blame her or curse her or do whatever. Thus in his mind, she is blaming the other woman for the breakage but was ready to forgive and accept the man and that is Kunal's whole point. Do not blame the woman, blame the man who left you and who is responsible for its breakage.

Frankly, I do not think Mauli is wrong here. This is what happens. As I said, its human tendency that we try to whitewash our love and ignore all their faults and Mauli is doing exactly that. Its not a weakness, its just being human.



Edited by pamk06 - 6 years ago
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: FruitToasty



Indian TV is stuck in a phase where there can't be more than one story in a single show, Take GoT for example, the goal is one but each character has a story of its own, they don't need to be lead in order to get a story, here we have concept of leads which means the show will be focused on KuNan as DraShak are lead


i understand that.. supporting characters are only meant to support the main leads and their story but mauli is one of the leads..
i never overlooked her from the day the promos had come. but yes i never thought she would overshadow the other two lead's characters..
writers also know that mauli is a strong lead and kunal and nandini can do nothing without her.. the focus was all the three in initial episodes but now mauli is given much importance than the other two
. dont u feel so?

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