Dear writers, continue PROPERLY what you started please - Page 2

Originally posted by: poiu123

I watched BV from the beginning till Shiv s death. Anandi Jagiya Gauri was so well written. There was a context, build up and culmination. You could understand each characters POV which made sense whether u agreed with them or not. The EMA was thought provoking and well presented. It's unbelievable that the writer is same and pathetic writing of Nandini and Kunal s characters.

Originally posted by: Saazhumsafars

Mental illnesses can't be cured?I did not know that.What mental illnesses do you think Nandini has?

In yesterday's episode she did not say anything to chakor but just turned and walked away.She said whatever was on her mind to only herself after coming home and then kind of brokedown.She does this quite a bit,I think this too is a sign of anxiety.I had read about this,that one does not always shake or shiver in anxiety but could also go all rigid when with others and let themselves go when alone.

Originally posted by: music_l0ver036

She has PTSD from losing her baby, depression and anxiety from the abuse.

Yeah I was really hoping wat Chakor had said stuck with her but I guess it didn't. But she will be leaning Kunal soon so hopefully she realizes that she's done Mauli wrong.

Anxiety or any mental illness does not show up the same in everyone.

For some anxiety means you are always on edge, theres physiological responses that you can't control, aka crying or stomach aches, throwing up, or heart palpitations. You live in a constant fear.

I am only saying this because I want to give example but I'm highly anxious about driving and I recently started driving on the highway and one time I literally forgot where the break was and I got so scared. And I got nightmares for a week about getting into a car accident.

I don't know if other people who have anxiety show similar behaviors or actions.

Same with depression. Some people have high functioning depression some have low functioning. It literally depends on each person.

I think the problem with Nandani is that there are signs of severe anxiety but there's never any signs of coping with it. It's annoying.

Originally posted by: music_l0ver036

She has PTSD from losing her baby, depression and anxiety from the abuse.

Yeah I was really hoping wat Chakor had said stuck with her but I guess it didn't. But she will be leaning Kunal soon so hopefully she realizes that she's done Mauli wrong.

Anxiety or any mental illness does not show up the same in everyone.

For some anxiety means you are always on edge, theres physiological responses that you can't control, aka crying or stomach aches, throwing up, or heart palpitations. You live in a constant fear.

I am only saying this because I want to give example but I'm highly anxious about driving and I recently started driving on the highway and one time I literally forgot where the break was and I got so scared. And I got nightmares for a week about getting into a car accident.

I don't know if other people who have anxiety show similar behaviors or actions.

Same with depression. Some people have high functioning depression some have low functioning. It literally depends on each person.

I think the problem with Nandani is that there are signs of severe anxiety but there's never any signs of coping with it. It's annoying.

Originally posted by: WhyHate

Honestly psychological trauma and mental illnesses vary from person to person. Some people do come out of it. They move on, the illness leaves like a cold does. But they don't always forget. Like someone who suffers abuse as a child, will always overcompensate when they become a parent by being extra careful not to even yell at their own kid if they can avoid it.

But some people do have some form of illness for the rest of their life. Like I have a friend who got into a minor fender bender a few years ago. It was only her first year of driving, she was on the highway alone, it was icy and snowy, and her car slipped and hit the person in front of her. Ever since then she's had trouble driving in the extreme left (which is where her accident happened) on the highway. She used to drive one-handed on the highway. I've seen her driving with both hands and even then she sometimes clutches the steering wheel tightly, especially if she ends up going into the extreme left lane. You meet her at any other time and you could never guess that she was that anxious about driving. She drives fine on the road, but the highway is another matter.

Nandini has several extreme illnesses: PTSD, depression, anxiety disorder, separation anxiety. She is, in the non-clinical sense, a mental and nervous wreck. I don't think she can ever come out of it fully. There will be some instances, some situations, some moments that will always drive her back into that anxious mode (or shivering as everyone here seems to call it).

Originally posted by: arshi_asya

A few years ago, I just stepped out of the balcony of my grandma's home and suddenly out of no where 2 monkeys came and bite me. I can't even remember my scream that day.

I had never been scared of monkeys before that incident but that incident left me scared of monkeys. Even today, I run away at the smallest sight of a monkey. Few of my guy friends used to tease me for that in college since monkeys used to visit my class window during lunch time.

I have got a lot of nightmares about monkeys chasing me and me running as fast as I can to escape them. Most of them have led to abrupt waking up at night with no sleep for a long time after that.

Till date, I literally lose my shit at sight of a monkey even from a distance. And nightmares about them are still the rare guests at night.

Literally everyone in my family knows how badly I fear monkeys and why and no one really makes a fuss of it.

My sister gets anxious of darkness. I get anxious if someone especially a guy tries to get too physical with me or tries to force their feelings on me. (I hate being touched casually without permission or pushed towards any sort of realization, lost a lot of friends because of that) And if something like that happenes than I need to be left alone to calm my wits or someone to just walk with me without uttering a word until I lent out my frustration and anger over the situation through words.

Anxiety is a real issue. Some people are anxious of facing public, what I call is stage fright. Sadly, it's very casually taken just like in this show Where there have been no attempts to show her coping from them.

Originally posted by: music_l0ver036

She has PTSD from losing her baby, depression and anxiety from the abuse.

Yeah I was really hoping wat Chakor had said stuck with her but I guess it didn't. But she will be leaning Kunal soon so hopefully she realizes that she's done Mauli wrong.

Anxiety or any mental illness does not show up the same in everyone.

For some anxiety means you are always on edge, theres physiological responses that you can't control, aka crying or stomach aches, throwing up, or heart palpitations. You live in a constant fear.

I am only saying this because I want to give example but I'm highly anxious about driving and I recently started driving on the highway and one time I literally forgot where the break was and I got so scared. And I got nightmares for a week about getting into a car accident.

I don't know if other people who have anxiety show similar behaviors or actions.

Same with depression. Some people have high functioning depression some have low functioning. It literally depends on each person.

I think the problem with Nandani is that there are signs of severe anxiety but there's never any signs of coping with it. It's annoying.

Originally posted by: Saazhumsafars

Oh my god..I am so sorry.I don't know about other people's behaviour or actions either but I have been diagnosed with bit of anxiety too and yesterday was my first time driving alone and I screwed up a bit and my leg started shaking after I had managed to get myself out of the situation.So I guess I understand a bit but not completely as I did not have to go through nightmares for a week.I wish you all the strength and wellness.

Thank you for telling me about other symptoms of anxiety,I was unaware that these too are symptoms of anxiety.

Nandini has no awareness of her anxiety and other mental situations,the writers will never make her get help either so I think this 'not coping with it' thing is going to continue.

Originally posted by: Saazhumsafars

Oh my god..I am so sorry.I don't know about other people's behaviour or actions either but I have been diagnosed with bit of anxiety too and yesterday was my first time driving alone and I screwed up a bit and my leg started shaking after I had managed to get myself out of the situation.So I guess I understand a bit but not completely as I did not have to go through nightmares for a week.I wish you all the strength and wellness.

Thank you for telling me about other symptoms of anxiety,I was unaware that these too are symptoms of anxiety.

Nandini has no awareness of her anxiety and other mental situations,the writers will never make her get help either so I think this 'not coping with it' thing is going to continue.