Blame game - Page 2

Originally posted by: aaliya14

Main part of rant is in red. So feel free to skip if you want.

So i don't watch the show regularly because i hate the whole " other woman" concept. I hated the movie

'Bajirao mastani' for the same reason but after the uproar on twitter against Kunal and Nandini i wanted to give my two cents.

First of all i am not justifying their act or EMA's in general. I hate what mauli's condition has come too and i hate Kunal and Nandini for doing this to her BUT why is most uproar against Nandin? Why is the opinion so biased with Kunal. Just because you like how mauli and Kunal look together?

Infact i think Kunal is more at fault because i believe Nandini is psychologically unstable and who wouldn't be after living with Rajdeep? I feel like even if she had gotten kidnapped and the guy cared for her she'd develop stockholm syndrome. Does that make her the victim or act justified? No!

Coming to Kunal , the perfectly sane man who should have had enough wit being a doctor to not make his wife go through the humiliation she had to. If he was so " in love" with Nandini he should have had the decency to divorce Mauli first.

And even when psycholocally unstable Nandini came to sense and decided to leave, Kunal stopped her with some melodrama knowing how emotional and vulnerable she is.

So, both are at fault. In my opinion kunal more than Nandini.

P.s: i hate what Kunal and Nandini did, but just for the record the society had NO RIGHT to cover her face with tar.

Originally posted by: chirpyhapibird

Kunal 100 times more responsible.

Nandu even in unstable state tried to leave the city.

Kunal actually used Nandu.

Originally posted by: arshi_asya

Yeah right. 😆

She could try leaving city in unstable state, she could have sex in unstable state, she could even murder someone in unstable state & still be blamed less because she was in unstable state & the victim was at fault to even come in touch with her. As per this show, she will always be in unstable state & do everything because she suffered an abusive relationship for 7 years which technically should have made her fear relationships & man completely with such intimate relations. Sex should have been a big no for a woman who lost her child in such terrible ways. (Trauma is very real).

Kunal used Nandu & Nandu was a tissue paper who couldn't even speak or talk to him in skeptical manner.

All she couldn't do was just think about a friend in her unstable state. Someone give me tissues, my eyes are getting welled up with laughing. 😆

Originally posted by: arshi_asya

Yeah right. 😆

She could try leaving city in unstable state, she could have sex in unstable state, she could even murder someone in unstable state & still be blamed less because she was in unstable state & the victim was at fault to even come in touch with her. As per this show, she will always be in unstable state & do everything because she suffered an abusive relationship for 7 years which technically should have made her fear relationships & man completely with such intimate relations. Sex should have been a big no for a woman who lost her child in such terrible ways. (Trauma is very real).

Kunal used Nandu & Nandu was a tissue paper who couldn't even speak or talk to him in skeptical manner.

All she couldn't do was just think about a friend in her unstable state. Someone give me tissues, my eyes are getting welled up with laughing. 😆

Originally posted by: shamil

I think the topic has been discussed umpteen times.

U just have to surf thru the previous pages to know that

By the way I am yet to find any Maunal Shippers after his khaand here.

Nobody is going "aww omg they lsizzling chemistry, hence they must get together " kind of emotion

But yes there are many Kunan shippers and Nandini fans mainly becoz its DD who is doing the role. I am sure there would have been no nandini lover if it were some other actress.

Originally posted by: aaliya14

I think you haven't read about mentally unstable abuse victims. Thats why you are being so insensitive about the subject. I'm not justifying her cheating on mauli but her psychological state shouldn't be taken lightly. Her self reassurances and over the top shivering are symptoms of her disorder. Coming to your point why she didn't think leaving again. I think the writers have planned for that to happen. She needs a psychiatrist.

Originally posted by: chirpyhapibird

Its quite possible with an abused victim.

People behave in abnormal ways/all wrong ways.

When i see Nandini i feel she is psycho.