Nandini deserves sympathy? - Page 3

Originally posted by: Angels11

1 moment I feel though the shaming & lynching is absurd she finally got 2 know wat she has done. But another moment I was angry. If she seduced a married guy wat bt tat married guy who cheated his wife. Why no black ink on Kunal 😡

Originally posted by: Angels11

I know many of us hate Nandini but if for a minute we assume that Kunal was not her BFF's hubby & she & Kunal genuinely love each other instead of this silly Kheer infatuation how many of u w'd ve sympathized with her?

Here is a woman who was abused by her hubby & never found love & finally she finds a guy who loves her. Is it wrong to be selfish & hold on to that love? What is right & What is wrong & who decides this? Society? Law?

Wanted 2 know what every1 feels about this 😳

Originally posted by: Angels11

Its all hypothetical. But finally wen it comes 2 our life will we really b so morally upright? I think tats wat the CVs r trying 2 show. That deep dn we are all selfish...

NOT getting into a relationship with married man IS selfish and not moralistic. Because self love is the starting point of any other love. And such move with turn it to self hatred. When you loathe yourself where will the capacity to love another human come from?

But of course some people are able to completely tune out and live in a bubble. Any self respecting or conscientious wont be able to live in that duality.

Finally its not about OTHERS/society, their moral compass or how how they see/judge you. Rather how you see yourself and your relationship with yourself is what it comes down to. Hope I made sense.

Originally posted by: Angels11

Tat's y I said what if it was not her BFF's hubby. Hence this oblivious to Mauli's pain & cruelty doesnt come into the picture right? What if he was just a guy she met in Goa who saved her & she fell for him. Will we still hate her in such a scenario?

morality is very subjective in my opinion. No healthy relationship will have cheating or abuse of any kind. In an ideal world, people communicate right away and all problems are solved and there is no room for misunderstandings. We can all say that objectively cheating is wrong and the way it's portrayed in this show is horrendous but honestly, who am I to judge. I can analyze and understand where a character is coming from but that's about it. And Nandani is an interesting case to pick apart so while cheating is wrong, I like trying to understand why people do it.

Originally posted by: Angels11

I know many of us hate Nandini but if for a minute we assume that Kunal was not her BFF's hubby & she & Kunal genuinely love each other instead of this silly Kheer infatuation how many of u w'd ve sympathized with her?

Here is a woman who was abused by her hubby & never found love & finally she finds a guy who loves her. Is it wrong to be selfish & hold on to that love? What is right & What is wrong & who decides this? Society? Law?

Wanted 2 know what every1 feels about this 😳

Originally posted by: pamk06

Loving someone is not wrong. But using that love to cheat someone is wrong. I totally blame Kunal here. I feel that if he actually felt that deeply about her, he should have first told Mauli, got his baggage straighten out and then professed his love to Nandini. Same goes for her. She should have been firm on her "No" till Mauli was part of his life.

Now, the only people suffering are the women. We all have seen Mauli's pain. Nandini has lost her friend, today she lost her self-respect and dignity and God Forbid, if Kunal and Mauli reunite,she will not even have love.

What is Kunal punishment here and he is one who initiated this whole circus.

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Whatever we feel for these characters are mostly based on how they have been presented till now.

Originally posted by: Mahanathi

Whatever we feel for these characters are mostly based on how they have been presented till now.

Imagine If we were 1st presented with the divine luv story of Kunan...a physically abused Nandini who fall in luv with Kunal, her Knight in shining Armour and in turn Kunal falling for Nandini's innocence. Consider Mauli was never in picture atleast physically, then I don't think the hate Kunan are receiving will be this strong/ might be non existent too. Because in this case writers could have successfully presented Kunan's luv story even before Mauli is in the picture. So later, Mauli's tears would have made us feel sorry for her but might not have caused this utter repulsion for Kunan

But writers presented a beautiful family of Mauli &Kunal and sketched a relatable character in Mauli. Thus even before EMA started, people were feeling bad for Mauli. So it wouldn't have mattered whether Nandini is BFF of Mauli or not. Because even then we would have witnessed two completely selfish people who destroyed someone's trust and love. Maybe Kunal would have got more hate than Nandini but still she would have held accountable for giving the same pain to someother woman that she once received