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Posted: 6 years ago
#11

Originally posted by: sunshine333

Hi Drashti welcome to the forum 🤗


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Posted: 6 years ago
#12
Umm did Kunal force her?
Umm did he even care a bit abt the girl who saved her from her living hell
Umm now she wants both love and friendship is this girl planning threesome?
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Posted: 6 years ago
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welcome to forum.
I totally agree with u .
dost toh baad mein ghar ayi hai .kunal toh phele mila hai nandini se woh bhi 3 bar safe kiya hai usko tab kunal aur nandini ko thodi na pata tha yeh mouli ka husband hai mouli ki dost hai.mahan mouli thodi na mistake karegi .
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Being wronged is no excuse for doing wrong.
More than hate,Nandini irritates me. You're not a good person if you backstab a friend.
She is at best a morally ambiguous character yet she is being presented as this butter won't melt in her mouth, innocent dukhyari who has made a choti si mistake😆

This kind of dissonant,dishonest characterisation is why Nandini is being so universally disliked.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: JuniorAssistant

I have been a silent reader in this forum for a long time. And i finally made an account today just to make this post.

I want to ask why is everyone bashing nandini? I know what she did was wrong but we should also think from her point of view right. she never got love, she was always abused and tortured and beaten up by her own husband, so much so, that she has lost all her confidence, she gets scared in the smallest of things and she can never speak up for herself. when kunal started being so caring and nice towards her, it was natural that she built feelings for her. Anyone would, eso if you never got love in your life. And it is not like she is an evil [person. she never wanted to destroy mauli's life. she never wanted bad for her. it all just happened... without her knowledge. without her full conscience. now she IS feeling guillty of what she did. we all saw how much she was affected by it...she locked herself up, she was weeping like a child. she looked completely broken for breaking her friend's trust. do you guys not feel for her at all?! Mistakes can happen by anyone! even you could do it but what matters is if you're feeling bad about it or now. and in this case, nandini IS doing that. and she never had a bad intention.

I feel very bad for mauli but that doesn't mean it was all nandini's fault. we should put ourselves in her shoes and then talk.


If she never got love, it doesnot give her rights to accept love from someone whose love belongs to someone else.. If we play a part in destroying someone's life in setting up our own, we will be ridiculed...

She didn't just develop feelings, she acted on them wholeheartedly.. She went on dates with her friend's husband, slept with him and did everything possible with him..

From what I have seen, her activities are responsible for destroying Mauli's life, so how did she not want to destroy her life???

Without her knowledge and full conscience?? She was perfectly fine when she dressed up and went for dates.. She wasnt drugged or something when she slept with the man.. She is a fully grown adult, responsible for her actions.. She isn't some small child trapped by Kunal..

Her guilt sessions last shorter than a day.. The next moment she would be calling Kunal, going on dates, hugging him etc etc..

Adultery isn't a mistake, it is a crime under Indian law although females aren't punished!!!
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: Sarahbelle

If I put myself in Nandini's shoes, I would never betray my best friend. Period. I would never think of it. Yes, Nandini suffered through trauma, but her trauma didn't effect her to a point of being mentally unstable. There were never any severe disturbances to her thoughts and behaviours.

When Nandini moved on from Rajdeep, she was doing fine. She had her house, her confident started to grow (thanks to Mouli) and she was showing signs of independence. Clearly at that point her trauma didn't effect her as much as some may think.

Nandini IS an evil person. If she wasn't evil, she would show signs of regret the FIRST time she decided to mingle with her BFF's HUBBY!

Nandini fully deserves to be bashed, even that is being generous.

Also I have a question. Would you make this post if it was a different actress playing Nandini?


yes i get that. i'm not saying she's right either. she did ruin mauli's life. and mauli did not deserve this but how can we blame someone who NEVER WANTED BAD FOR HER BESTFRIEND!!! It is related to psychology. just because she was abused and deprived of love, she cling onto whoever gave her some lovw. her mind didn't fully process who that person was or what actions she was taking. yes she behaved totally normal but how can we forget her past?! she's still in that trauma. and now she is again in trauma for finally realizing that she has hurt her bestfriend. don't you all feel bad the way she locked herself up and cried her heart out when reality finally hit her?! at this point when everyone are gonna disown her, she's probably gonna be acvtually mentally sick.
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Posted: 6 years ago
#17

As you wish
You will choose things in life or even in reading
Depends on you

As for me K&N
Both are betrayers
Without shame
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Posted: 6 years ago
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What did I just read?
Its not Nandini's fault its my fault!
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Posted: 6 years ago
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when kunal started being so caring and nice towards her, it was natural that she built feelings for her.
-The above one you wrote, I have the question so Mauli's caring, love wasn't anything for her. Leave Mauli her family's love too is nothing for her. So only a man's love care is care and love. Mauli's love , care and she fighting whole world for her is nothing. Like so only romantic love, care is everything not a woman's.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: kahkashansakina

welcome to forum.

I totally agree with u .
dost toh baad mein ghar ayi hai .kunal toh phele mila hai nandini se woh bhi 3 bar safe kiya hai usko tab kunal aur nandini ko thodi na pata tha yeh mouli ka husband hai mouli ki dost hai.mahan mouli thodi na mistake karegi .


Actually it was much later when Nandini agreed to the affair and at this time she knew he was Mauli's husband.
It was much later Kunal fell for her.

They didn't fall in love at the first time. It wasn't love at first site. Both of them knew what they were doing when they were doing it.

And suppose she came to know about it later, it was fine to bang your friends's husband just because he said some sugercoated words. YEAH Right.

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