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Posted: 6 years ago
#91

Originally posted by: JuniorAssistant

I have been a silent reader in this forum for a long time. And i finally made an account today just to make this post.

I want to ask why is everyone bashing nandini? I know what she did was wrong but we should also think from her point of view right. she never got love, she was always abused and tortured and beaten up by her own husband, so much so, that she has lost all her confidence, she gets scared in the smallest of things and she can never speak up for herself. when kunal started being so caring and nice towards her, it was natural that she built feelings for her. Anyone would, eso if you never got love in your life. And it is not like she is an evil [person. she never wanted to destroy mauli's life. she never wanted bad for her. it all just happened... without her knowledge. without her full conscience. now she IS feeling guillty of what she did. we all saw how much she was affected by it...she locked herself up, she was weeping like a child. she looked completely broken for breaking her friend's trust. do you guys not feel for her at all?! Mistakes can happen by anyone! even you could do it but what matters is if you're feeling bad about it or now. and in this case, nandini IS doing that. and she never had a bad intention.

I feel very bad for mauli but that doesn't mean it was all nandini's fault. we should put ourselves in her shoes and then talk.


I am completely agree with u... She was under confident at that time. In fact she even tried to leave the city for her friend's happiness.. But when Kuna voiced out his feeling she can't deny him.. She was not completely at fault. She is vulnerable & can't think the future consequences at that time..
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Posted: 6 years ago
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I don't get when people say she was vulnerable and could be manipulated.
Sure, then how was she always consciously aware that it's not right to Mauli, to hide their affair from Mauli? How did she not feel 'taken advantage of' the next morning after sleeping with Kunal - rather she was smiling and adorning herself. One would think she feels disgusted of herself and doesn't want to see Kunal again regardless of how much she loves him.

CV's could have shown all that if they wanted to portray Nandini as bechari. They didn't, so we can't see her as bechari. We're not discussing on 'what-ifs' here.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Wbk, Kunal is the one who is the problem here. When you have a wife you can't be looking at another girl. I don't feel bad for Kunal at all, Nandini I do. Imagine being abused by a man for 7 years straight, and some how you find a man who's treating you with respect, the unfortunate part is the man who's treating her kindly has a wife at home.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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People can't be given a free pass for their mistakes just because of bad experiences that affected their mental health or just because they had a painful past experience. And Nandini never showed an ounce of guilt before the affair was exposed. Even the one time she showed what looked like guilt in the cafe scene, it wasn't guilt for betraying Mauli but only for the fact that she knows Mauli will be hurt when they tell her the truth. She wanted what her best friend had, which she herself was lacking, so she decided to eye up what her friend have. Nandini felt no guilt blushing over sleeping with her best friends husband, which is why she was acting normally the very next day with Mauli as if she hasn't just betrayed her. Nandini only cares about getting live for herself. She's thankless and has cheated somebody who got her out of hell.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: JuniorAssistant

I have been a silent reader in this forum for a long time. And i finally made an account today just to make this post.

I want to ask why is everyone bashing nandini? I know what she did was wrong but we should also think from her point of view right. she never got love, she was always abused and tortured and beaten up by her own husband, so much so, that she has lost all her confidence, she gets scared in the smallest of things and she can never speak up for herself. when kunal started being so caring and nice towards her, it was natural that she built feelings for her. Anyone would, eso if you never got love in your life. And it is not like she is an evil [person. she never wanted to destroy mauli's life. she never wanted bad for her. it all just happened... without her knowledge. without her full conscience. now she IS feeling guillty of what she did. we all saw how much she was affected by it...she locked herself up, she was weeping like a child. she looked completely broken for breaking her friend's trust. do you guys not feel for her at all?! Mistakes can happen by anyone! even you could do it but what matters is if you're feeling bad about it or now. and in this case, nandini IS doing that. and she never had a bad intention.

I feel very bad for mauli but that doesn't mean it was all nandini's fault. we should put ourselves in her shoes and then talk.

I agree with everything!
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Posted: 6 years ago
#96
Nandini is not an evil or vamp.She is the godess😛.Built a temple for her and worship her for her innocence😛.Cry and Shiver while praying to this godess, then she will give you everything😛
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: sammy17

People can't be given a free pass for their mistakes just because of bad experiences that affected their mental health or just because they had a painful past experience. And Nandini never showed an ounce of guilt before the affair was exposed. Even the one time she showed what looked like guilt in the cafe scene, it wasn't guilt for betraying Mauli but only for the fact that she knows Mauli will be hurt when they tell her the truth. She wanted what her best friend had, which she herself was lacking, so she decided to eye up what her friend have. Nandini felt no guilt blushing over sleeping with her best friends husband, which is why she was acting normally the very next day with Mauli as if she hasn't just betrayed her. Nandini only cares about getting live for herself. She's thankless and has cheated somebody who got her out of hell.


Yes and that's exactly why she's hated upto a point where she can't garner any sympathy! Nandini is beyond disgusting and it's mostly because of how her character is written and portrayed and then defended 😡 🤢
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: mattieram

I also was a silent reader of all the posts and comments. I can honestly say: Nandini is not evil!!!! I've been in Mauli's position, and it takes all parties to create this type of situation. Only hypocrites and judgmental people would make such closed minded comments. Nandini was tortured and abused by a pig of a man, the show of respect and caring was from Kunal and the rest is history. There was something lacking in Kunal and Mauli's marriage, whether knowing or not, for him to fall for Nandini. So, there is plenty of blame to go around. Kunal outgrew his feelings for Mauli, it does not mean he stopped caring for her. There is a huge difference between being IN LOVE with someone and loving someone. I feel sorry for what Mauli is going through, it's very painful. Been there!!!!! I've become a stronger and a better person for my experience. Take the positive out of this Mauli and run with it!!!!

Please stop bashing Nandini, be kind and understanding.


And Kunal outgrew his love for Mauli completely in just 2 days. WOW. SO much for being a man who was high on morals.
And let's suppose he was no longer in love with her, then why not go for divorce & end the marriage. People fall out of love & they divorce if they are sensible enough before getting into new relationships. No big deal about it. But cheating just because you fell out of love while the other partner is trying hard to make a relationship work is stabbing & insulting their intentions & hard work. This is harassment at the workplace of marriage since you know you don't intend to reward the person for their work but still you allow him/her to continue working because apparently that person is stupid enough to not think about the fact that that the spouse no longer feels about you the same way.
If Kunal really cared for her, then why was he not brave enough to speak the truth & go behind her back to have an affair. Why was he waiting for Mauli to ask him & only then he would have told her the truth.

Nandini might not be wrong in falling for him but she was definitely wrong in acting on it in her full conscience without even giving a damn thought to Mauli when she was doing it.

If my partner didn't feel about me the same way, then I expect him to say that the relationship isn't working anymore & we should get a divorce. I will be broken but I will accept the honesty. But if he goes around to cheat & if I come to know about it, high chances are I would never be able to forgive him for the act.
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Posted: 6 years ago
#99

Originally posted by: arorasurbhi


I am completely agree with u... She was under confident at that time. In fact she even tried to leave the city for her friend's happiness.. But when Kuna voiced out his feeling she can't deny him.. She was not completely at fault. She is vulnerable & can't think the future consequences at that time..


OK. So she knew about the consequences of future a few moments ago while she was leaving & suddenly, her brain got into permanent switch off mode to even think about the future consequences. She didn't think about this again when Mauli came to her home that day. WOW.

She was so vulnerable for 5 complete days for 5*24*60*60 seconds, that she didn't realize the future consequences at all. WOW. Why is she realizing it now? Why does she feel bad now? Because she didn't know what would be impact of stabbing, because she didn't know that she would die.

Either I would call her a mental patient who needs to be checked at highest level & admitted to an asylum (which would excuse the wrong on grounds of mental illness) OR she would simply be called a selfish woman with loose conscience that would make her culprit. Since makers don't want to show her as a mental patient, so I will have stick to other option.
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Posted: 6 years ago
Nandani is never wrong... really? You can't just go around and sleep with your so call bestie. Shame of her

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