My pov about this show

I have been silently reading so many posts here some saying Kunal is wrong and some nandini and some that this serial itself is wrong or has a wrong msg..

So true

Originally posted by: NamuVyas

I have been silently reading so many posts here some saying Kunal is wrong and some nandini and some that this serial itself is wrong or has a wrong msg..

In my pov..the msg is what u perceive.. and this is an on going story..somewhere they will draw a conclusion line to all that's happening now.. it doesn't mean that every woman who gets helped by her best friend ends up in relationship with her husband or that every husband out of no where falls in love with his wife's best friend.. the show is to make u understand what forbidden relationships lead to..if ppl have watched saans a serial that came years ago had a similar plot line.. it was infact way bold anf ahead of it's times..

Coming to Kunal and nandini.. their condition at d moment is only an attraction..cos either of them have had opposite partners .. nandini all her life only saw abusive and disrespectful men.. she somehow has had no spine what so ever.. meeting a person like Kunal has been so different that she almost believes that there is noone else like him and her attraction was instant.. and even Kunal, mauli has been an independent woman and so is his mother and grandmother..he for one saw and met a vulnerable innocent woman and his attraction just grew.. both in their world totally forgot about mauli.. at the moment they r not even bothered.. but at some point the bubble will burst.. their attraction is not something that will take them too far.. they will see the mirror soon enough to realise where they are.. and that's what d show is about and heading to.. the show is about constant changing relationships.. and thats not limited to only kunan and mauli..as yet I don't find the show glorifying anything or anyone..

I have seen a lot of shows with vamps tryin to forever come between d lead couple and it just goes on and on . At least this show is being realistic and steadily moving in d right direction..

Nice to read your message, you have explained it well, probably gives another perspective.

I agree to what u have said but important is that what u mean is that their love is not love but attraction , as u also agree that it can't be love since u don't get the person matching your likes dislikes alwars but when u love someone that does not matter as the person matters so u adjust to his likes like he she might adjust to your's. Hope same you are putting forth. But in that case the serial has to go this way where they show what both of them feel is attraction otherwise again does not make sense.

Why does not make sense is because Mauli's character is of a person who is kind hearted, cares for people, cares for her husband, friend plus if v say maybe he loves the other lady as his wife is not beautiful ( though when u love someone external beauty might not matter after a certain time) still if u consider that thus he falls for Nandini then even that is not the case here. So does it mean a man does not need any reason to fall in love with another woman no matter that his wife is good in every way. If they show this is love it will mean they just have to show what they want to even though there is absolutely no sense to it.

Coming to Nandini agree that she is bound to love Kunal as she has not seen someone so caring so good. But again she would have been right out on the road there if not for Mauli. In real life if u meet someone so good so genuine who has saved you from what might have been the worst phase of your life then how can u not even think once about that person. Will that person not be everything for you. You might strive to do anything for that one person and that here for Nandini can only be Mauli. They have also shown that she has some college friend who is really good though they did not show him later to know more abt him. But he also cares for Nandini then why does she not feel like settling with him. If caring and being good is what matters to her then she Could have atleast given him a chance.

I hope you agree

Originally posted by: Reshmi.parekh78

Nice to read your message, you have explained it well, probably gives another perspective.

I agree to what u have said but important is that what u mean is that their love is not love but attraction , as u also agree that it can't be love since u don't get the person matching your likes dislikes alwars but when u love someone that does not matter as the person matters so u adjust to his likes like he she might adjust to your's. Hope same you are putting forth. But in that case the serial has to go this way where they show what both of them feel is attraction otherwise again does not make sense.

Why does not make sense is because Mauli's character is of a person who is kind hearted, cares for people, cares for her husband, friend plus if v say maybe he loves the other lady as his wife is not beautiful ( though when u love someone external beauty might not matter after a certain time) still if u consider that thus he falls for Nandini then even that is not the case here. So does it mean a man does not need any reason to fall in love with another woman no matter that his wife is good in every way. If they show this is love it will mean they just have to show what they want to even though there is absolutely no sense to it.

Coming to Nandini agree that she is bound to love Kunal as she has not seen someone so caring so good. But again she would have been right out on the road there if not for Mauli. In real life if u meet someone so good so genuine who has saved you from what might have been the worst phase of your life then how can u not even think once about that person. Will that person not be everything for you. You might strive to do anything for that one person and that here for Nandini can only be Mauli. They have also shown that she has some college friend who is really good though they did not show him later to know more abt him. But he also cares for Nandini then why does she not feel like settling with him. If caring and being good is what matters to her then she Could have atleast given him a chance.

I hope you agree

Originally posted by: Twenty1st

i agree on the notion of the vamps always interfering lol

So yes Silsila does have a message maybe, one that would be delivered at the end of the show maybe for those that are complaining about the glorification of EMA. I so hope neither mauli or nandini turn evil, nor does Mauli die. I want a proper redemption.

For me Silsila is anything but a glorification because before i came here EMA was wrong, and no matter what it is still wrong. So for me there isn't no glorification because i trully wanted to one of the viewes that walked out of Silsila with a changed perception, maybe where i can say that it depends on the invidual and situations but i can't? So Silsila regardless of the music and the references to devinity isn't glorfying EMA for me at least, and both Kunal and Nandini are wrong, Kunal is more wronger (i know not a word lol) lol

BTW welcome to Silsila forum

That is an interesting perspective. I personally do not want to see anyone turn negative or die on the show.The makers should finish what they started sensibly and without dragging.

I think this show has happened in real life hema malini.nothing to be surprised about actually

I don't really watch the show often, but I watched the past couple of episodes to see what the furore was about. The only issue I have got is the absence of an ounce of guilt. Neither Kunal nor Nandini feels anything off.