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Posted: 7 years ago
#31

Originally posted by: priyachand2008


i am soo happy to see u too! its nice to read sensible comments like yours! Missed u from MB days!

its interesting to note that viewers (atleast a few of them!) still wanting candyfloss romance or fight and then fall in love kind of romance only! how long can we see that? Come on, this is reality! /why not see something closer to reality for a change. i do agree there can be lot of improvements in scenes or even characters. no one is saying this show is perfect. we can discuss that like sensible adults, instead of all getting into moral high platform!

People who dont like such shows, should stop watching it? why watch it and get all worked up? And waste their precious time on a show they dont even like. surprising to see there are many people like that from the posts in the forum.

after MB, i did try watchign a few shows, a few i liked, a few i didnt. i stopped watching them. we do have multiple channels now, not as if we just have one or two.

This show makers did not lie abt anything. they said its abt EMA, and naturally they are going to show EMA!! did people think affair happens only in their mind?


Missed you and all too Priya..❤️
yup if I am not interested in watching a show ..will not waste my time going to give feedback and even to keep an eye on what is happening?
either will not start it or leave it when I won't like..
this show ofcourse I started for DD at first and loving her performance...but having said that before also I have watched shows related to this subject ..and have watched them not from a fans POV but as a general viewer and liked them too ..yes char were wrong there too..but they paid for it too in end ..and the shows were executed well too.
and here too now..liking other actors too as well..

so I have no prob with concept and for me DD and all are doing fab ..
yes there can be lots of improvement as you said and yes ..to watch something close to reality even I like now..
and not only EMA ..they are showing other serious stuff too ..like victims of abusive marriage ..
how a perfect couple and marriage in today's world are not in actually that much perfect and slowly slowly where they are lacking comes out ..
how people changed ..how couples changed ..
pheww. sorry for my long reply again ..but it truly feels good to do a healthy discussion.😳
good night.










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Posted: 7 years ago
#32
EMA not good ... U can't justify it with any excuse
What Kunal and Nandani both r doing , it is wrong.
EMA is always painful .
Marriage or friendship is not a play of children.
They both relationships r pure and u can't destroy them for some stupid attraction or emotions.
😡
And people r trying to justify it , now I m shocked.
When u faces cheating then it is wrong otherwise we r modern and can handle it because it is normal thing. 😡

Still Mauli has not done anything wrong which can lead Kunal for EMA.
Kunal and Nandani have not any strong excuse to justify their cheating behaviour.
I m also modern girl but I don't support EMA.
If your partner has done something biggest which unbearable in marriage then
Go and give divorce her or his then play true love - true love.

What u wrote it is your view but in my view what they did , it is totally unbearable 😡
If Kunal and Nandani reality ke characters hote na then
I shell give a tight slap to both of them .

And Nandani , when her husband cheated her , it was painful for her
But when her best friend's husband is doing same thing with his wife then it is love and happiness for her.
And what about some viewers yaar , why r double standards for both Rajdeep and Kunal.
If Kunal cheats her wife with other woman then it is emotions with some flaws or true love or it is fault of his wife.

But for Rajdeep , it is biggest sin and his wife is victim...
Great 👏


In my eyes , both r cheaters and wrong.
And I pray to God please don't give any girl a husband like them. 😡

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Posted: 7 years ago
#33
One more thing , I think u have forgot written about Rajdeep .
So Rajdeep also right on his place , right because he have his own emotions.
There is no difference between Rajdeep and Kunal buddy
Both r cheater husbands and made fun of a pure relationship.
Only Rajdeep did it openly and Kunal is doing it behind lots of lies and innocent face.
Rajdeep tortured Nandani physically and mentally while Kunal did not do it physically but
Mentally , he is going to damage mauli till unforgivable limit.

If Rajdeep is criminal than Kunal is also in same category for me.
Both r wives abusers... Cheater husbands 😡

There is no excuse to justify or forgive both of them

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Posted: 7 years ago
#34

Originally posted by: vani.jug

Thank you for this post!!! It explains everything I've been thinking so nicely, especially the part about it being a different concept from the traditional Pride & Prejudice genre. I agree that none of the characters are evil (except Rajdeep). The show is just showing us the perspective of people caught up in a situation where I guess they don't know what to do. Obviously cheaters are always wrong but in my opinion this TV show is not to be blamed, it's a fantastic show so far.



Thank you 😊
you have beautifully summed it up⭐️...
yes..the show is fantastic... 😳
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Posted: 7 years ago
#35

Originally posted by: RM14


so glad we met here again..😃

and CV's have to be more careful now to show these char actions ..I just hope no char will be ruined for the sake of twists and turns.



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yes the creatives have promised not to spoil the story for the TRP's sake... its a good thing ...
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Posted: 7 years ago
#36

Originally posted by: alovi_21

Beautiful post beautifuly described , i am. Happy some ppl. Who are really interested in this show are watching watching with open mind, so mote or less having same opinion about th e show, i am also trying to understand all Three char as per their angle kunun falling in love for each other not making them bad, they are still same personality. Just acting different out of love, inside they are still nice.

No doubt makers are doing gt job Now anything is happening When they are in extreme situation , so i will say, its situation which is playing imp role rather than char themself

I just hope due to some pressure or something ,they should'n't spoil any char, all three are not negative they have their o wn flaws but no one is negative that is actually beauty of the show.
Interesting this this story can go any direction ,u can't predict.
Enjoying .



Thank you 😳
Exactly ..the people who really watch for the story have really nice opinions... so many wonderful posts. even when the hate posts try to spoil the essence of the show ... the show is still rocking the online charts in the Top 5 🥳
and yes the story is unpredictable which is the highlight 👏


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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: -Lehar-

What a well balanced post dear ...very well said



Thank you very much 😊
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Posted: 7 years ago
#38

Thank you 😳
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Posted: 7 years ago
#39

Originally posted by: surabhi01

I use to read that when Kunal fell.attracted toward Nandini .those who r crictizing Nandini .use to say that if Nandini has fallen in love with Kunal then it will look still understandable natural.because Kunal has help her many times and Nandini has suffered domestic violence since 7 years


but Kunal fall in love with Nandini look unnatural


but when Nandini has fallen in love with Kunal . people r crictizing Nandini
. pehle to yaha kaha jaata tha if Nandini fallen in love with Kunal it will look natural

ab kya natural nahi lagta ?



we shouldn't worry about criticizing ...because only a few among them are truly criticizing for the story while the others just want to demean the actors for the sake of it... they will either way do it for their own pleasure...




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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: priyachand2008

Bella!!!!

You made a post and i didnt know!!! how could you!!! 😭😭

aawww i totally forgot to post it it whatsapp priii 🤗 love you...

But what a post! The most well balanced perspective of the show! you have beautifully explained the different chr and their relationship with one another! 👏👏

coming from you i'm honored ... because you have always been the most balanced critic of this show..😳.

As u have already explained i dont have anything to add to the chrs. But i want to talk abt today's episode. i read somewhere that is this the reaction of abused victim? According to psychological studies, when people undergo life threatening incidents or scare, their first reaction with their loved one is to reiterate the life - and making love is one such reaction. Today nandini and kunal's action was the reaction for nandini's shock and kunal's love. Sometimes love doesnt care for boundaries. Kunal is definitely wrong from mouli and society's perspective and he has to face the music for it. but isnt this story about such people. these are real people. And you cant completely blame them. there must have been a lacuna in mouli kunal relationship, that he ended up falling for nandini.

yes pri..i completely agree with you on the above 👏👏👏..

As bella said, Mouli decides most of the things in their life. kunal ends up going along with her. Even her surprise, kunal's clinic, she decides everything and plans to gift it to him. Having a doctor as my sister in law, i know she wd like to decide where her clinic should be and what all she needs. Mouli acts the man in their relationship. on the other hand, Nandini needed Kunal, not just for protection, but as one to give advice, counsel and care which slowly turned to love. i dont think she deliberately looked out to fall for kunal. she infact was clueless when kunal was grappling with his sudden found love for nandini (that was too sudden for me but believable in its physicality). Circumstances and incidents made her get close to him. Again that doesnt give them any licence for any affair. But if kunal and nandini were that perfect couple, no nandini could have created any ripples.

priii you need to make this as a separate post... its awesome👏... and this forum is full of hatred n negative Sh**... which is too much to handle... ppl are blaming just for the sake of it... i wish they concentrate more on what they like instead of hating this show on a regular basis 😡

I too want them to confess to mouli and face the situation bravely. it is going to be very tough but it is better than to continue their affair on sly. Both of them are not that kind of people and mouli too doesn't deserve that.

yes... they better come out with the truth soon... but the show needs drama na... the drama comes only when mauli witnesses it instead of they coming out clean...

Coming to Mouli and Nandini friendship, that is a very delicate situation. given a choice, this shouldnt have happend but nandini is first time fallen in love and she does try to stop it, tries to run away and keep away. But she couldnt. who is perfect in this life? Nandini is one such chr who is a victim who ends up looking love in the place she least expected.

but i saw a glimpse of how mauli s behavior would be when she gets to know KUNAN... the scene where she is angry with nandini for lying? she was a different mauli... that's what we will get to see when she finds out...and yes pri...she got the love in the place least expected...

Why are we looking for perfect chrs in tv shows? dont we have male chrs marrying multiple partners are having love children? So why such moral policing in this show? i might have problems with chr or scenes, but all of us know this show is about EMA, so why are ppl this upset now? Do we have any justified EMA? such ppl might probably will be ok if the wife is bedridden or in coma or is evil incarnate. that is so stereotypical. i remember shakthi telling, no one is bad in this story.

👏👏👏Pls do make a post dear... nobody writes better than you... wanted pennu to make a post as well... i need to tell her too...

so lets look at it just as a story and enjoy it, argue about it not get worked up over it.

the problem here is ppl are over worked up on a show which they hate 😆

thanks bella for this topic! loved writing in this post.

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