Bella!!!!
You made a post and i didnt know!!! how could you!!! 😭😭
But what a post! The most well balanced perspective of the show! you have beautifully explained the different chr and their relationship with one another! 👏👏
As u have already explained i dont have anything to add to the chrs. But i want to talk abt today's episode. i read somewhere that is this the reaction of abused victim? According to psychological studies, when people undergo life threatening incidents or scare, their first reaction with their loved one is to reiterate the life - and making love is one such reaction. Today nandini and kunal's action was the reaction for nandini's shock and kunal's love. Sometimes love doesnt care for boundaries. Kunal is definitely wrong from mouli and society's perspective and he has to face the music for it. but isnt this story about such people. these are real people. And you cant completely blame them. there must have been a lacuna in mouli kunal relationship, that he ended up falling for nandini.
As bella said, Mouli decides most of the things in their life. kunal ends up going along with her. Even her surprise, kunal's clinic, she decides everything and plans to gift it to him. Having a doctor as my sister in law, i know she wd like to decide where her clinic should be and what all she needs. Mouli acts the man in their relationship. on the other hand, Nandini needed Kunal, not just for protection, but as one to give advice, counsel and care which slowly turned to love. i dont think she deliberately looked out to fall for kunal. she infact was clueless when kunal was grappling with his sudden found love for nandini (that was too sudden for me but believable in its physicality). Circumstances and incidents made her get close to him. Again that doesnt give them any licence for any affair. But if kunal and nandini were that perfect couple, no nandini could have created any ripples.
I too want them to confess to mouli and face the situation bravely. it is going to be very tough but it is better than to continue their affair on sly. Both of them are not that kind of people and mouli too doesn't deserve that.
Coming to Mouli and Nandini friendship, that is a very delicate situation. given a choice, this shouldnt have happend but nandini is first time fallen in love and she does try to stop it, tries to run away and keep away. But she couldnt. who is perfect in this life? Nandini is one such chr who is a victim who ends up looking love in the place she least expected.
Why are we looking for perfect chrs in tv shows? dont we have male chrs marrying multiple partners are having love children? So why such moral policing in this show? i might have problems with chr or scenes, but all of us know this show is about EMA, so why are ppl this upset now? Do we have any justified EMA? such ppl might probably will be ok if the wife is bedridden or in coma or is evil incarnate. that is so stereotypical. i remember shakthi telling, no one is bad in this story.
so lets look at it just as a story and enjoy it, argue about it not get worked up over it.
thanks bella for this topic! loved writing in this post.
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