Are people really blaming mouli???

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Posted: 7 years ago
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I seriously cant believe this
People r blaming mouli for the ema of kunan
Come on every relationship doesnt have all good n merry days
There r best good bad n worse moments in every marriage
Just like u cherish the good moments u have to face d bad moments
Mouli is working day n night because kunal isnt working
What vl they eat if mouli ignores her work... Air??? Husbands give less time to families in work pressure.. When that is okay then y not its ok for women??? U think its easy to survive in this competitive environment with such mindset
Also if kunal had a problem with mouli then they both should sit down discuss n solve d problem
If every men n women starts having affair just bcoz their relationship is going through rough phase then there vl be hardly any married couples...
Nandini was in dark.. Mouli brought life to her
If there is anyone to blame then its kunal n nandini not mouli
Its just like saying u got raped bcoz u were wearing revealing clothes

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Posted: 7 years ago
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Mauli was and is not at fault .
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Posted: 7 years ago
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it is not about blaming but in every relationship that breaks, it is a tango. even if it was completely the other person's fault, there are some things that we can always handle better. when it becomes all about blaming the other person, we miss the opportunity to become better people ourselves.

had a friend who went through a divorce after he repeated cheated on her with several women (liked a fast party lifestyle) and her lesson was to not be so meek and also that meekness wasn't a crime either. basically find a balance. now does that mean she was responsible for his actions? no. it is all about accepting the role you play and seeing what you could have done better.

in our society, we tend to see people as black and white. but that is not the case. even good people have flaws and things they can work on and improve.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Marriage happens with two different people. You can't expect one to read the others mind miraculously and do as per his or her wish. Then where is the fault of mouli if Kunal doesn't speak anything to her. He is acting in front of her from the beginning and even now. In marriage you can express what your needs are. If he had been vocal about having private time with mouli without Nandini I don't think mouli would lash at him and be angry. It is not in her nature she is the mature woman one and will definitely understand him.
I don't see the point of blaming her. Like Tm said rape attributed to clothes.

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