Ditching your Man when he is high on Testosterone

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Anjali

@arshi_asya

Dazzler

Posted: 7 years ago

#61

Originally posted by: -Lehar-
Apne favourite character ko kuch kaha tho sab aagye apne feminism ke baatein lekar feminism ko support karna only limited to mauli ?...jab nandini going through hell with rajdeep why no one said anything ...when people bashing other character with disgusting words tab feminism yaad nahi aaya tab maza leje enjoy kar rahe the

Is feminism such a loose word to be involved in every argument. This has nothing to do with feminism.

Nandini is being blamed from the time when baba told her something and the conclusion she reached. It was good for her to put a fight for that too. But the whole thing messed up when Nandini said Yes to Kubal without even considering so many things.

Everyone knew why she would fall for Kunal from the very first episode. Wasn't Nandini appreciated when she put up a good fight for herself, for her life against Rajdeep. Makers are trying to ruin such a potential character with the haste of showing an affair and everyone is saying the same thing. The whole affair actually makes her the other woman at this stage.

Feminism is about equality and that's in everything, good or bad. Nandini is being called upon to have agreed to Kunal's persuasion so fast at this stage when this thing will backfire on her and not be guilty of it.

Prevention is better than cure.

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amortentia15

@amortentia15

Dazzler

Posted: 7 years ago

#62

Originally posted by: Arnav90

Mauli is a devi, She wanted her frnd to have all the happiness so she sacrificed her hubby for her, In future she may get them married

That's your opinion and thinking and you are completely entitled to it.. But I don't think thats a very plausible scenario..getting her hubby married you know

Anyway I just realised the futility of commenting on this post...

Wont happen again...

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Charu

@Krinya

Trailblazer

+ 8

Posted: 7 years ago

#63

Originally posted by: arshi_asya

Is feminism such a loose word to be involved in every argument. This has nothing to do with feminism.

Nandini is being blamed from the time when baba told her something and the conclusion she reached. It was good for her to put a fight for that too. But the whole thing messed up when Nandini said Yes to Kubal without even considering so many things.

Everyone knew why she would fall for Kunal from the very first episode. Wasn't Nandini appreciated when she put up a good fight for herself, for her life against Rajdeep. Makers are trying to ruin such a potential character with the haste of showing an affair and everyone is saying the same thing. The whole affair actually makes her the other woman at this stage.

Feminism is about equality and that's in everything, good or bad. Nandini is being called upon to have agreed to Kunal's persuasion so fast at this stage when this thing will backfire on her and not be guilty of it.

Prevention is better than cure.

Yes.. why and how will nandini not receive any backlash ? She and kunal will ruin a lot of lives for their love . I blame kunal more because he was this perfect husband ..nandinis reasons are understandable but now that she has acted upon her feelings , without giving a thought to mauli , she has fallen in the same category as kunal . If kunal was attracted towards her and if mauli acted blind , nandini also acted blind ..yes mauli couldn't guess what was happening around her but how did nandini not a get a hint that kunal is eyeing her ? And if she wanted , , she could have firmly said no or take some time to understand her feelings..

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Jiggy7

@Jiggy7

Stunner

+ 4

Posted: 7 years ago

#64

Originally posted by: Arnav90

Yes writers need to be blamed.. They are showing Mauli realises her shortcomings, apologises even if its not her fault and she had no direct control over circumstances, and tries to make up.. 😉

Again writers need to be blamed.. The only interaction that Kunal and Nandini have revolved around food, dance or saving from accidents..

Kal ko every military and NDRF personnel saving victims during floods, fires start saying we are in love with each other kya hoga??😆😆

Ab logon ke favorite chef hote hai and tend to visit those restaurants often.. If they start saying hum bepannah pyaar karte hai to kya hoga??😆😆

The raindance episode had title ''Kunal realises love for Nandini".. Usse pehle do teen baar baat kie honge maximun.. Agar channel waale bolenge ye love hai.. To viewers kaise react karenge?? Obviously bolenge its lust!! Kunal ke uncontrollable hormones hai ye.. He is behaving as some teenager not a matured doctor...

Waah waah kal ko agar kuch medical problems hue ya wives pregnancy ke wajah se available nahi hai ya wife office may busy hai.. Aadmi affair kare.. YE WIFE KI GALTI HAI SHE WASN'T AVAILABLE TO SERVE HER HUSBAND'S RAGING HORMONES!!!! Husband bichara kitna maasum hai.. Wife ko chod thodi na raha hai bas uske piche affair kar raha hai...😕😕

She is a doctor.. She doesn't plan emergencies.. They can come anytime.. The right question is whether Kunal isn't a good enough doctor that he is called during emergencies!!!! 😛

If someone as good as Mauli exists, the only reason a man strays is he needs variety and there in some problem in his character not the other way around!!!

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Bobby Ghosh

@bobby13rocks

Stunner

+ 5

Posted: 7 years ago

#65

Good one Arnav 😆

Actually Mauli's flaws are never highlighted either by the writer or by KuNan bashers

Ok KuNan is at fault I agree but what about Mauli??

She has been the catalyst for the growing closeness of Kunan..Now she admits to Nandini that she didnt pay the much needed attention to Kunal..

The awesomeness of the show lies in fact that it's very realistic..

The characters are more or less are flawed & that makes the show even more interesting..

So instead of bashing the characters or the actors we should sit back & enjoy this hatke concept with popcorn

Edited by bobby13rocks - 7 years ago

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Anjali

@arshi_asya

Dazzler

Posted: 7 years ago

#66

Originally posted by: _charu_

Yes.. why and how will nandini not receive any backlash ? She and kunal will ruin a lot of lives for their love . I blame kunal more because he was this perfect husband ..nandinis reasons are understandable but now that she has acted upon her feelings , without giving a thought to mauli , she has fallen in the same category as kunal . If kunal was attracted towards her and if mauli acted blind , nandini also acted blind ..yes mauli couldn't guess what was happening around her but how did nandini not a get a hint that kunal is eyeing her ? And if she wanted , , she could have firmly said no or take some time to understand her feelings..

It's fine if Nandini didn't know that Kunal was eyeing her. How should she know? No one in their wildest dream would think that. But then Nandini did come to know about it when Kunal confessed it to her, and then what did she do? Nothing. She just complied. Let's suppose that she did it in the moment of weakness but what about later when she had time to think. A moment of weakness doesn't last long. Poeple have one night stands in moment of weakness and desire but the very next morning they reach a realization and act according to it. There is nothing like constant moment of weakness. It's the weakness/weak will if it's constant.

Nandini reminds me of a girl from college with whom everyone used to sympathize, fight for her, even guided her when she felt confused but she didn't adhere to any. She just had to do what she had to it and we were the ones to clean her mess. And no one can imagine what she was called by every single person who knew her, not even her brothers used to spare her when it came to namecalling, and we felt ashamed of her being called that.

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Mishfan

@Mishfan

Dazzler

Posted: 7 years ago

#67

Omg, what the ... ????

My head is spinning reading this post

Like really ...It's like going backwards in time .

I mean , is Mauli, a professional doctor obligated to fulfill her Husband's (a doctor too )

Sexual desires when he wants or even on the occasions you mentioned ??

For heavens sake, she is in a noble profession dedicated to saving lives.

Yes, Work takes precedence over family & the rest in certain professions &

Being a Doctor is one such.

Infact Kunal himself ( if existed for real ) would disagree with your argument.

The rest of the arguments don't make sense either at least to me to

justify that Mouli is at fault & sort of responsible for their affair.😕

Agreed that Mauli is not perfect & has her own flaws. She is after all human

But no way will I hold her responsible for it.

IMO, her biggest flaw is her total Trust in them, the people whom she loves & adores

That speaks of her kindness, not her fault.

I blame it on the writers for showing her to be so trustworthy.

your title should read... " Ditched his wife while he's high on Testosterone "

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-Lehar-

@-Lehar-

Inactive

+ 4

Posted: 7 years ago

#68

Originally posted by: arshi_asya

It's fine if Nandini didn't know that Kunal was eyeing her. How should she know? No one in their wildest dream would think that. But then Nandini did come to know about it when Kunal confessed it to her, and then what did she do? Nothing. She just complied. Let's suppose that she did it in the moment of weakness but what about later when she had time to think. A moment of weakness doesn't last long. Poeple have one night stands in moment of weakness and desire but the very next morning they reach a realization and act according to it. There is nothing like constant moment of weakness. It's the weakness/weak will if it's constant.

Nandini reminds me of a girl from college with whom everyone used to sympathize, fight for her, even guided her when she felt confused but she didn't adhere to any. She just had to do what she had to it and we were the ones to clean her mess. And no one can imagine what she was called by every single person who knew her, not even her brothers used to spare her when it came to namecalling, and we felt ashamed of her being called that.

That's what I am saying nandini came to know abiuy kunal feelings very much later of that rain dance my question was very clear at that moment when people bashed her for dancing in rain and said she was teying attract kunal why no one said any thing that time we don't know wether nandini gonna resciprocate kunal feelings or not ...and I didnt say why u guys are not supporting nandini in current situation...nandin was constantly blamed in this forum even before baba came into the picture baba aane se pahele tak tho usne koi galti nahi kiya na tab kaha gaye ye sab morals and lectures

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Ardhanarishwara

@Ardhanarishwara

Dazzler

Posted: 7 years ago

#69

Everyday I get to read a new hypothesis supporting EMA. 👏👏

I hope their favs won't chose the role of a rapist in next serial varna we will get to read new theories supporting that too.

Hormones are never wrong whether they end up doing adultery or rape or pedophilia because of it he na?🤢🤢

They will say it's just a show and we are watching it for entertainment and the rapist and victim has amazing chemistry that overpowers everything else.

"The fault is his wife's she should not have left him high and dry (for something important) otherwise he wouldn't have committed this crime- oh sorry not crime just a mistake"

And "hey why are you calling him rapist, you can't bash him using such words ,he just lost control for a few minute and ended up forcing himself on some lady/child.criticism can be done in a polite way too with out using such bad words."

Arey yar Rapist ko rapist nai kahenge to aur kya kahenge?

Same way ,the one who cheat will be called cheater,which Kunal is

One who backstabs will be called backstabber which Nandini is.

How does speaking the truth become bashing?

Saying movies or television don't influence people's mind is the most stupidest thing...

I still remember reading about 2 cases of crimes(one murder and other one I don't remember) where the criminals admitted to being inspired by Drishyam(Malayalam) movie..it was reported in our newspapers..you can google it if you don't trust me.

Edited by Ardhanarishwara - 7 years ago

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Rosh4rose

@Rosh4rose

Sparkler

+ 5

Posted: 7 years ago

#70

Originally posted by: Mishfan
Omg, what the ... ????
My head is spinning reading this post
Like really ...It's like going backwards in time .
I mean , is Mauli, a professional doctor obligated to fulfill her Husband's (a doctor too )
Sexual desires when he wants or even on the occasions you mentioned ??

For heavens sake, she is in a noble profession dedicated to saving lives.
Yes, Work takes precedence over family & the rest in certain professions &
Being a Doctor is one such.
Infact Kunal himself ( if existed for real ) would disagree with your argument.

The rest of the arguments don't make sense either at least to me to
justify that Mouli is at fault & sort of responsible for their affair.😕

Agreed that Mauli is not perfect & has her own flaws. She is after all human
But no way will I hold her responsible for it.
IMO, her biggest flaw is her total Trust in them, the people whom she loves & adores
That speaks of her kindness, not her fault.
I blame it on the writers for showing her to be so trustworthy.

your title should read... " Ditched his wife while he's high on Testosterone "