Only those we love have power to destroy us..

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Posted: 7 years ago
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She loved Nandini like a sister..Took baby steps with her.. They shared each other's expertise, made each other better, strenghtened each other..
One incident where Nandini's fiance tries to violate her, she expects Nandini to be her defendant, to stand by her and say 'Everything will be alright.. Go ahead and file a case.. I will stand behind you.. I will fight the world for you this time if they question your character and values..'
But alas the one she was expecting to trust her believed her to be a mean creature to be jealous of her!!
She died a little that day.. But she didn't let that incident break her.. She feel and rose again to conquer the world.. She forgave but didn't forget.. She didnt give her power to destroy her again. She didn't let the incident break her confidence or smash her positivity.. SHE BUILD A NEW LIFE FOR HERSELF..


Her mother continuosly berated her for not being traditional enough, for not jumping into motherhood before she wasn't ready, for not being financially more helpful to her mother, for trusting her friend, for every small mistake that may or may not be hers..
But she didn't give into her inconsiderate demands.. She stood her ground.. She believed in herself and tried to give her mother small small happiness.. She didn't chide her.. She understood where she came from, she was just a mother who wanted her children's happiness based on what she had experienced in her own life, she wanted them to have a secure future though her ways may be wrong..


She found her friend under immense physical and mental duress.. She forgot all past differences after one emotional reunion.. She sensed her helplessness and misery though the circumstances and dialogues suggested otherwise.. She delved deeper and assured her support..
Her friend tried to contact her.. She used all her resources at her disposal to save her.. She held her hand and said,
'Everything will be alright.. Go ahead and file a case.. I will stand behind you.. I will fight the world for you this time if they question your character and values..'
She fought the devil with all her might to safeguard her friend.. She suffered backlash but didn't leave the needy hand.. Even when her MIL and dida were not favourable, she didn't loose hope.. She was still positive she will be able to fight for her friend.. She didn't give into societal pressure and abandon her friend.. She stood up for what she believed is right and challenged the world..
She finds solace in her friend's presense, forgets her worries and prepares to improve herself not knowing the same person is this time stabbing her from behind, butchering her trust, love and friendship.. But she will not fail.. She will learn her lessons once again the hard way.. SHE WILL FIGHT THIS TIME FOR HERSELF..


She loved her husband with all her being.. She never strayed from her vows and promises.. She nurtured a loving family for them.. She accepted his family as hers.. She loved them as her own.. She created a place for herself in everyone's heart.. She was never the cause of any confrontation but always the part of the solution..
She made his dream hers, his needs hers, his passion hers.. She planned to make his aspirations successful.. She accepted everything, his friendliness, his anger, his care, his love, his beliefs, his values, his decisions.. She didn't question them but rather saw the inherent goodness in them..
She trusts him with everything not knowing he has already strayed.. She tries to hold onto him not knowing he is no more interested in being hers.. She will loose everything the day she is confronted with truth.. She may go into depression and self-loathing.. But she will rise and win again..
SHE WILL FALL IN LOVE AGAIN BUT THIS TIME WITH HERSELF..

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Posted: 7 years ago
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Hey I completely understand. My heart goes to M, she will be completely heartbroken

Things like betrayal, EMA and all, makes people scared of love and commitment. It's scary tbh.
Edited by Y12345 - 7 years ago
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Wonderful again!! I love reading your thoughts on Mauli...
Its the wounds that are invisible that hurt the most! Breaking a heart is probably one of the most grave sins one can commit because neither the wound nor the scars are visible but they break you from within...
Imagine if a husband cheats it becomes the end of the world for a lot of women...now here even the best friend comes into the equation...
She has only given to the people around her...without any expectations...
I'd love to see her journey... She will love again this time herself you are right and she will find love again, she will find her perfect someone...if anyone is deserving of pure love in this show it is her...
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Excellent post it shows their character doesn't it? Nandini, Kunal and Mauli. She is a true friend who believed good in people and thought trusting the ones whom you love is worth the fight. She fought with everyone for her friend and how does her friend repays her? Forget friend what about her own husband?

Losing a friend you consider your sister your family is worse than losing your partner. The worse thing is they had to make Nandini a victim to justify her cheating, okay fine then what is that useless pink lipstick's guys excuse? He says he tried so hard? How? By longing looks, giving gifts? And couldn't even stay away one full day. Oh he tried so hard

I find Nandini at fault here and equally so - being abused doesn't give anyone the right to hurt others. You know abusers are abused too does that mean we have to forgive them too? No we don't - then when a survivor is wrong then I will speak about that too.

Hiding your friends husband? The same man who said it's sacred? Give me another one!!!!

I want Mauli to totally ignore these two when she finds out - if she becomes negative (given what she has gone through will totally justify that) then those two the so called pious lot will justify their behaviour and I don't want that. I want her to succeed with or without a new man, show these two what they lost, and hold her head high and survive.



You are absolutely right that when she first spoke about to Nandini about Rajdeep's behaviour she should have supported her friend - (a personal story) my friend in college was dating this guy and he was creepy as, anyway he would randomly ring me and ask to meet to get ideas to surprise my friend. First few times I didn't mind but the third time he asked I found it weird, plus how much can you surprise anyone? My then boyfriend found that weird too. I told him no and said figure out yourself. Few days later he tries to get smart and I immediately tell my friend, she confronts him and he said I came on to him - that was it she didn't even dignify that accusation and broke up with him then and there. We are still very close friends. That's how friends behave, if there is true friendship. There would be exceptions of course but generally no real friend will hurt her friends.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Love

It is an interesting word
If we love some one it can destroy us
To a certain level ...
Mauli will come out of it but broken

Kunal is the most disgusting character
He never loved any one!
If you love any one , you won't hurt that person.
So he is selfish and creepy !

Mauli's love will haunt them
Those two lustful love birds ..of divine blessings
Let them have their kheer & dum biriyani
Let them hug each other for life
Let them dance under rain
Let them laugh through their betrayal

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Posted: 7 years ago
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Wonderful post! I absolutely LOVED the last line !! 👏👏👏
I know this show is going to be more about the love story of the other two and its effects on all three of them, but for a change I hope they give equal importance to Mouli's journey as a person and show a strong self made FL at the end, who has achieved more meaningful things in life than to gain back the love of her male counterpart.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Some how I agree with another person in the forum the writer is from Balika Vadhu clan. So probably it will have some reflection though Gauri and Anandi were not friends.
But if so I will not mind another shade of shiv raj sekhar in future.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Very well written post. True Mauli will learn her lessons in a hard way but it will help her become stronger. She has always seen good in people and gone out of way to help them when they were in need of help. God is indeed with them those who help themselves. Mouli will definitely learn to love herself the most this time.

When you give power to someone they do have the power to destroy you that's very true, which at times shows do not give you all to anyone for when they might take advantage of you, you never know. In any relationship it takes years, efforts to build a strong bond, but it takes few seconds to destroy it. Certain decisions when taken at times does harm to one when it is like a food to another. I'm waiting to see Mauli's journey, how she'll be able to handle herself in the future.
Edited by pearl100 - 7 years ago
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Beautiful write up as always. As you said she must love again, this time herself.
Usually after situations like these the person loses all confidence. At times they start thinking the wrong is in them. They are not sufficient enough, not beautiful enough. I know mouli is strong and shouldn't take this route but in such state of mind even for sometime she may think fault of hers.
But then she must rise again because in this case there is no fault of her's and she is the other two are culprits and committing sin hence all this hiding.
She will have to think, it will be difficult but she must rise again.

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