Nandhini choosing Men over Mauli - Page 9

Originally posted by: *Reemz*

It's not just emotional cheating anymore. They shared a 5 minute long hug. There's your physical cheating happening right there!!

Originally posted by: _charu_

I beg to differ . I respect your pov. But cheating on your partner cannot be termed as "maturity" or in other words , watching it with an open mind has nothing to do with maturity . Reality is far worse than this. And for that we may watch savdhan India.. There Kunal and nandini might as well kill mauli and dida and ma. On screen, on the level of a story being told , something which is morally incorrect will always be criticized . An ema is something which is not accepted in the western culture also..They may do it openly and more frequently but is there any wife out there in any part of the world who reacts normally to her husband cheating ? Or vice versa. (Except for some cultures where bigamy and polygamy is allowed) ..If there is a cultural shift from here , and we do start looking at it as "normal and mature" , then we must also bring down the institution of marriage and monogamy and start behaving like animals. Well that's the only difference between animals and humans . Humans have "emotions which they "can " control. And if they cannot control , they will never be penalized, it's their life after all, they may be understood. But please don't term it as correct and acting mature .

Maturity is also subjective isn't it? If this scene is happening on tv, no problem ji, all of us can waste our time defining the right and wrong emotions . If this is happening with our neighbour , we may act differently, if it's happening with our friend then different level of maturity will be displayed ,if relative then different , if it happens with us then totally different and when this happens with our children ? Introspect.

Originally posted by: _charu_

I beg to differ . I respect your pov. But cheating on your partner cannot be termed as "maturity" or in other words , watching it with an open mind has nothing to do with maturity . Reality is far worse than this. And for that we may watch savdhan India.. There Kunal and nandini might as well kill mauli and dida and ma. On screen, on the level of a story being told , something which is morally incorrect will always be criticized . An ema is something which is not accepted in the western culture also..They may do it openly and more frequently but is there any wife out there in any part of the world who reacts normally to her husband cheating ? Or vice versa. (Except for some cultures where bigamy and polygamy is allowed) ..If there is a cultural shift from here , and we do start looking at it as "normal and mature" , then we must also bring down the institution of marriage and monogamy and start behaving like animals. Well that's the only difference between animals and humans . Humans have "emotions which they "can " control. And if they cannot control , they will never be penalized, it's their life after all, they may be understood. But please don't term it as correct and acting mature .

Maturity is also subjective isn't it? If this scene is happening on tv, no problem ji, all of us can waste our time defining the right and wrong emotions . If this is happening with our neighbour , we may act differently, if it's happening with our friend then different level of maturity will be displayed ,if relative then different , if it happens with us then totally different and when this happens with our children ? Introspect.

Originally posted by: Rosh4rose

Hahaha
True that ...agreed
But that is not enough Reemz
Like ..." Not yet there ...officially not Emotional cheating .
Want more of it ...[BR the hug is called controlling their emotions .
😆
Must wait for more time 😉 😉

Originally posted by: Terenaina

But that's REAL life. I had a BEST friend and she chose her husband over me, it's a husband that left her for another woman on her wedding day and years later decided to get married to her. I don't know why people are complaining about this show. This is REAL and I LOVE IT. I can see myself as Mauli because I feel like I trust blind to my friends but you learn the hard way to not trust them. All of them are doing great job with the show.

Originally posted by: _charu_

I beg to differ . I respect your pov. But cheating on your partner cannot be termed as "maturity" or in other words , watching it with an open mind has nothing to do with maturity . Reality is far worse than this. And for that we may watch savdhan India.. There Kunal and nandini might as well kill mauli and dida and ma. On screen, on the level of a story being told , something which is morally incorrect will always be criticized . An ema is something which is not accepted in the western culture also..They may do it openly and more frequently but is there any wife out there in any part of the world who reacts normally to her husband cheating ? Or vice versa. (Except for some cultures where bigamy and polygamy is allowed) ..If there is a cultural shift from here , and we do start looking at it as "normal and mature" , then we must also bring down the institution of marriage and monogamy and start behaving like animals. Well that's the only difference between animals and humans . Humans have "emotions which they "can " control. And if they cannot control , they will never be penalized, it's their life after all, they may be understood. But please don't term it as correct and acting mature .

Maturity is also subjective isn't it? If this scene is happening on tv, no problem ji, all of us can waste our time defining the right and wrong emotions . If this is happening with our neighbour , we may act differently, if it's happening with our friend then different level of maturity will be displayed ,if relative then different , if it happens with us then totally different and when this happens with our children ? Introspect.

Originally posted by: aashyagh

Wasn't this show from day one about Kunal and Nandini falling in love irrespective of Mauli being the perfect wife and friend? My statement was about that context, it was made very clear in teasers that, Mauli is good and still these two fall in love and yes it's called EMA, it's wrong in society! Neither am I justifying it? But just because their wmotyare highlighted and they feel guilty once and once they are hurting others due to it, will it change the fact that both of them love each other? And in how many families after they fall in love out of marriage does a partner come clean to their spouse, until found out from some source? No one said accept it, but we know this show is about hem, their emotions, their love! Is it ok if Mauli was negative? No even then it wasn't but audience would have supported left, right and centre this EMA! So why not watch it with open mind what is in store and how the other relationship gets affected once these two get into relationship! I don't think it's aboht right or wrong, it's plain and simple relationship out of marriage and how they deal with it and how others get affected!

Originally posted by: aashyagh

[EMA! So why not watch it with open mind what is in store and how the other relationship gets affected once these two get into relationship! I don't think it's aboht right or wrong, it's plain and simple relationship out of marriage and how they deal with it and how others get affected!

Originally posted by: _charu_

I started watching it with open mind but something within me feels disgusted when Kunal and nandini are on screen. Hence I only read the updates now. I am only interested in how the story will unfold post the revelation . I am not interested in watching the "falling in love with the other woman phase."

You may say it's not about right and wrong but it is, i am not saying , it is pretty evident in the tagline...anyways they started off well but after kunals realization its a train wreck. Good day. That'll be all from me..arguing beyond a point is pointless..😆