Nandhini choosing Men over Mauli - Page 8

Originally posted by: jhalak7

In bold, isnt this exactly how they showed it? If they would have dragged the torture, her recovery, I for one would have definitely not continued watching it because it would be a repeat of "Saubhagyavati bhav". I think this story is about Kunal and Nandini and the fight between mind and heart when you start having feelings and emotions that you are not supposed to have and you know are not correct.

I do respect your opinion but I, for one think that the directors and actors are doing a very good job of showing how certain emotions can affect you, how tedious it is to fight them and the struggle to be on the right path with no support from anyone other than yourself, your character, your morals, your teachings etc.

We all have named this show as the EMA but, right at this moment, I do not think its not about EMA. See no one wants to go out of their marriage or feel something for someone other than their partner. But it happens and its happens to many people. How we fight it and what we do about it, so that our near and dear ones do not get hurt is what defines us as a person. This story is about that journey. Some people might leave their marriage, some might sacrifice their love and some might just accept and move on. But are they bad people or characterless? Most of the time, we do not even know what our friend, colleague or neighbor is going through but if they have these feelings, there is a turmoil inside them which is filled with guilt and fear. They have no one to share that burden with, especially with a society like ours where our best friend will also not understand unless until they are very liberal and open minded. If they are lucky they might have the other person to share it with but what if its unrequited? This is what Kunal and Nandini are going through and the story is about that struggle, that path that they are walking on.

We know Rajdeep is bad and Mauli is good but can we seriously they say that Kunal and Nandini are good or bad? They both know their feelings are wrong and its knowledge will break Mauli and their family so they are trying very hard to stay away from each other .So are they bad because they have emotions or are they good because they are sacrificing their emotions?There is no one answer to this question and thats what this story is about.

But again this is my POV and my take on this story. Everyone is entitled to their opinion and I have full respect for it even though I might not agree with it.

Edited by pamk06 - 7 years ago

Originally posted by: krystal_watz

No. The word 'affair' has a fixed definition. Yes, many people talk about emotional cheating, but that's NOT the same as an 'affair'. There is no affair if the relationship is non-existent.

Btw, emotional cheating should also be viewed ridiculously, since its not a crime to feel something. You cannot control thoughts, only actions. If we take emotional cheating seriously, then each and every human being is a cheater since everyone has been attracted to or fantasized about people who are not their partners. Married people fantasize about hot celebrities just like single people do. Is that emotional cheating too? Is watching po*n emotional cheating too? 😆

Originally posted by: aashyagh

To watch this show, there needs to be little maturity and not just keep talking someone is characterless or not! The show is about emotions and even a person who had love marriage also can fall in love again! Emotions cannot be controlled everytime!
Honestly this show is depicting reality and this happens in real life too!! The question is not about right or wrong and if everything was measured in right or wrong then it's not just emotion! The reason the shows which are closer to reality doesn't work is because lot of audience doesn't want to accept it even though this happens surrounding us! All we want is love stories which has right or wrong! In that case people should stop watching such shows and watch Yeh Rishta Kya Kehlata hain or something else

Originally posted by: *Reemz*

It's not just emotional cheating anymore. They shared a 5 minute long hug. There's your physical cheating happening right there!!

Originally posted by: _charu_

I beg to differ . I respect your pov. But cheating on your partner cannot be termed as "maturity" or in other words , watching it with an open mind has nothing to do with maturity . Reality is far worse than this. And for that we may watch savdhan India.. There Kunal and nandini might as well kill mauli and dida and ma. On screen, on the level of a story being told , something which is morally incorrect will always be criticized . An ema is something which is not accepted in the western culture also..They may do it openly and more frequently but is there any wife out there in any part of the world who reacts normally to her husband cheating ? Or vice versa. (Except for some cultures where bigamy and polygamy is allowed) ..If there is a cultural shift from here , and we do start looking at it as "normal and mature" , then we must also bring down the institution of marriage and monogamy and start behaving like animals. Well that's the only difference between animals and humans . Humans have "emotions which they "can " control. And if they cannot control , they will never be penalized, it's their life after all, they may be understood. But please don't term it as correct and acting mature .

This thread is not about extra marital affair sahi hai yah galad?

This is not about why you like this serial?

This is not about who is best-DD or Aditi?

This is about whether Nandini is choosing man over Mauli or not?

On neutral view the answer is yes. At first she chose Rajdeep, now Kunal.

P.S. Like TV, PC , Achar, Biscuit etc comes with an expiry date. Love too comes with an expiry date. Some are gifted by God that they get eternal love-rest are simple love. For this no need to explain or bash the other partner. Sometimes it is just two hearts living in to separate world. In Western world this is like an "AAM baat. Making a TV serial based on this concept is a old story. I remember when Star Plus used to make English serials they had serials based on Extra marital affair. Color TV also makes serials based on this topic. Bepanah, Tu Ashiqi, Ishq mein mar jawanh, Kasam, ...even Shakti has Extra marital affair story. So the concept is very old. When ppl can like those serials, I don't think they will complain against Silsila for this issue.

Maturity is when you read the thread's name, read what the thread maker wants to talk about and what me or other are writing thoroughly then reply. If this not your kind of thread leave it. Sp at first write your own comment , then use fake IDs to support and then post those one liners serially again and again ( bhai shuffle karo) is so childish.

In our area ek 60 year old couple lives. Both are 80plus.One day Marry told "I don't want to stay with you John. John saidOK Marry. Now every day John gives her bye when she goes out with her 80+ bf. Then John goes to bar and enjoy his single life with all his friends. We find them cute.

**********don't quote. Going for vacation. 😛😆 Love you all. ❤️

Originally posted by: jhalak7

This thread is not about extra marital affair sahi hai yah
galad?

This is not about why you like this serial?

This is not about who is best-DD or Aditi?

This is about whether Nandini is choosing man over Mauli or
not?

On neutral view the answer
is yes. At first she chose Rajdeep, now Kunal.

P.S. Like TV, PC , Achar, Biscuit etc comes with an expiry
date. Love too comes with an expiry date. Some are gifted by God that they get eternal
love-rest are simple love. For this no need to explain or bash the other
partner. Sometimes it is just two hearts living in to separate world. In
Western world this is like an "AAM baat. Making a TV serial based on this
concept is a old story. I remember when Star Plus used to make English serials
they had serials based on Extra marital affair. Color TV also makes serials
based on this topic. Bepanah, Tu Ashiqi, Ishq mein mar jawanh, Kasam, ...even
Shakti has Extra marital affair story. So the concept is very old. When ppl can
like those serials, I don't think they will complain against Silsila for this
issue.

Maturity is when you read the thread's name, read what the
thread maker wants to talk about and what me or other are writing thoroughly then
reply. If this not your kind of thread
leave it. Sp at first write your own comment , then use fake IDs to support and
then post those one liners serially
again and again ( bhai shuffle karo) is so childish.

In our area ek 60 year old couple lives. Both are 80plus.One
day the Marry told "I don't want to stay with you John. John saidOK Marry. Now
every day John gives her bye when she goes out with her 80+ bf. Then John goes
to bar and enjoy his single life with all his friends. We find them cute.

Originally posted by: jhalak7

This thread is not about extra marital affair sahi hai yah galad?

This is not about why you like this serial?

This is not about who is best-DD or Aditi?

This is about whether Nandini is choosing man over Mauli or not?

On neutral view the answer is yes. At first she chose Rajdeep, now Kunal.

P.S. Like TV, PC , Achar, Biscuit etc comes with an expiry date. Love too comes with an expiry date. Some are gifted by God that they get eternal love-rest are simple love. For this no need to explain or bash the other partner. Sometimes it is just two hearts living in to separate world. In Western world this is like an "AAM baat. Making a TV serial based on this concept is a old story. I remember when Star Plus used to make English serials they had serials based on Extra marital affair. Color TV also makes serials based on this topic. Bepanah, Tu Ashiqi, Ishq mein mar jawanh, Kasam, ...even Shakti has Extra marital affair story. So the concept is very old. When ppl can like those serials, I don't think they will complain against Silsila for this issue.

Maturity is when you read the thread's name, read what the thread maker wants to talk about and what me or other are writing thoroughly then reply. If this not your kind of thread leave it. Sp at first write your own comment , then use fake IDs to support and then post those one liners serially again and again ( bhai shuffle karo) is so childish.

In our area ek 60 year old couple lives. Both are 80plus.One day Marry told "I don't want to stay with you John. John saidOK Marry. Now every day John gives her bye when she goes out with her 80+ bf. Then John goes to bar and enjoy his single life with all his friends. We find them cute.

**********don't quote. Going for vacation. 😛😆 Love you all. ❤️

Originally posted by: *Reemz*

It's not just emotional cheating anymore. They shared a 5 minute long hug. There's your physical cheating happening right there!!