Silsila-- A journey of Nandini and her endless sufferings - Page 8

Originally posted by: intruderfast

Wow, ye kyaa hai. Did Nandini herself tried contacting Mauli and explain her condition?

And if anyone gives me the excuse, Nandini didnt know where Mauli was,I can say the same 4 Mauli too

Taali dono haath se bajti hai. If you are blaming Mauli for not chasing after Nandini, then Nandini also shld be blamed for keeping Mauli in dark abt Rajdeep.

She was living her life with Rajdeep right till Mouli Kunal didn't come into their lives.

And pray tell me what would have happened if Mauli would not have bought Nandini to her house.

Mauli kaa life mein bas yehi kaam hai nandu ki dekhbhaal.

I can understand ur concern for nandini and appreciate that. But I have to revert back cos i feel the accusation against Mauli is totally baseless.

And this is my POV.

Originally posted by: Alohomora_

But Mouli already knew what kind of person Rajdeep was! Thats the whole point! She should have made an effort to atleast talk to her parents and let them know about what she encountered with Rajdeep! No matter what she could have made some more effort to reach out to her family and relatives or try getting people who knew of Rajdeep's womanising ways to talk to her.Kya pata bach jaati Nandini ki zindagi? Mouli is a nice girl but she has made mistakes too. If we are criticising Nandini for so many things we should be open to looking at the mistakes of Mouli too with an open mind. And how would Nandini contact Mouli when Mouli broke all ties with her and left the city? In one episode it was shown that even when Mouli came to know he rparents were dead she didnt reach out to Nandini. Now that was wrong too. She let her ego get the better of her. And offcourse I am greatful to Mouli and Kunal for helping Nandini so much at the moment but that still doesnt make it right for her to just walk out of Nandini's life 7 years back knowing she could have done more. I guess ego played a big part back then which is fine because end of the day we are all humans and everyone makes mistakes. Nothing wrong in admitting that they make mistakes 😊

If I m not replying some people that not mean I have nothing to say or agree with them..I did bcs I felt we should respect each other opinion although they are different..But I need to say here I know what I m replying and posting here..If you criticise a character based on what may be happen in future I can also criticise characters bcs of their past which already happened..Childhood friends who are your best friends too doesn't judge friends or break friendship bcs of 2 min problems..If anyone choosed her ego more than friendship and even knowing her best friend and going to end up with a guy worse than she can ever imagine ( she told kunal how Rajdeep can never keep nandini happy and can trouble her even when Rajdeep tried to pretend good guy ) then it mean u choosed ur ego and let ur friend to die with Rajdeep..A friend in this position would try her level best to save her friend..atlest would try to contact her later knowing very well nandini isn't having an arrange marriage and isn't in love with him..about nandini she didn't left Lucknow it's her friend who left..yes Nandini should search her friend who cut all ties with her even staying in an abusive relationship dealing with a monster everyday she get so much time for all this things but mauli even knowing her parents died never bother to contact her..one of scene (kheer and green tea making in kitchen) kunal said mauli to call nandini..mauli had a number (may be it was working may be not) but from last 6 yrs bcs of her ego she never try to call on that number too..leave call she used to hide her pic from her own family why bcs She choosed Rajdeep over her?..how silly it was..which best friend do that? even after 6 yrs it's nandini who saw the banner of mauli and try to contact her and it's kunal who search out the pic from the book and told mauli about Nandini and Rajdeep and after that only mauli decide to come forward and help nandini..Everytime she helped nandini she make sure nandini choosed her over Rajdeep..after that accident when nandini lost her baby did mauli even know what exactly happened with nandini and even Rajdeep is main culprit or not? no she don't still she ask Nandini to choose between Rajdeep n her in hospital and make sure this time She choose her which satisfy her ego..not only that evrytime nandini went or try to talk Rajdeep mauli's first reaction is Nandini choosed Rajdeep over her and how is he going to treat her is her secondary thoughts..Having said that I also want to add I never said she is selfish or self centred..She have helped Nandini alot and love her too..nandini too love her equally and trying her best to come out from the mess without hurting mauli..but both are humans if one have bigger ego another one trying everyday to control her uncontrollable feelings..If we criticise a character then we should be open for other character criticism too..It's my way of thinking and I m not asking anyone to agree with me but I m not going to change it for any one too ...

both Nandini And mauli did mistake
Nandini did mistake for not believing mauli and mauli did not make much effort to save Nandini from rajdeepi

but I after this incident mauli has regretted that mujhe Nandini ko nahi chodna chahiye tha and she has correct her mistake when she again met Nandini

and Nandini too have regretted for not believing mauli
both friends have apologize to each other

now old matter is finish and now in present Nandini do believe in mauli word and now mauli has also not leave Nandini on her hall

Originally posted by: intruderfast

I don't have a problem with pointing out mistakes of Mauli, But the comment that she left Nandini to die was just too harsh.And that's why i responded.

Reg finding Mauli, pls we live in 21st century, Nandini could have located Mauli by endless no of means and explained about her plight.

We all can argue as to whether Mauli shld have done more or not.And its an endless discussion. with some ppl saying she did enough and some saying not.

For me, both girls are at fault.

Nevertheless, she has made amends even if one wants to blame Mauli somewhat for Nandini's suffering.

And anyways I stick to present while judging characters or ppl.

Presently i find no fault in Mauli. If tom she makes mistakes, i shall welcome posts against her.

See yesterday i didn't approve of Nandini for not able to control herself and hugging Kunal.

But now , after she has decided to leave , I feel she is making amends and am appreciative for that.

human bound to do mistakes ..its our nature
happy that Nandini took lessons from it and now moving on with high head

Originally posted by: Keepdreaming

human bound to do mistakes ..its our nature
happy that Nandini took lessons from it and now moving on with high head

pointing out mistakes of Mauli is plain crime
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Sanj for me it simple ... we have flaws that's why we are human ...thats why we are on earth ... doing mistake is wrong but again insan se ho jata hai..like nandu did in that age ...in dream of happy life

Originally posted by: Keepdreaming

Sanj for me it simple ... we have flaws that's why we are human ...thats why we are on earth ... doing mistake is wrong but again insan se ho jata hai..like nandu did in that age ...in dream of happy life

exactly unlike then I didn't term any one as evil or bad...still People can't take honest criticism and they call themself neutral fans..lol

Originally posted by: Snow_Angel

it's not like she cheating mauli...She trying to ignore kunal as much as possible..She feel maulis happiness is more important than her feelings...how it make her selfish? atlest she is trying unlike her best friend who left her to die with Rajdeep and never try to know how is she later