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Posted: 7 years ago
#41

Originally posted by: *Reemz*

By desperate, I meant she wanted to keep the marriage going even if she was getting abused. It was the loss of her unborn child which tipped her over the edge otherwise she would've continued with this marriage.

Also I am not reducing Nandini to anything. I have great empathy for women who have to go through such situations. One can only imagine what their mental state can be. My point is that they should've given Nandini's emotions more time because they seem too rushed. I am not demeaning her in any way.

Reema I agree with what you have to say .But it's just that I wouldn't use the word desperate for her .I feel more than desperate it was that she really didn't have the will power to fight back both mentally and physically .Once she got the moral support she felt like now was when she could stand up and fight back. Also she wasnt financially independent and didnt have anyone to go to. She probably wasnt sure if she had it in her to fight him back and survive alone. Thats my perspective of her and Rajdeep, And trust me I would be the happiest if they showed us more of her journey of independence and her fighting all her battles. But unfortunately thats not what the CVS want. We can give feedback but thats about it. The rest is dependent on the channel and makers and what they feel is fetching them trps.
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Posted: 7 years ago
#42

Originally posted by: DracarysTrio

I am a heterosexual and trust me I do love women around me, I love my mom, I love my sister, I love my bestie, I love men as well even though I don't want to sleep with them, you have more platonic relationships than carnal relationships in your life, I love my brother, I love my father, I love my male friends but do I wanna sleep with them? Hell no
Why is the concept of platonic relationship so far fetched? Love isn't only romantic, love isn't only about physical relationship, it is much deeper, love is when Mauli fights Rajdeep for Nandini, but I bet Mauli is in no way interested in sleeping with Nandini

there is a basic difference between loving soneone and being in love with someone! All these things Mouli did fir Nandu made Nandu love her more and so does Mouli, but Nandini fall in love with Kunal
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Posted: 7 years ago
#43

Originally posted by: DracarysTrio




So true, we can glorify a crime but can't show two people in love
Have you seen Hannibal?


No haven't seen. But have seen a few lesbian related English movies and loved them . Why did you ask 😊
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Posted: 7 years ago
#44

Originally posted by: moumita.madhuk

so heterosexual love only means sleeping and having sex?! Then every heterosexual person falls in love to have sex then?! Right???



Definition of heterosexual in Oxford dictionary - "1
sexually attracted to people of the opposite sex.
1.1 Involving or characterized by sexual attraction between people of the opposite sex."

And you just stated my point, Nandini can be heterosexual and love Mauli, she can have a platonic relationship it was someone else who said that because Nandini is a heterosexual she can't love Mauli


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Posted: 7 years ago
#45

Originally posted by: Luv_PaRiAnSh


No haven't seen. But have seen a few lesbian related English movies and loved them . Why did you ask 😊



It's one of my favorite shows, it's not your regular love story, watch it, I am sure you'll love it
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Posted: 7 years ago
#46

Originally posted by: moumita.madhuk

there is a basic difference between loving soneone and being in love with someone! All these things Mouli did fir Nandu made Nandu love her more and so does Mouli, but Nandini fall in love with Kunal


You are so sweet, you are just stating my points for me.
Mauli has done a lot for Nandini, yet Nandini fell in love with Mauli's husband that's just so dramatic
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: Luv_PaRiAnSh


No haven't seen. But have seen a few lesbian related English movies and loved them . Why did you ask 😊



It's one of my favorite shows, it's not your regular love story, watch it, I am sure you'll love it
Oh ok. Will definitely try watching sometime!
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Posted: 7 years ago
#48

Originally posted by: DracarysTrio


Definition of heterosexual in Oxford dictionary - "1
sexually attracted to people of the opposite sex.
1.1 Involving or characterized by sexual attraction between people of the opposite sex."

And you just stated my point, Nandini can be heterosexual and love Mauli, she can have a platonic relationship it was someone else who said that because Nandini is a heterosexual she can't love Mauli


Bruh I dont know what you have been reading but you seem to have forgotten what you YOURSELF stated. It was YOU who asked why Nandini fell for Kunal and not Mauli because Mauli also has been showing her love and care for Nandini so why didnt Nandini fall for her? And my reply to you was in RESPONSE to your own statement that she can love Mauli but she can't love her the way she loves her partner .There is a difference in the kind of love and relationship you share with your partner and friend right? You seem to be blurring the line there and claiming there is no difference in love hat you feel for both people!!
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Posted: 7 years ago
#49

Originally posted by: DracarysTrio


You are so sweet, you are just stating my points for me.
Mauli has done a lot for Nandini, yet Nandini fell in love with Mauli's husband that's just so dramatic

And that's the main story of the show and we can't do anything
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Posted: 7 years ago
#50
Temptation is a bad thing
When I present something with my point of view my personal experiences will be involved as your experiences shape up your opinions, name calling people is against the forum rules and I can't hijack something that is MINE, it is my post, I will write poem written by my 2 years old niece containing 2 words, it's my post

Title of the topic is - "Is Nandini not at fault?"
Not
"Why Nandini fell for Kunal?"

My point has been pretty clear that if as an abused woman Nandini needed love she was getting it from Mauli too, I never stated there should be a sexual relationship between Mauli and Nandini, how can Nandini be right when she hurts someone like Mauli and harbors feelings for her husband?

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