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Posted: 7 years ago
#31
I agreed to your point that Nandini wants sex and love, I assumed she was deprived of love and needed love only, my bad, anyway I still don't see how it is okay to fall for your friend's husband, so there I blame Nandini like I blame Kunal, someone's past can't be treated as an excuse for their wrongdoings, if it was wrong that someone wronged her, she's wrong in hurting someone who loves her

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Posted: 7 years ago
#32

Originally posted by: *Reemz*




The fact that KuNan didn't have many alone scenes kind of also shows that she saw Kunal for how he was with Mauli too. Yes he saved her from taunts and I think that's where it got all majorly triggered for her. If we think about it, about a month or so ago she was desperately trying to stay in Rajdeeps life even if he abused her but now she's hopelesly clinging on to Kunal. The writers should've given it more time, more scenes so the connection made more sense. Also, in today's time especially we need to show that a woman doesn't need a man. They're showing the opposite with Nandini but having said that I hope she does move out at some point.

My problem isn't as much about her feeling for Kunal, it's how they've progressed it without a solid foundation.

She wasnt desperate about Rajdeep and I hate how you reduce her to that. She was someone who wasnt strong willed both mentally and physically at the given point of time in her life to fight him back. She wasnt desperate .She was someone who couldn't think of breaking the institutie of marriage probably having being brought up that way.She didnt think she would have survived alone but once she got the right amount of support she stood up for herself and fought back. She isnt clinging onto Kunal ANYWHERE She is in fact trying to keep her distance from him and avoiding him as per the promo. I dont think giving a hug to someone when you thought must have died and then walking away means you are a clingy person.? Also whats with these aspersions on Nandini's character from you repeatedly? She falls for the first guy after Rajdeep, she is clingy ,she is desperate .We call ourselves feminist but this is how we describe women around us. Double standards much?
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Posted: 7 years ago
#33

Originally posted by: *Reemz*




The fact that KuNan didn't have many alone scenes kind of also shows that she saw Kunal for how he was with Mauli too. Yes he saved her from taunts and I think that's where it got all majorly triggered for her. If we think about it, about a month or so ago she was desperately trying to stay in Rajdeeps life even if he abused her but now she's hopelesly clinging on to Kunal. The writers should've given it more time, more scenes so the connection made more sense. Also, in today's time especially we need to show that a woman doesn't need a man. They're showing the opposite with Nandini but having said that I hope she does move out at some point.

My problem isn't as much about her feeling for Kunal, it's how they've progressed it without a solid foundation.

Makers never said they gonna show strong and independent nandini who loves to lead her life all alone from day one makers are very clear that they gonna show feelings between nandini and kunal them how come it was opposite of the story they are showing what they have told.
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Posted: 7 years ago
#34

Originally posted by: DracarysTrio

I agreed to your point that Nandini wants sex and love, I assumed she was deprived of love and needed love only, my bad, anyway I still don't see how it is okay to fall for your friend's husband, so there I blame Nandini like I blame Kunal, someone's past can't be treated as an excuse for their wrongdoings, if it was wrong that someone wronged her, she's wrong in hurting someone who loves her


you don't have to do a personal attack, my environment is completely different, in my world sex is not a taboo and I don't wanna sleep with people I have platonic relationship is not disgusting, it's a fact

LOVE for a friend and LOVE for a romantic partner are two different things. I nowhere said she wanted sex. I said the feelings and bond she had with Rajdeep or any partner cant be compared to the bond she has with a friend on many levels. And please go ahead and blame Nandini. I would too.But the whole poin is nobody is saying she is RIGHT or justified.She is wrong and might do wrong .What people are saying and what you chose to ignore and overlook was the fact that people are saying they UNDERSTAND where her feelings are coming from not tha they think she is right.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: DracarysTrio

I am a heterosexual and trust me I do love women around me, I love my mom, I love my sister, I love my bestie, I love men as well even though I don't want to sleep with them, you have more platonic relationships than carnal relationships in your life, I love my brother, I love my father, I love my male friends but do I wanna sleep with them? Hell no
Why is the concept of platonic relationship so far fetched? Love isn't only romantic, love isn't only about physical relationship, it is much deeper, love is when Mauli fights Rajdeep for Nandini, but I bet Mauli is in no way interested in sleeping with Nandini

I'd actually love a lesbian love story , for a change ...😆 Just kidding. I'm well aware that Indian tv shows never have the guts to show homosexual relationships as much as they have other tabooed subjects like Web series do
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Posted: 7 years ago
#36

Originally posted by: Alohomora_

She wasnt desperate about Rajdeep and I hate how you reduce her to that. She was someone who wasnt strong willed both mentally and physically at the given point of time in her life to fight him back. She wasnt desperate .She was someone who couldn't think of breaking the institutie of marriage probably having being brought up that way.She didnt think she would have survived alone but once she got the right amount of support she stood up for herself and fought back. She isnt clinging onto Kunal ANYWHERE She is in fact trying to keep her distance from him and avoiding him as per the promo. I dont think giving a hug to someone when you thought he must have died and then walking away fro him means you are a clingy person.? Also whats with these aspersions on Nandini's character from you repeatedly? She falls for the first guy after Rajdeep, she is clingy ,she is desperate .We call ourselves feminist but this is how we describe women around us. Double stnadards much?

If we listen something bad happened to our dear ones and when we saw them all safe and sound it was natural to hug them and here nandini fighting with her feelings and same time she heard about kunal accident news and she wrecked up and hugged him when she saw himnall safe l later she realised what she doing and ran away..
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Posted: 7 years ago
#37
By desperate, I meant she wanted to keep the marriage going even if she was getting abused. It was the loss of her unborn child which tipped her over the edge otherwise she would've continued with this marriage.

Also I am not reducing Nandini to anything. I have great empathy for women who have to go through such situations. One can only imagine what their mental state can be. My point is that they should've given Nandini's emotions more time because they seem too rushed. I am not demeaning her in any way.
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Posted: 7 years ago
#38

Originally posted by: Alohomora_

She wasnt desperate about Rajdeep and I hate how you reduce her to that. She was someone who wasnt strong willed both mentally and physically at the given point of time in her life to fight him back. She wasnt desperate .She was someone who couldn't think of breaking the institutie of marriage probably having being brought up that way.She didnt think she would have survived alone but once she got the right amount of support she stood up for herself and fought back. She isnt clinging onto Kunal ANYWHERE She is in fact trying to keep her distance from him and avoiding him as per the promo. I dont think giving a hug to someone when you thought must have died and then walking away means you are a clingy person.? Also whats with these aspersions on Nandini's character from you repeatedly? She falls for the first guy after Rajdeep, she is clingy ,she is desperate .We call ourselves feminist but this is how we describe women around us. Double standards much?


I totally agree with u nish feelings never control for any person but nandini never hurt coz mauli means the most to her
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Posted: 7 years ago
#39

Originally posted by: Luv_PaRiAnSh


I'd actually love a lesbian love story , for a change ...😆Just kidding. I'm well aware that Indiantv shows never have the guts to show homosexual relationships as much as they have other tabooed subjects like Web series do




So true, we can glorify a crime but can't show two people in love
Have you seen Hannibal?
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Posted: 7 years ago
#40

Originally posted by: DracarysTrio

A victim of domestic violence is drawn to someone who loves her, I don't think someone going through trauma of marriage will fall for her preferred sex in one week, Mauli loves Nandini too but she's very much heterosexual, when you need love you take it from anyone, why would a victim be choosy? like "Yes, Mauli loves me but I can't sleep with her because I prefer man because I am heterosexual so Kunal will do"
That's not how it goes, love doesn't always mean romance, it can be platonic too

so heterosexual love only means sleeping and having sex?! Then every heterosexual person falls in love to have sex then?! Right???

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