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Posted: 7 years ago
#91
The sad part is that somewhere writers have proved that a girl and a boy cant be just friends and that you should keep your best friend/sister away from your husband because "feelings are something you cant control"🤢
Its not like Nandini fell for Kunal before knowing that he is her best friend's husband .She always knew that.And when you know that you automatically totally friendzone the person or maintain a little distance from him.And now that she knows that she is falling for him she needs maintain evwn more distance even if it means not helping Kunal at few occasions.She should leave Kunal as Mauli's responsibilty.That more she will go near him the more her harmones will act and she will get all kinds of thoughts.

Same for Kunal.He now needs to stop helping Nandini at all occaisions.Obviously helping her at some life threatening ocaasions is humanity.But he should let Nandini handle her own problems also.
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Posted: 7 years ago
#92

Originally posted by: moumita.madhuk

exactly and I donno how hard it is for people to understand that growing feelings is not i our hands and people cannot be blamed for that! They can be blamed for their actions...

Who are you trying to explain to Mou? You see the responses we got in return for arguing with them pretty logically. I get a 20 pc WL from the moderator for reasons unexplained!! I mean freaking 20 percent!!!! And all i did was try to give my POV on how Mouli and Nandinia are not lesbians. In return I was attacked and called hijacker and what not but no action taken 👏Here the member herself brought her whole family into it and tried to make some bizarre points but that comment wasnt trashed. My comment was trashed for saying it was gross to bring in family members and suggesting things for a mere show! And mind you I still havent got any explanation from the moderators! Such a BIASED BIASED forum .I dont even know where to begin 🤢
Edited by Alohomora_ - 7 years ago
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: Alohomora_

Who are you trying to explain to Mou? You see the responses we got in return for arguing with them pretty logically. I get a 20 pc WL from the moderator for reasons unexplained!! I mean freaking 20 percent!!!! And all i did was try to give my POV on how Mouli and Nandinia are not lesbians. In return I was attacked and called hijacker and what not but no action taken 👏Here the member herself brought her whole family into it and tried to make some bizarre points but that comment wasnt trashed. My comment was trashed for saying it was gross to bring in family members and suggesting things for a mere show! And mind you I still havent got any explanation from the moderators! Such a BIASED BIASED forum .I dont even know where to begin 🤢

you are right! If some people wish to overlook valid points, we can't force and shove it down their throats! Can we?
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Posted: 7 years ago
#94

Originally posted by: Geetdrashti

Ha don't go who cares atleast not me
Because I now entertain with fake neutral fans
Also those bad evil fans who didn't leave forum even after getting personal attackes regularly and making lots of posts
Between fight Karna aur uss per hawa dena same hota hai
Like you tried in Trp closed thread bringing Mouli for no use Quitoing @Extrapatinum sorry my spelling can be wrong, par kuch nehi hua 🥱
Anyways lets not eat each other if don't like say it on face not hide behind neutral card ... good day

Hi Geet Drashti ji😊. Agar aapko lagaa mein ladaai karwa raha tha to ye aapka pov hai.
I had no such intentions , I just penned down my thoughts. I am a neutral fan chahe koi maane yaa naa maane. And I also watch this show mostly cos of DD .She is one of my favs since MB days.
Waise again it felt good meri posts itnii baariki se padi jaati hai😳. Thanks
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Posted: 7 years ago
#95
One thing about respecting POV other thing about mocking or bashing POV regarding characters or any situation scene
If they expect me not to insult their pov i expect same from them
It works in both side
If posts getting locked why not find the reason other than blaming others for leaving
No one pure neither no one villain let's accept it
t I feel strange when someone attack personally or attacks actors personally koyi aage nehi aata
But when someone report them many come and blame others
And MOD please try to be fair
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: intruderfast

Hi Geet Drashti ji😊. Agar aapko lagaa mein ladaai karwa raha tha to ye aapka pov hai.
I had no such intentions , I just penned down my thoughts. I am a neutral fan chahe koi maane yaa naa maane. And I also watch this show mostly cos of DD .She is one of my favs since MB days.
Waise again it felt good meri posts itnii baariki se padi jaati hai😳. Thanks

Trust me I read all good/neutral/ bad / worse post
After all it's part of entertainment. You are not special just that I have sharp memory and I remember all things 😆
And I really don't care who are whose fan because its their business not mine 😊😛
But I do understand by reading comments who is neutral who is painting to be neutral .😲
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: Geetdrashti

Trust me I read all good/neutral/ bad / worse post
After all it's part of entertainment. You are not special just that I have sharp memory and I remember all things 😆
And I really don't care who are whose fan because its their business not mine 😊😛
But I do understand by reading comments who is neutral who is painting to be neutral .😲

Aww that hurts😭😆. Hopefully in the future, I will become special😊.
Btw srsly , I liked Ur pov even though it's different. Loved our short interaction. Good day Geet Drashti ji

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Posted: 7 years ago
#98
in one of beginning of episode mauli told Kunal that if u have seen my friend anamika then u would have Marry her
Kunal tell it is impossible

now if tomorrow mauli come to know that Kunal has become flat on Nandini .I don't think mauli will be shock . she will say I already told u will become flat on my friend anamika bus tumhi mana kar Rahe they

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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: intruderfast

Aww that hurts😭😆. Hopefully in the future, I will become special😊.
Btw srsly , I liked Ur pov even though it's different. Loved our short interaction. Good day Geet Drashti ji

Apko bhi good day
Edited by Geetdrashti - 7 years ago
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Posted: 7 years ago
Hey DracarysTrio, I believe we have conversed before. Though i understand your point of view, but right now I wouldn't, rather cant find a fault in Nandini. Yes I understand where you are coming from, but Nandini hasn't really harmed Mauli's trust as of yet though maybe in the future she may do (honestly not super fond of the show atm) and then only can you blame her, that is IF she submits to these new found feelings (which i aint overly excited about either).

Humans are a little tricky, we tend to be easily disposed to changes when emotionally and mentally weak. Here Nandini is phycally, mentally and emotionally exhausted, ofcourse its natural considering the relationship she has survived. Hence there are cracks that are being filled with images of Kunal, whether she likes it or not. Clearly from Fridyas epi, you can tell both feel equally guilty.

I remember in a epi, Nandini said she wont thank Mauli because she is her own; so i suppose that clears any doubt of how important mauli is to her. But she did go and thank Kunal, hence he is perceived as someone from her outer circle and thus maybe these gave way to these new found feelings. The priest, and everyone noting them as a couple isn't helping either. Lets remind ourselves, she is a victim hence is craving for love and maybe the countless mentions hasn't helped as the brain has noted him as partner material subconsiously.

I'd reject the whole idea of her receiving love from Mauli, because lets face it the whole thing about falling in love and that perfect guy has been glorified in tales/movies etc hence its the same here, she too is going by the set norms and believes in man falling for woman fairytale (which is a little cliche, if you ask me. I'd rather prefer her to be her own until she hasn't rediscovered herself); only thing this new found feelings isn't being set by disney-tales but rather approaching the dark-side. Where again i don't think we can blame her (although it is frustrating), the heart and the mind are complex.

So to answer your question, no i don't find her a fault now and love her all the more for suggesting to move out. I suppose it shows her determination to not to give in. Unlike Kunal, Nandini's feelings are more understandable but maybe not relatable lol.

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