Can Nandini Turn Gray? - Page 3

or it may happen that is when Kunal will show concern to Nandini . after some day. mauli will start feeling insecure .she will think Nandini mere husband ko chheen Rahi hai .so mauli will send Nandini back to rajdeep saying that is ab tumhara pati jaisa bhi hai uske Saath adjust karo

after all serial name is badlete rishton ka .kaun kab badal jaaye khuch nahi pata

Originally posted by: Snow_Angel

[quote=dracarisTrio]
So you are saying you'd actually be happy that your husband fell in love with someone else but didn't act on it? I have to agree, we are poles apart..
For me emotional part of relationship is very important, I wouldn't stay with someone who is in love with someone else, it's just a big NO NO for me.

Loving someone is not as same as being in live with someone, You can love thousands of people but can be in love with only one, moving on means that you are out of the love you shared with someone before you married, that's the point of moving on, you can't marry someone then think about someone else while making love to your wife, that's cheating.

I m more of a practical person in real life than you so yes we are poll apart...for me it take more time make relationship than break it on a second...and I never said making love to someone else while thinking about someone else is correct..don't even think in that sense so don't twist my words..
and no woman get happy if her husband have feelings for someone else but you can't control your emotions do you?...if tomorrow being a married you fall for someone else will u not try to control those feelings rather than making a dhindhora out of it and discuss it with everyone or u will just divorce your spouse that moment only?...how trying to control yours emotions make anyone wrong ? marriage not a 2 days relationship it's a life time bonding...ups and downs are very much part of it..that not means I should divorce and move on why whenever anything happen if i know I have a way out...we are taking about real life and in today's life half time even if a married guy or girl fall for another girl or boy his/her partner most of the time doesn't even got to know about it and no that doesn't make them a cheater as they do nothing about that feelings as they f
don't wan6 ruin their normal life and just move on..it take more courage to forget your feeling and not
ruin your marriage further than just divorce and move on

Everyone's thought process presents itself as the most realistic so I am not gonna stress the judgment you made about me being unrealistic.

I never said that you think or your post implied that sleeping with someone and thinking about someone else is right, so there's no point of twisting your words, the example was mine to put forward my POV about this topic. When I said that emotionally cheating is a thing, I meant only this, if someone's husband is thinking about the woman he loves while making love to his wife, that is cheating, it's not physical but it is there.

I am not married so I don't know about difficulties of marriage but I have been in a long-term relationship and I can tell that utmost important thing in my life is my happiness, if I am not happy, I'll end it, life is too short to work on reviving the dead but yes, giving it a chance is something that I can do. I don't see the point of wasting your life over a failed marriage, marriage is a part of life, it's not life

Let's end this right here, it was good to know a different outlook on things than mine, nice talk *Smiley Emoji* (I still don't understand how do I add one)

i don't think Nandini going to turn grey

Originally posted by: DracarysTrio

I m more of a practical person in real life than you so yes we are poll apart...for me it take more time make relationship than break it on a second...and I never said making love to someone else while thinking about someone else is correct..don't even think in that sense so don't twist my words..
and no woman get happy if her husband have feelings for someone else but you can't control your emotions do you?...if tomorrow being a married you fall for someone else will u not try to control those feelings rather than making a dhindhora out of it and discuss it with everyone or u will just divorce your spouse that moment only?...how trying to control yours emotions make anyone wrong ? marriage not a 2 days relationship it's a life time bonding...ups and downs are very much part of it..that not means I should divorce and move on why whenever anything happen if i know I have a way out...we are taking about real life and in today's life half time even if a married guy or girl fall for another girl or boy his/her partner most of the time doesn't even got to know about it and no that doesn't make them a cheater as they do nothing about that feelings as they f
don't wan6 ruin their normal life and just move on..it take more courage to forget your feeling and not
ruin your marriage further than just divorce and move on

Everyone's thought process presents itself as the most realistic so I am not gonna stress the judgment you made about me being unrealistic.

I never said that you think or your post implied that sleeping with someone and thinking about someone else is right, so there's no point of twisting your words, the example was mine to put forward my POV about this topic. When I said that emotionally cheating is a thing, I meant only this, if someone's husband is thinking about the woman he loves while making love to his wife, that is cheating, it's not physical but it is there.

I am not married so I don't know about difficulties of marriage but I have been in a long-term relationship and I can tell that utmost important thing in my life is my happiness, if I am not happy, I'll end it, life is too short to work on reviving the dead but yes, giving it a chance is something that I can do. I don't see the point of wasting your life over a failed marriage, marriage is a part of life, it's not life

Let's end this right here, it was good to know a different outlook on things than mine, nice talk *Smiley Emoji* (I still don't understand how do I add one)
That's why I said I will act based on situation...if you only start falling for someone and trying to control it or sacrifice it for your spouse...I will not call it cheating...it doesn't make you wrong...and yes even I don't believe staying in a love less marriage or trying mend a loveless relationship but I believe if both partners try they can sort out and live a happy life overcoming all the ups and downs in life...only when both are ready to adjust and give time to the relationship...each and every relationships are different and so is people's mentality...that's why our pov is different too...Let's respect each other pov and end this discussion here as you said...it's nice to have a healthy discussions with you 😊

I don't want Nandini turns grey in future because her innocence and serene personality make her charming but I have request to writers please don't make her dumb who can't distinguish between right and wrong when it comes to Rajdeep. She took grave decision in past still suffering because of her one bad decision I hope she has learned her lesson and be careful whom she chooses in her life next time.

Originally posted by: Twenty1st

OK sorry just the reference to Maya brought the extremeness lol

But is Nandini selfless here, because she isn't adjusting to a abusive life for anyone else rather herself, she's thinking about herself (though not in good light lol) but she wants to keep that roof over her head and maybe also because she chose Rajdeep over Mauli. When you yourself chose your future, there tends to be reluctance in admitting you were at fault. Atleast Nandini admits she was wrong in choosing Rajdeep. So thats good.

Agree with you, two people in love should be together. But what i find hard to digest is Kunal's behaviour, he is so in love with Mauli or claims to be. Maybe he mistook friendship as love so once he feels the emotion with Nandini, there would be internal conflict. That is something i would like to see, the internal and maybe the outer conflicts between the 3 characters

All three would go through 'grey' emotions because the plot itself deals with a 'grey' matter in society 😉😊

Maya before marrying Arjun was perfectly human, even after marrying him till holi party she was fine, they turned her evil after a point but that's not gray that black.
Yes , I'd love to see the complex relationship but I am not so keen on makers showing Kunal as if he's the last man alive, he should have his own shortcomings and set of flaws.
If all of them can be a little gray, what's wrong with it? White is God, Black is Satan and Gray is Human

I think it's the greyness in emotions not actual characters. We all have temptations around us, nothing is black and white. Like what do you do when these things happen? It happens so much in real life that I'm hoping the show will focus on the complexities of the topic.

Originally posted by: -Lehar-

Why can't they show some sensible treatment to this story with out turning anyone grey or negative..

yup!! A much mature concept.. People dealing with real life problems and feelings they can't control!!

I agree with you TM in that i don't want either of 3 to be too selfless or self sacrificing. All human beings have streaks of grey. So ya the characters should be slightly grey but not lose their essence. I don't want the show to turn into another typical melodrama.

Originally posted by: DracarysTrio

Cheating is not only a physical phenomenon, it's emotional as well, Love is an emotion, sleeping with someone else without feelings is possible, say when you are drunk, but feelings are permanent, if Kunal and Nandini fall for each other and there is some sort of sacrifice that would be wrong as two people are deciding fate of one person without her consent, when two people are in love, you can't do anything about it, moving on is the only option, yes, it's not an easy one but why stay with someone who doesn't even love you? For me that emotional connect is more important than physical one.