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Posted: 7 years ago
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there are many educated women who are not working because of the circumstance and lack of confidence.when mouli nandini split up mouli was studying.so it means nandini was also studying.so may be before completing graduation she got married to rajdeep.and he didn't let her complete her studies or allowed her to work.and sitting in a shell for many years she lost her confidence.
in urban places divorces are happening now.but still it's not accepted completely.



Originally posted by: jyoti06



I actually spoke about rural areas in my post becase yes in rural ares divorce is still a taboo but urban places r slowly changing now .. if two people r not compatible , they go for divorce .. these days parents too r very supportive and most women r working , so they r financially independent too .. I dunno why Nandini never did any job , she is educated and today's woman .. she is the one who pushed Mouli to become a doctor .. so why she herself never went onto do something is what I want to know .. they need to show more of her backstory here for us to connect with her better ..


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Posted: 7 years ago
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maybe her parents are narrow minded and so before completing studies itself they got her married or she married rajdeep suddenly as she lost her parents and became alone.according to the scene nandini got carried away by rajdeep's emotional sweet words and thought mouli misunderstood him..so she chose rajdeep over mouli.

Originally posted by: jyoti06



See that is why I m wondering why she never took some job after completing her studies before marriage itself .. it would hv made her self independent and more confident .. She married Rajdeep suddenly .. is there a reason .. Mouli warned her yet she chooses Rajdeep over her best friend ..

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Posted: 7 years ago
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nandini is tolerating all abuses as she has no one else in her life and she is hoping for rajdeep's love

Originally posted by: jyoti06



Now that Nandini will stay with Kunal and Mouli , I m hoping she opens up about her life and mayb share with them why she married Rajdeep or why she has been tolerating all the abuse over the yrs . will love to see her POV now ..

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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: jasminerahul

there are many educated women who are not working because of the circumstance and lack of confidence.when mouli nandini split up mouli was studying.so it means nandini was also studying.so may be before completing graduation she got married to rajdeep.and he didn't let her complete her studies or allowed her to work.and sitting in a shell for many years she lost her confidence.

in urban places divorces are happening now.but still it's not accepted completely.





Whatever u said is an assumption .. its not really shown in the show .. and thats exactly what I m saying .. most of the things about Nanidini is our assumptions based on her current condition .. whereas for Mouli , writers r showing everything in detail and so we dont hv to assume anything ..

I want the same for Nandini too .. show more of her backstory .. whatever u said in this post , same should b shown in the actual show too bec the trp viewers out there dont think so much .. they just react or connect to characters based on whatever is shown .. so far they hv shown very little about Nandini's life if we just delete the whole abusive present .. I want to see more ..
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: jasminerahul

maybe her parents are narrow minded and so before completing studies itself they got her married or she married rajdeep suddenly as she lost her parents and became alone.according to the scene nandini got carried away by rajdeep's emotional sweet words and thought mouli misunderstood him..so she chose rajdeep over mouli.



Again its all about "Maybe" means assumptions .. We r assuming everything about her seeing her present conditions .. thats exactly why her backstory is needed which I m hoping will b shown once she interacts more with Kunal and Mouli
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Posted: 7 years ago
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I agree... rather than repetitive abuse scenes, they should give more insight into the type of person Nandini was, her background, and why she is putting up with this extreme level of abuse.

I also found it strange that Nandini would choose Rajdeep even after Mauli accuses him of misbehaving with her. It was also strange that Rajdeep would so openly misbehave with Nandini's friend and give up his cover. He seemed so confident that Nandini wouldn't break the relationship.. which makes me wonder what was the circumstance like that Rajdeep had such a hold over Nandini even before marriage.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Thanks a lot for posting this. Personally for me Nandini is exhausting, day in & day out of crying. I am hoping that after the miscarriage plot the CVs ll show Nandini walking out of her marriage. If she still says Pati paramesher, patni dharam, pati ka samman & such stuff I am done with this show. That prostitute scene & the way she was giving her bangle to the prostitute was disgusting. If the makers thought this scene will make the audience sympathize with Nandini, they failed. It was so repulsive, revolting & yucky that I simply switched off the TV & gave tat entire episode a miss. I will wait till the miscarriage episode & then decide whether to quit the show or continue. At this point I am ready to take even an affair over this OTT prostitute/physical abuse crap that they are showing...
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Usually after few years of domestic violence wives go in to a condition called "battered women syndrome"
Where they will be unable to express themselves other than crying .
Nandini should be in that stage in the series so she need courage a lot of it and some one whom she can depends to help her .
Now she had Mauli she will be able to help her
Abusive husbands cuts all ties of patner (relatives , friends etc)

It will take time ...
Even it is a story it is terrible , just imagine people live in it
Verbal abuse is also is a torture
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Posted: 7 years ago
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No one can cry better than DD. Every actor has a strength area😆. May be CV are capitalising on that in these initial tracks. Cos trust me when DD starts crying automatically emotional ho jaate hain. Madhubala mein to records Tod diye the. 😆
Ok on a serious note, I completely agree. There need to be some different shades. I guess we shall see that only after she gets out of this marriage.
Till now , Nandini is a disappointment. But I guess that's the plan. Cv's are showing so much abuse so that when Nandini finally retaliates, it would create maximum impact.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Hi Jyo! Long time. :) Your post (and the Amir Khan DP) brought back such wonderful memories.
As always, a brilliant analysis of the good and the bad of the show. After ages I have started watching a show, mainly for the two wonderful actresses...especially Drashti .

I hope they maintain the essence of the one relationship with which they began the show, which is the friendship between these two girls, and the strength of their bonding in spite of the trials and tribulations that come their way because of the other relationships they have.

At this stage, Nandini seems to be stuck in the vortex of this so-called marriage wherein she is enabling Raj's sadism by taking whatever he is throwing at her. She is not even trying to get out of this abusive relationship, where she is treated like a mannequin by Raj, to his ends. I agree with you that two weeks down the show, we get the nature of the relationships, and that repetition of Raj's maniacal behaviour is getting to rattle. However, the meekest of the woman can find the strength to face the devil when her child is threatened. So I assume, this will be the first turning point of Nandini's life, when she will take the big leap to break out of her passivity and her violent life, triggered by the fear of the safety of her unborn child.

Just a speculation: Nandini's saviour...her best friend's husband...a husband who has shown signs, even though very faint ones, of feeling lack of something in his relationship with his wife. Nandini's on-the-face presence in their lives might just shake the foundation of this marriage.

Edited by InduG64 - 7 years ago

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