Is Anokhi completely wrong ? Has Shaurya completely changed? - Page 2

Originally posted by: shahsb_26

Heads-up but this post is only for those who can take characters with pinch of salt. Feel free to disagree politely to the post or ignore reading the moment it stops making sense.

I still do not see Anokhi's reaction to be absolutely out of place. I loved her confrontation to Badi Maa and the fact that people from her class too can try trapping people like Shaurya Saberwal... And I am hoping that Badi Maa will someday brutally regret bringing Shagun 😡 and CVs too!

Her saying she doesn't care about Shaurya and all is just a facade... The moment she realizes he is in trouble.. She will be first one to run and try finding him... Most likely it's going to be Vineet... As per telephonic conversation.

What's actually missing between these two is 'Talk'... Baat karo na!! Find some way out of the conflicts... And what I am actually curious to know is "What is Shaurya's stance?"

Are makers really planning to keep his soch as Anokhi's MU or he hasn't changed completely.

I always thought Library scene was done and dusted thing but I am surprised that they actually got this back up. It's funny how makers have always managed to tip-toed around real issues when two were actually in talking terms. Let's say Shaurya's birthday sequence where they spoke about pain, the whole sorry sequence which kind of focused on two major issues his outburst and cleared Anokhi's MU (partly guilt tripping her too for not acknowledging her), talking in the car, angry confession. None of it actually discussed real problems for events.

During these sequences, Shaurya's words kind of spoke of how she should complete her education at SIAC. I remember making some post back then too that Anokhi's success might not equal to her performance at SIAC. She has to explore the world outside too post her graduation and PG. She might get chances to travel or offers from bigger institutions. But as a person who were not in love but just guilty... Such long term plans didn't matter during car conversation.

He had definitely by then learnt one key lesson that she does not like taking 'favours' and he tried his best to ensure Anokhi does not consider any of his action as favour. He wanted to feel her special. So, I don't think he will go back to what Badi maa said... But sure shot those things trigger past memories.!

It will be kind of inconsistent if they make him go back to his original thought process after proclaiming his love for aaj ki ladki... But let's see.

Done with ranting... Bye bye...

Lastly😆 the character inconsistency can be attributed to poorly written Love story... Rather than keeping real issues at the bay for after falling in love.. They could have fallen while dealing with them. But Anokhi is still definitely in love... I am not quite sure if she trusts him...

Yes the main problem in their relationship is the lack of communication. First it was from Shaurya's side. He never tried to clear Anokhi's insecurities nor did he tell about Shagun fully. As soon as he met Shagun on Holi day he should have told everything to Anokhi. He did not do that.He just disappeared from there. In Goa also time was spent in romancing and celebrating. And now Anokhi is not ready to speak with him. She can do whatever she wants but she should speak for one last time with Shaurya. As far as I know Shaurya still does not know the exact reason for her behavior. He should know what happened.

Even I am curious to know what exactly is Shaurya's decision now. Is he OK for a career girl as his wife. Did he really think about all that. First he should convince himself that he is ready then only he can convince Anokhi.

I was sure that the library incident would come again some day or the other. Shaurya had really behaved very badly and passed some very hurtful comments on her character. Yes she may have forgiven him after sorry but it is not easy to forget everything that too in such a short span of time.

How the makers are going to show Anokhi getting her trust back on Shaurya will be really interesting to see. This is bound to happen. I am sure the makers would have planned something nice for this and are just waiting for KV to be back. And with the new restrictions in Goa now I think it would take a long time for us to see Shakhi together again.

Originally posted by: Soulfuldream

I have a better plan,,

Let's get Shaurya married with Anokhi,, he should get a taste of the psycho family..

Daddy bhalla the truest misogynist will give him a run for his money...

Mommy bhalla will keep giving daggers to Shaurya for marrying her aasmaanon ko chune wali chidiya

Babli di will keep comparing him with you know who and hurtling unending abuses and complains..

Vineet jiju will kidnap him for money and take him to mutton shops for fresh mutton..

Raja bhaiya his saala, another ass of a bhalla ...shot Aastha, his on and off mum.

Anokhi, wifey dearest who once believes in something dives straight into the Marina trench with it. Nothing can waver her belief..

KAISE suljhayenge PS in rishton ko.. jaane ke liye dekhen "PS ki dhalti Jawaani aur Anokhi ki har Mann maani" on star plus...

Uske liye he need not get married... Ladka is already rejected by Babli di... He just needs to ask for her hand in marriage... Just made a different post on how Tej and Devi can approach Anokhi ka parivaar with lalach only to be rejected.

Originally posted by: Haal-e-Dil

What was mentioned regarding the Library scene today?

It's all moving so fast and Audience expectations are like"oh he did so much!!! How can you not see and blame the poor guy?" But didn't he create a lot of mess in the first place? And probably not even 1/2 month passed in show timeline, itna trust kahase laye in that short time.

I think most likely post S returns it will be a mu like haw how dare u not trust me, in khunnas I will marry shagun atlst she finally chose me!!!😆

Anokhi will be sad but won't give 2 hoots if SS takes this decision. As she said on the face of BM, she has other things to do than fasoying bade ghar ke ladke. SS aisa karle to uss ka hi loss hai....🤣

Originally posted by: pratikshaa100

I have written this is EDT and just pasting here to let u know my take on this.

I totally understand what she is doing, her actions and thoughts. Pehle to SS ne Ex ke saath date ke din dinner kar liye, he even told he used to love Shagun aur uss ke baad Anokhi ke muh pe ILU phek ke Goa chale aaye kyun ki control nehi ho raha tha. Anokhi may not pointed out his double standards then, but she is definitely not a blind eye to his actions.

BM ne aake engagement announce kardi, he stood like a statue. Instead of maturely solving issues, he got into an accident. His ex and mom revealed that he broke off the engagement just because Shagun wanted to study further. He claimed to love Shagun but he made her choose between him and her career. What is the guarantee that he won't do the same with her?

Afer gaining consciousness, SS is again lapata. Anokhi is thinking that unse phir se control nehi ho paya aur wo kahin aur bhaag gaye. The way she said she isn't interested in him anymore, is pretty justified although I felt a quite bad for SS. Any sane women would do that. Instead of loving a guy with over possessiveness, controlling behaviour, abandonment issues who is against women empowerment, she has other issues to resolve, she needs to ace her studies, make her career and do something for herself, her mother and sister.

See... I always had an issue with quite many things in storyline... And I guess it was purposely ignored by makers to create main tracks for them. Double date thing will now probably come up as soon as Anokhi realizes that his problems with Ahir is purely out Ahir and her relationship... Or else he wouldn't be soo pissed off.. He has been rude to Ahir since day 1..Matlab he has been having problem with them since so long!

If fans can say, I am sure makers aren't going to forget about it.

Anokhi had not taken Shagun by her words. She had thought about it, connected her experience, and spoke to Astha and then made the decision. The only reason she is refusing talking to Shaurya is not because she enjoys keeping him out of loop.. But because she feels she won't be able to hide her feelings from him or because KV was going to be away... 😎

After gaining consciousness him being lapataa is toh CV's majboori because of KV's absence. But he was all set to talk to Anokhi...

The only issue all this while is that Anokhi's resolve to not talk to Shaurya is getting stronger... She may get little weaker later on...

Neither is Anokhi wrong nor has Shaurya changed completely. Anokhi has too much on her mind to even think that something could have happened to Shaurya or that his life may be in danger. She did put up a brave face in front of Devi who accused her of similar things that Shaurya has done in the past. Her immediate response would be to negate them and that is what she did. But she was worried about Shaurya and breathed a sigh of relief on knowing that he had been found. It has been just two days since she had her heart broken, she will need some time to come to terms with everything. But before that Babli Vineet issue has started.

It is true she had many instances of Shaurya helping her but there had been many instances of him being a believer in patriarchy. In fact her first impression of him had been that speech which he gave in prize distribution ceremony and then him insulting Aastha. She has reasons to believe he does not respect women or rather their right to make a choice. He may be chivalrous and all that but he does believe in drawing a line for women, and that in some respect is not respecting a woman's capability to take decisions on her own.

Now they have come a long way since that time ( though in tv world it might be 3-4 months), and Anokhi has seen the good side of Shaurya. Compared to the other men in her life he was gold. But whether his views regarding working women has actually changed is something she doesn't know. He may like aaj ki nari Anokhi, who is strong, outspoken and yet deeply caring, but she has high flying ambitions too. For Anokhi, Shaurya is an important part of her universe and not the centre of it. Somehow after talking to Shagun and Aastha she has got the idea that Shaurya wants his woman to make him her topmost priority. This is also true to an extent.

In my opinion Shaurya hasn't changed completely as far as his mentality is concerned. He doesn't even need to. What he needs to do is to understand that another person can have a different perspective to life and he has to learn to respect that. Career women cannot manage both without external help. That is a fact. Someone has to take their place when they are out for work. It could be a caretaker or a member of the family. So Shaurya's idea is not completely wrong but just because a woman cannot manage both doesn't make her a bad mother or bad wife. And Anokhi's view of having an identity in addition to being a mother daughter or wife is also not wrong. Both will have to make certain compromises. Life is all about that.

So a situation may come in future when Anokhi might have to go abroad for study and stay there for a few years. It doesn't mean Shaurya has to follow her or she has to reject that offer and only then the relationship can last. They can sustain it by staying apart for a few years too. They have to reach a middle ground. Thora tum chalo thora hum chalein.

All these issues can be sorted out only if they talk. They don't need to change each other but they will have to decide their priorities. Those too will keep changing with time.

I wrote a lot but don't know if I made any sense or of I deviated completely from the topic. Bhavnao me kuch zyada hi beh gayi. 😆

Originally posted by: Haal-e-Dil

What was mentioned regarding the Library scene today?

It's all moving so fast and Audience expectations are like"oh he did so much!!! How can you not see and blame the poor guy?" But didn't he create a lot of mess in the first place? And probably not even 1/2 month passed in show timeline, itna trust kahase laye in that short time.

I think most likely post S returns it will be a mu like haw how dare u not trust me, in khunnas I will marry shagun atlst she finally chose me!!!😆

Forget the show timeline... As I said... Anokhi realized her feelings for Shaurya within 10 days of library character assassination scene.

Arrey baba what is MU? I really don't know where does MU come into picture unless he is changed and she doesn't know.. She has MUed him... 🤣

Once Anokhi finds Shaurya probably saves him, I want her to go and throw him to BM and ask her to take care of her ladlaa beta... And I want her to clearly mention all the insults and venom they have spewed during his absence so that he knows... Amount of trouble Anokhi has gone through because of him... Like that's where makers stopped right without KV... He knew Anokhi had been insulted and he wanted to talk... We would have gotten the talk... nd probably we still might get the talk after she hands over Shaurya to BM

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Am I over assuming stuff? 😆smiley37 maybe.. But I hope he doesn't let Anokhi budge away from him without speaking to her... I have waited enough for talk... Please get them talking!!!

Originally posted by: anuprem

Yes the main problem in their relationship is the lack of communication. First it was from Shaurya's side. He never tried to clear Anokhi's insecurities nor did he tell about Shagun fully. As soon as he met Shagun on Holi day he should have told everything to Anokhi. He did not do that.He just disappeared from there. In Goa also time was spent in romancing and celebrating. And now Anokhi is not ready to speak with him. She can do whatever she wants but she should speak for one last time with Shaurya. As far as I know Shaurya still does not know the exact reason for her behavior. He should know what happened.

Even I am curious to know what exactly is Shaurya's decision now. Is he OK for a career girl as his wife. Did he really think about all that. First he should convince himself that he is ready then only he can convince Anokhi.

I was sure that the library incident would come again some day or the other. Shaurya had really behaved very badly and passed some very hurtful comments on her character. Yes she may have forgiven him after sorry but it is not easy to forget everything that too in such a short span of time.

How the makers are going to show Anokhi getting her trust back on Shaurya will be really interesting to see. This is bound to happen. I am sure the makers would have planned something nice for this and are just waiting for KV to be back. And with the new restrictions in Goa now I think it would take a long time for us to see Shakhi together again.

I actually never thought that library incident would come up again... I always felt... I will be left disappointed with Sorry closure we got.. But then I was fine with it.. Of course it's not easy to forget in real life... And falling in love with such person would be equally difficulty... But I let it pass saying.. Serial hai chalta hai...

So glad they did bring few things from past and Anokhi can rationally evaluate some of his actions. I think 2 more weeks before we see Shaurya back on screen and 3 before they will talk 🤪

Originally posted by: shahsb_26

Forget the show timeline... As I said... Anokhi realized her feelings for Shaurya within 10 days of library character assassination scene.

Arrey baba what is MU? I really don't know where does MU come into picture unless he is changed and she doesn't know.. She has MUed him... 🤣

Once Anokhi finds Shaurya probably saves him, I want her to go and throw him to BM and ask her to take care of her ladlaa beta... And I want her to clearly mention all the insults and venom they have spewed during his absence so that he knows... Amount of trouble Anokhi has gone through because of him... Like that's where makers stopped right without KV... He knew Anokhi had been insulted and he wanted to talk... We would have gotten the talk... nd probably we still might get the talk after she hands over Shaurya to BM

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Am I over assuming stuff? 😆smiley37 maybe.. But I hope he doesn't let Anokhi budge away from him without speaking to her... I have waited enough for talk... Please get them talking!!!

I have full umeed ki if ^^ happen, the moment anokhi be like "your badi ma" SHAURYA will say BASSSS ANOKHIII!!! HOW DARE YOUUUUU SHES MY MAAAAAA MY EVERYTHING...

Talk ho to acha hai alot of faltoo natak will be avoided

Originally posted by: Idiotboxer

Neither is Anokhi wrong nor has Shaurya changed completely. Anokhi has too much on her mind to even think that something could have happened to Shaurya or that his life may be in danger. She did put up a brave face in front of Devi who accused her of similar things that Shaurya has done in the past. Her immediate response would be to negate them and that is what she did. But she was worried about Shaurya and breathed a sigh of relief on knowing that he had been found. It has been just two days since she had her heart broken, she will need some time to come to terms with everything. But before that Babli Vineet issue has started.

It is true she had many instances of Shaurya helping her but there had been many instances of him being a believer in patriarchy. In fact her first impression of him had been that speech which he gave in prize distribution ceremony and then him insulting Aastha. She has reasons to believe he does not respect women or rather their right to make a choice. He may be chivalrous and all that but he does believe in drawing a line for women, and that in some respect is not respecting a woman's capability to take decisions on her own.

Now they have come a long way since that time ( though in tv world it might be 3-4 months), and Anokhi has seen the good side of Shaurya. Compared to the other men in her life he was gold. But whether his views regarding working women has actually changed is something she doesn't know. He may like aaj ki nari Anokhi, who is strong, outspoken and yet deeply caring, but she has high flying ambitions too. For Anokhi, Shaurya is an important part of her universe and not the centre of it. Somehow after talking to Shagun and Aastha she has got the idea that Shaurya wants his woman to make him her topmost priority. This is also true to an extent.

In my opinion Shaurya hasn't changed completely as far as his mentality is concerned. He doesn't even need to. What he needs to do is to understand that another person can have a different perspective to life and he has to learn to respect that. Career women cannot manage both without external help. That is a fact. Someone has to take their place when they are out for work. It could be a caretaker or a member of the family. So Shaurya's idea is not completely wrong but just because a woman cannot manage both doesn't make her a bad mother or bad wife. And Anokhi's view of having an identity in addition to being a mother daughter or wife is also not wrong. Both will have to make certain compromises. Life is all about that.

So a situation may come in future when Anokhi might have to go abroad for study and stay there for a few years. It doesn't mean Shaurya has to follow her or she has to reject that offer and only then the relationship can last. They can sustain it by staying apart for a few years too. They have to reach a middle ground. Thora tum chalo thora hum chalein.

All these issues can be sorted out only if they talk. They don't need to change each other but they will have to decide their priorities. Those too will keep changing with time.

I wrote a lot but don't know if I made any sense or of I deviated completely from the topic. Bhavnao me kuch zyada hi beh gayi. 😆

Bhavnae pahunch gai...

The talk is all that's missing so far. They had to make Anokhi slightly blind and dumb to have her fall for Shaurya so that show can be carried on. But Anokhi's observation about Shaurya has also been that he listens and understands... That's what she told Babli na?

She has been shown to be little biased towards him after falling in love... And might argue once in a while but her had come to believe that he had changed and that he does say stupid things in anger but then apologizes too... And that's how Shaurya had been treating her too... In the meantime, Anokhi had gotten this habit of partially blaming herself too.

But with bit more rationale version of Anokhi, she has definitely gained more power over others.. Because at this point her points were apt while talking to Shagun and Badi Maa! She is clearly showing disinterest in his fortune and person.. But all that would soon fall out of place once Shaurya is back.

And yes... Middle path is what they both need to find through talk. Asking permission and seeking approvals isn't something that's must.. But a joint discussion is what needs to be there in any relationship! Shaurya and Anokhi... Has been really missing out talking about real issues that could help them grow as couple... Both have their own set of insecurities, back story, and differences but they are definitely not impossible to get over... Shaurya, I feel to some extent still understands and knows little more about Anokhi than Anokhi knowing about Shaurya... She is just starting to know more about him and his background... It will take time for her to accept his point of views too... But they just need to try!

Originally posted by: Haal-e-Dil

I have full umeed ki if ^^ happen, the moment anokhi be like "your badi ma" SHAURYA will say BASSSS ANOKHIII!!! HOW DARE YOUUUUU SHES MY MAAAAAA MY EVERYTHING...

Talk ho to acha hai alot of faltoo natak will be avoided

🤣 that soo reminded me of KavyaAnjali show...

Damn Kekta kapoor ke dialogues... Eijaz's character was obsessed with sauteli maa there...

But Shaurya sure knows his badi maa and family a bit more than that... He would feel bad guilty and try to talk to reluctant... Dur Hato... Don't touch me wali Anokhi..