Shaurya...... Arrogant or neglected?....

After seeing his behaviour yesterday I was so angry with his tantrums.

But when I looked deeply I could understand his insecurities and fears.

Having lost his mother at a very young age and despite having a father but not his care must be hard on him.

I feel extremely bad for him. He has his uncle and aunt but they are too manipulative and dominant although subtle in this approach.

But still he didn't had a stable childhood.

And when he was happy thinking his father is giving life a chance for him, he was proved wrong.

Ofcourse his jealousy is justified.

But his anger on anokhi is not.

I am very excited for future....

Anger k peeche ego hai.. Anokhi k liye nai .. Aastha k liye Jo anger ban gayi hai .. aur mom k liye Jo bhi hai Uske Dil mein it's justified to some extent.. kyunki Hume jitne bhi acche lage Aastha Shaan par we can't neglect the fact they are the ones who neglected their own son. You can't blame circumstances when it comes to your own child

Originally posted by: Vishi-

Anger k peeche ego hai.. Anokhi k liye nai .. Aastha k liye Jo anger ban gayi hai .. aur mom k liye Jo bhi hai Uske Dil mein it's justified to some extent.. kyunki Hume jitne bhi acche lage Aastha Shaan par we can't neglect the fact they are the ones who neglected their own son. You can't blame circumstances when it comes to your own child

Exactly

I have the same complaint.

But the fact is anokhi and will be the one whom he will blame.

I feel both shaan and aastha are responsible for the way shaurya has become arrogant and short tempered. Both aastha and shaan have failed as parents miserably. Now anokhi will face the brunt for all this

Originally posted by: Vishi-

Anger k peeche ego hai.. Anokhi k liye nai .. Aastha k liye Jo anger ban gayi hai .. aur mom k liye Jo bhi hai Uske Dil mein it's justified to some extent.. kyunki Hume jitne bhi acche lage Aastha Shaan par we can't neglect the fact they are the ones who neglected their own son. You can't blame circumstances when it comes to your own child

Agree - they chose own family over their own son & their married life ...- specially shaan - could have stand by with ashtha against family

or

had her supported back door and get shaurya to meet her in childhood... so he gets to see how his mom is in real

He did NOT do - anything for shaurya..... just had been devdaas... at least aashtha made her career and supported her parents.....

Originally posted by: Vishi-

Anger k peeche ego hai.. Anokhi k liye nai .. Aastha k liye Jo anger ban gayi hai .. aur mom k liye Jo bhi hai Uske Dil mein it's justified to some extent.. kyunki Hume jitne bhi acche lage Aastha Shaan par we can't neglect the fact they are the ones who neglected their own son. You can't blame circumstances when it comes to your own child

I see jealousy more than ego - as anokhi is close to his both parent - what he, himself never had chance of or craved for since childhood ........

What ever ego/thinking he has is fragile - will change ... once he starts to see world with own eyes ... instead ... of bade papa - bade mom eyes....

Originally posted by: A4Anjie

Agree - they chose own family over their own son & their married life ...- specially shaan - could have stand by with ashtha against family

or

had her supported back door and get shaurya to meet her in childhood... so he gets to see how his mom is in real

He did NOT do - anything for shaurya..... just had been devdaas... at least aashtha made her career and supported her parents.....

From the look of it yes. But I believe shaan did a bigger sacrifice by giving up his love , for his son..aastha had to sacrifice for her parents ..both were conflicted and had to make tough choices. . Probably shaan chose to stay back only to give shaurya a comfortable life , probably the parents did not want their son to see a life full of struggles . Money is not everything but its bec of money , shaurya was able to get this education and he is now managing sabarwal college and what not..

From where I see , shaurya is not throwing tantrums but he too is conflicted. Deep down he has his parents sanskar but he refuses to acknowledge them bec he has seen the opposite in real life...

he is def jealous with anokhi as she is getting the affection that he craved for his entire life , from his own parents. Its forcing him to think that he might be wrong n he might have misunderstood them but his aunt's manipulations doesnt let him think the right way. Like his aunt said he IS getting affected..right now he is thinking that his mom sent anokhi to get to him , and shaan ..that's the problem at surface level .

He is just angry that his parents neglected him. Or he was said so.

Bade ma n papa filled his mind with the hatred towards his mother aastha.

And he has seen is father too.

He doesn’t like to loosu to Anokhi.

He is neglected and from what I see, I think he has bottled up all his emotions. So far, there's no reason for him to vent it out. But now, looking at the way Anokhi is getting the affection from both Shaan and Aastha (which he could never get), he is venting it out.

Kids love attention. They should be the center of world for parents. But he was always neglected- both by his mom and dad. Also, with his badi maa and bade papa, he can't be himself. I see that he is grateful to them and maybe wants them to be proud of him, for all they did for him?

Amidst all this, did he ever get a chance to live his life like a normal kid? All of that is slowly coming out now. Also, Anokhi is receiving the support, affection and love from his parents, that he could never receive.

With yesterday's episode, I completely understand him. But is it right to vent it out on Anokhi? Well, all characters are flawed and right now, he is super jealous of her. Let's see how it goes. I am looking forward to it! 🤩

But all I can say is, whatever he is today, is because of the negligence from his parents. His BM-BP were able to fill him with hatred- because his parents could never stop it. I agree that Aastha-Shaan are good, but that doesn't change the fact that they couldn't give their kid a normal life.

Originally posted by: _charu_

From the look of it yes. But I believe shaan did a bigger sacrifice by giving up his love , for his son..aastha had to sacrifice for her parents ..both were conflicted and had to make tough choices. . Probably shaan chose to stay back only to give shaurya a comfortable life , probably the parents did not want their son to see a life full of struggles . Money is not everything but its bec of money , shaurya was able to get this education and he is now managing sabarwal college and what not..

From where I see , shaurya is not throwing tantrums but he too is conflicted. Deep down he has his parents sanskar but he refuses to acknowledge them bec he has seen the opposite in real life...

he is def jealous with anokhi as she is getting the affection that he craved for his entire life , from his own parents. Its forcing him to think that he might be wrong n he might have misunderstood them but his aunt's manipulations doesnt let him think the right way. Like his aunt said he IS getting affected..right now he is thinking that his mom sent anokhi to get to him , and shaan ..that's the problem at surface level .

I completely agree with you! I can understand Shaan and Aastha, but if I look at it from Shaurya's perspective, he always craved for love, affection and attention from his parents. No matter how much sacrifices they have done, but at the end, he couldn't have the normal life.

I am more interested to know why Shaan didn't give much attention towards his son. Is he so guilty that Shaurya reminds him of what he could not do for Aastha? How he could not help his wife and in a way, let her go, especially leaving their only child behind?

Maybe once they start showing much of their backstory, I can't comment much on them. But I feel him, he is so hurt. There is no one to guide him and with badi maa in picture, things are getting worse! He is not able to see beyond anything that Aastha left him.

I am so loving the characters, there's so much of scope for each of them! Looking forward to their journey :)

PS: I used to read your posts on KZK2 forum but couldn't interact with you. Hope I get to interact with you here :)