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Posted: 11 years ago
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I completely sympathize with this girl Alka.Being the eldest is mostly frustrating. You are constantly reminded of your responsibilities, even though you are a kid you have to act like a grown up matured person all the time. You always have to set an exemplary example before your younger siblings. Things are worst if you are a girl child.You become the caretaker of family's honor and pride. Whereas the younger ones are more liberated without much Botheration. If they do something wrong , parents start questioning you first.
Alka had to take up the responsibility of her three sisters after her mother's death. She was thrusted into a domesticated life in her childhood. Cooking,cleaning ,looking after kid sisters without much fuss keeping all her contrived feelings to herself.She got the break from such mundane chores only in her colorful imaginations and when Rajeev came she could not hold herself anymore. I hated Devyani when she was being nasty with Alka. She shows herself to be a bold, free spirited girl but absolutely got cold feet when she got those anonymous phone calls.

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Nice post 😊

My view : Alka is the eldest but she is not taking any responsibilities of her dad n sis...Instead Anushka is taking all responsibilities..😳

Even in intial episodes when dey r abt to go to Delhi bua says Alka dat u r d eldest n take care of all but she says ya I m eldest but only 3-4 age difference it doesnt matter.. Anushka s there to take care of all our daadi amma 😆 (dialougs something like dis)

Alka has some inferiority complex ,dat she told Rajeev dat she s not beautiful like anushka n smart like devyani... Still u loves me??
She loves films n live in filmy world (shastri ji said once)...n its her first proposal so just slipped in Rajeev proposal...

I agree Devyani's behaviour s also not good to Alka...she can speak calmly...

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Posted: 11 years ago
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I also sympathize with Alka alright - I would probably do the same too, if I were in such a situation..But the thing I dont agree with is her attitude to her family members.. I feel that she should have been a little more considerate to her dad, especially since the otherwise conservative Mr. Shastri came down and tried to make peace.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: --Divya--

Nice post 😊


My view : Alka is the eldest but she is not taking any responsibilities of her dad n sis...Instead Anushka is taking all responsibilities..😳

Even in intial episodes when dey r abt to go to Delhi bua says Alka dat u r d eldest n take care of all but she says ya I m eldest but only 3-4 age difference it doesnt matter.. Anushka s there to take care of all our daadi amma 😆 (dialougs something like dis)

Alka has some inferiority complex ,dat she told Rajeev dat she s not beautiful like anushka n smart like devyani... Still u loves me??
She loves films n live in filmy world (shastri ji said once)...n its her first proposal so just slipped in Rajeev proposal...

I agree Devyani's behaviour s also not good to Alka...she can speak calmly...


She is looking after the household like a homemaker. That is enough responsibility. She is not that outspoken like Devyani and Anu. There are many women who silently do the work. We cannot term them as irresponsible if they are introvert. Anu is grown up now so she is is doing what an elder grown up should be doing. But that does not mean Alka never did anything. Alka did one irresponsible work of leaving Piya alone in the market. But her behavior seems to have changed since she met Rajeev because after meeting him she has started thinking about herself.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Alka is stupid egoistic nd immature..atleast thats what i think abt her!nd i hav been watching d shw frm day 1 nd she has been shwn as self centered girl! Nt evn once she was shwn to b like d responsible one! Idk frm where u gt d point of she taking d responsiblity bcoz it was never shwn or said yet!if they shw us d fb scenes then fine! Warna i think she is dump!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Nice post but since i started watching dis series i havent seen a day wen she iz being responsible towards her family...wen shastri sisters were bout to leave for delhi. ..alka was d one who left her sisters waiting for her at railway station coz of rajeev...den after reaching their pia got missing coz of alka...after dat she wanted to talk to rajeev so sent pia to market n neil bullied her..devyani n anushka saved her...if dis was not enough she was really annoying d way she behaved wid her father n sisters...at last till now i dont like alka's character..
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Posted: 11 years ago
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so true...agree with u ...awasome post
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Alka definitely is a responsible daughter and a responsible sister...She has never acted to be self centered before and she did not have anything to go self centered. Her father and her sisters was her world...

Only after Rajeev fiasco Alka started thinking about herself... otherwise she did not have any business other than her family... I agree she does not know how to manage the family, like how Anushka does... but she serves them according to her capacity and capability, which is the house hold things... She has never enjoyed her life, but just been a caretaker of her sisters...

But for every person who suppress their feelings, would have an outburst which ruins every sacrifices you did till then... and that happened with Alka...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Many members feel that Alka is a responsible daughter. If she was responsible enough why did she let Rani Bhabhi misguide her? Why didn't she ask Rajeev if he told his family about her? Why didn't she open her mouth when her father kept asking.
To me, she was never responsible. She never had any ambitions to do something that's why she became a caretaker (albeit a lousy one too at that, no one had asked her too). If she had decided to pursue a career or something, her father would have been supportive of her.
Imagine if Rajeev had taken her away by force that day from Sareen House to Kanpur, has anyone even thought of the aftermath? She would have been humiliated in front of Rajeev's family, and his father would have refused to accept her. What would have happen then? Return to Delhi? And make up lies when Minty would ask about her disappeareance?

I just hope after marriage to Rohan, she comes to sees his goodness and starts caring for him. I already saw his goodness in the way he said he wouldn't ask for her cell number until she gave her consent to the rishta. Now that's classy and shows patience.

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