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Dhieb Yosra

@Flora15

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Posted: 8 years ago

I saw everywhere fans blaming &insulting Saumya for leaving Harman and going to kinars world...Make yourself in Saumya place and tray to understand her...Both Saumya and Harman are right and i explained in previous posts why Harman is right and i 'll do again in this post but after defending Saumya reaction...Saumya like you know she's an inexperienced person ;She lived all her life tongue tied to her mother and through her eyes she learned what she can...She have no idea how is this world and how are people..She lived in fear and she 's very sensilble like gulab...After that Harman loved her and accepted her with her identity and she lived tongue tied to him too...Harman is the unique person who support her and with him she inicited learning about this world and how people are .He gives her strengh and she feels with him her astitva ka ehsaas but SaumYa is still that emotional and sensible person and brainwashing her is an easy task...Her kinar identity is still her weakness and Preeto profits Harman changments behaviours and his overpossessivness in her behalf and she succeed in that..When Harman tells her things are changed and refused revealing her identity Saumya misunderstood him...She though that he only love her beauty and not her as a kinar...This wrong though burns her and broke her heart bcz in this way can't feel her astitva ka ehssas and improove herself with pround that she's Harman wife in front of everyone..Saumya has right thinking so that why living with Harman eaven loving him have no meaning for her ..She has right thinking so(eaven wrongly bcz she becomes blind by anger ,sadness and emtions) for not being that wife who fullfil her husband desires..She goes to kinars worlds to live there declaring war with her husband..It's Saumya battle she must pass this phase...Harman knows his wife nature and why she's acting so eaven she's hurting him with her strange acts but his love is strong and never giving up loving her ...He wants protect her and that's why he will kidnapp her and he will confront her anger and fights with love ..There will be struggles but SaumYa after this storm will understand her husband and their relation will be more stronger than before.

Edited by Flora15 - 8 years ago

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meenji22

@meenji22

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Posted: 8 years ago

bang on post

on her place somya is r8 bt still she shud think once before leaving harman .

what harman not done 4 her even he disowned his parents n support her in every condition

n now saya also supporting her in wrong decission

saya is sensible n understand all atleast she should listen harman n think with calm mind

try to clear MU of somya bcz harman is suffering equally

he is living only 4 somya

still she doubt n without thinking a sec she left house

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Gagori Chatterjee

@jyoti06

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Posted: 8 years ago

Beautiful post Flora .. just loved how u thought from Soumya's POV .. yes she has hardly seen the outside world .. so like us she does not hv that kind of thinking capacity .. she does not understand who is playing games with her and why .. she takes everyone on face value ..

Problem here is Soumya is very naive when it comes to thinking deep .. So when Preeto in precap tells Soumya in that emotional tone that Harman will reveal her identity in front of all so that she dont hv to live in that fear anymore , she blindly believes that finally she will get respect and love for her identity , forgetting the fact that how society will never accept a kinner's marriage to a man and might even try to harm her , reason why Harman is safeguarding this truth ; I know Soumya knows nothing about the market incident but she definitely knows how kinners r treated , they cant even work as servant in anyone's house , so can this same society accept her marriage ?? ; I wish she used her brain in all this and herself refused Preeto about revealing her identity .. But mayb the human being in her is longing for this moment where her identity will get respect and acceptance in society and so she overlooked other things and was just happy that she will not hv to hide it anymore 🤔 ..

But when Harman will deny her that acceptance in society , she will completely break down .. It happens actually .. When u suddenly hv sky high expectations from someone , and he/she breaks it , then u feel angry , hurt and frustrated .. Same will happen to Soumya I guess .. And this is what Preeto wanted .. Preeto reads human psyhology well in this case the way she smartly planned it all 😡 .. She might win temporarily but well she dunno to what extreme her own son can go for his Gulabo 😆😈...

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goolab

@goolab

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Posted: 8 years ago

For this time I blame soumya she forget what Harman did for her fight with his family for her and her mum hiding her from kinnar world and people now she want harman to tell people his wife is kinnar she need to use her brain she always with evil people for Harman she dont feel nothing she is selfish this is funny too when she clap her hand what she want to saw to harman she forget harman no she is kinnar

please CV give soumya some brain is time now is 1 year already she is same and fedup with preeto drama

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meenji22

@meenji22

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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: goolab
For this time I blame soumya she forget what Harman did for her fight with his family for her and her mum hiding her from kinnar world and people now she want harman to tell people his wife is kinnar she need to use her brain she always with evil people for Harman she dont feel nothing she is selfish this is funny too when she clap her hand what she want to saw to harman she forget harman no she is kinnar

please CV give soumya some brain is time now is 1 year already she is same and fedup with preeto drama

yes this time somya behaving as dumb

she forget she is alive only due to her mother nimmi n her husband harman

he is the one who refuse to treat her bcz he accepted her as she is

she herself give chance preeto n mannu to use her emotion

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Dhieb Yosra

@Flora15

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Posted: 8 years ago

@global &@mmeeji 22 dears SaumYa is doing under anger ,she's blind but Harman love will wakes her up and she'll regret that...SaumYa haven't strengh enough to face problems and ups and downs can happen between any simple couple...In anger they forget the goodness of everyone of them

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Shonal8

@Shonal8

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Posted: 8 years ago

Sorry Saumya by this time has had a life time of experiences to know who to trust unless she is utterly stupid. I am sorry this time for me Saumya's point of view is absolutely unjustifiable. She can reveal her kinnar identity and have several discussions regarding this with Harman and try to understand why he has changed. But now Preeto's doll is back again. If Harman now decides to leave Saumya I will be on Harmans side. a

Agree with Goolab CVs pl give Saumya some brain. Her nativity has become unbearable to the viewers.

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meenji22

@meenji22

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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: Shonal8
Sorry Saumya by this time has had a life time of experiences to know who to trust unless she is utterly stupid. I am sorry this time for me Saumya's point of view is absolutely unjustifiable. She can reveal her kinnar identity and have several discussions regarding this with Harman and try to understand why he has changed. But now Preeto's doll is back again. If Harman now decides to leave Saumya I will be on Harmans side. a
Agree with Goolab CVs pl give Saumya some brain. Her nativity has become unbearable to the viewers.

watch today seg

somya behaving typical kinner

she is acting like kinner n learning how to beat dholak

she wasted all nimmi n harman hard work n sacrifices

she never care 4 harman n his sacrrifices

at least she shut care for her mother sacrifices n death.

she became so blind in her own she forget all she is till now is just due to harman

harman made her so strong n she is showing eyes to him

she forget if harman not there for her side ppl were costing her n keeping her outer beauty prices acc to their needs n ppl were using her so called beauty

sorry to say this time somya is totally wrong

n even saya is supporting her in her wrong decision instead of finding r8 reason

so now this time we will not call somya innocent harman has made her so strong to stand n understand socity

till now she has seen to much ups n downs

mostly downs n at that time only n only harman was there by her side bt still she fails to understand harman n blame him n doubt on his love

Edited by meenji22 - 8 years ago

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Ishu

@Pani.Puri

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Posted: 8 years ago

Nice Post Flora 👏👏👏

Just like everyone even I dint like Saumya turning into a TG and staying with them by leaving Harman who did everything for her + behaving like them was so ... But at the same time I would like to ask that isn't it what we all wanted ???? 😆😆😆

See , ppl themselves said so many times on IF and other sites (including myself) that - now the story should move forward ... That now more should be shown in terms of HaYa and not limited only to Pulao session and hand kiss ... So how will HaYa's story progress from hand kiss to passion filled love + so many beautiful tight hugs ??? 😆😆😆

So how will more be shown in terms of HaYa ?? Obviously By showing tashan , by showing spark b/w them ... And that spark can be shown only when they are not a lovey dovey couple staying together ... When a couple is staying together or behaving like lovey dovey then how will that spark and tashan come b/w them ?? 😆😆

That spark can be shown only when one of them feels angry and upset on the other one and stays away from that person ... And when one of them will stay away from the person whom he/she loved then that passion filled love , then that obsession , then that concern and emotions will be much more superb and a notch higher ...

And isn't it what most of the VDians wanted for VD - to show some shades like this of passion filled with love , concern and anger ??? 😆😆😆

Isn't it what HaYa fans wanted ???? - That now no more fool should be made of HaYa fans in the name of romantic scenes like hand kiss and all ... And now HaYa's chemistry should show some spark rather than so much of love and romance 😆😆

And tell me that dint we enjoyed yesterday's tashan and that spark which was visible b/w HaYa when Harman came to kidnap Saumya (according to the news segments) ?? Afterall this is what ppl wanted .

Haya fans wanted intense romance and passion b/w Haya , VDians wanted VD should show some shades like this in which he is best i.e such intense obsession and passion filled episodes where his passion in love has that aggression and determination ... So folks ! You all are getting what you wanted from your couple , from your actor/actress 🤣🤣

And the biggest thing is that all these things which fans are getting is possible only when Harman Saumya will stay away from each other ... Now its not a rocket science to know that HaYa's love is so strong and so powerful that even if there was any other reason given for MU , then also it would have looked stupid and BS just like this reason where Saumya doesn't think about Harman and his sacrifices and went to that TG world not even once thinking about Harman .

And to show VD's best portray of passionate ardent lover + HaYa's tashan , MU was needed and isnt it obvious that in MU one person has to be always shown as a person who for the time being forgets everything & sacrifices that his/her partner has done for you .. This is how all MU's have been shown and will be shown on Indian televison where one partner is shown as selfish but then as far as sparkful and tashan wala romance is shown to audience it doesnt matter what all reasons are shown for MU 🤣🤣

So how much ever I dislike that Saumya dint listen to Harman , I'm looking forward for this whole story where I will see some love hate kinda relationship + what VD is best in doing i.e passionate obsessive portrayal ...

Like I said earlier in one of your post that I dont know how others are perceiving this track but I'm looking forward for this track bcz :

1) It will give respite from regular romantic Harman which will give diabetes to everyone bcz so much of romance is not good afterall some spark kinda scenes are necessary to balance our sugar level 🤣🤣🤣

2) It will give us some respite from planning , plotting , side character drama , shotuing

And the way Harman came to kidnap Saumya and the way he said his dialogs t Saumya were so awesome and so I'm in for these episodes and I dont mind for this MU 😆😆

And with this I end my POV 🤣🤣🤣