Originally posted by: Hend_Refai
My dear lovely sister
thank you so much for sharing your story with us allI always say for people who don't accept diffrences in otherwhos is normal and who is not?and who can judge that?you born with some health challenges you family accept you as a gift from ALLAH and they cared for you give you love and protected you from any other difficultiesyou are so lucky thanks to ALLAHALLAH created us all equally each one of us is created for purpose in this life and as long as you live you still have purpose in this life that no one can do it for you or instead you and to fulfill this purpose or your task in this world ALLAH put us in some circumstances our family our shape our country our time we live inany difficulties we have in this life are shaping our personalty to be able to finish our taskso your handicap is not your weakness but it is your strength that shapped you the way you are to do your task in this world perfectlyyou are lucky to have perents stand with you and support you and teach you thatbut our Somya not that luckyand to tell you the truth being a different is not only reason to be rejected or feel not fit inif others decided to hate you and reject you they don't need an excuse to do thatthey just say that they do it cause you are diffrentbut the truth that they are the one handicapped not youthey are the one who can't love others or accept themif you allow me to share with you somethingI'm the opposite of youI born as a healthy smart good looking childbut in some family reasons I lived my life feeling rejected from my familyI lived my whole life away from my family and my parents my brothers and sistersI felt rejectedI felt hatednever felt the warmth of family lovefor a while I felt that I have none and I'm noneI even thought of ending my lifebut thanks to ALLAH something hit meALLAH created me in this worldsure for somethingeven if I don't know what is itbut my life is matterI'm important in this worldwithout me the world will not be the sameor else he wouldn't created meSo I started to accept myself as I'mand started to accept my life as it isand learned that any difficulties I have in this life are what make me as I amand to do my task in this world I must be who I amso I started to thank ALLAH for these difficultiesI accepted it and be grateful for itand that braught me peace in my heartand helped me to contact my family and understand them and accept themAll I wanted to say that every one is diffrenteveryone has handicap in his lifesome their handicap is visible like in your case and Somya caseand some are notnone is perfectnone is normalso we must accept ourselves and others as we arethat's how we can llive in peace with ourselves and with others