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Before writing my story and her deep relation with Shakti serial i must say something .Fan's used to celebrate their favorite birthday stars by gifts and wishes but me like i'm a little bit different and God gifted a sepecial nature i'll use this occasion of our lovely star VIVIAN DSENA To talk about Shakti &my journey in this world wishing him may allah gives him all success and hapiness in this world.
First of all let me represent my self flora from Tunisia (not India like it was written in tweeter ;i'm using India location for trending.Flora is not my name it's a nickname for tweeter & forum ; it's very meaningful for me;my real name is Yosra )
To be frank with you i didn't watch Shakti from the beginning but i used to see dispersed episodes when i have time because i love Vivian Dseena acting and i'm not that person who loves a lot watching tv shows till something disturbed me a lot.
The repetition of the word kinar pushed me to do research on the net and i was shocked when i discovered that means third gender.So i decided to see all the show on the net from the beginning with more intention and care .
It's first time in all my life that one show touched me a lot and makes me cry several times from the buttom of my heart ;there is moments can't stop my tears...Shakti reminds me my own journey in this word : i'm too different (i'm handicap) and with time my diffrence become my shakti.
No one can feels the true meaning of having different identity or different nature if he or she isn't himself or herself different.That's why i decided to speak about my journey and assimilate it with shakti to enlighten people mentalities and open their hearts and minds ;they have to respect and accept others difference.We too are human like them .God created us equals so they must be human and FillTheirHeartWithLove.
Love is the magic or to simplify it is the kee for everything .
My journey beginning is a little bit different than Saumya journey i was born in a family who loved me a lot(not like Saumya who have only her mother love&her father hates her and wants her death) .My parents accepted the fact that i'm handicap ;they discovered that when i have 3 years old.On that time when i was born there are many families who can't accept the fact that they have children with defects and hide them from society;they feel shame and inferiority and insulting their sin ( i was born in 1977 )but my parents are very happy for having me and inicieted to search a treatment for me. They was shoked there is no treament for my case and my handicap is instable and progress with years slowly.
The only treatment is to do usuals check up to observe my handicap and they 're giving me vitamines and massage.
My parents didn't giving up bcz i apparently look like any other chidren without any defects but when i walk everyone can notice my abnormal walk:i walk a waddling walk , i loose my balance sometimes and fall down.I climb the stairs by leaning on someone help or on the ramps.
They do their best to make me feel normal like any children and they raised me with that feeling.I was very smart and when kids push me away and say me you're handicap ; you can't play with us ;i replay them with confidence: no i can do it and i convince them by assimilating games with my habilities and i invent new rules for games .Children by time love this inventive and creative side in me and they enjoy playing with me.
You can notice that i'm the luckyest girl in this world; my parents didn't hide me in house for shame or inferiority but they treated me as any normal girl and learned me to feel that.This is not Saumya case she's unlucky in this side her only world is her mother ;she's her everything.She lived emprisioned in her home ,no one can see her and without any identity or education.Her father only talks about his other daughter.She lived in fear and her mother enroll her duppata on her hands every night when she sleep beside her fearing that saya kidnapp her or her father kill her.This makes the other sister hating Saumo without knowing why her mother is giving all her time & love to her sister.(This unhuman treatment touched me lot and i cryed deeply for her case bcz nowdays there are families who have shame for their children identity.
Now returning to my story when my parents wanted putting me in normal school bcz my handicap is only physically; a lot of schools refused that and adviced them to put me in handicap center (this center have no relation with education they only learn them manualidades and primitive things).My parents refused that & didn't giving up ;they searched till they find a school who accepted me.To proove myself i worked double and without any help i was between the best students in class after that my parents show my results to one school who refused my admition and watching my good results accepted me .They do that bcz the school is the nearest one to my house and to show that their daughter handicap is only physical.It wasn't easy task i alaways listen others say poor she's handicap&they didn't call me with my name but with :oh! You handicap &after that they say sorry they didn't mean it.
It wasn't easy for me as child to here word handicap all the time ,poor child she's handicap,look at her how she walks poor girl she's beautiful but incomplete...Eaven in my parents family i listened word handicap ..It's very tough ,hurtful &umbearable.Imagine how can a little child assumes that.Adding to that neighbors said to my parents what can you expect from an handicap, why don't let her at home and you're giving her education..My parents ignored people talks and gived me all their supports.Quickly i transformed the word handicap in my Shakti and when i hear it ; it gives me strengh and self confidence .I'm watching myself unique with this pureful gift by god.I have no shame or feelings of being incomplete bcz my experience learned me by time that i'm a complete creation given by god but with some defference witch make me unique.
years passes and the little girl grow up and entred college here an other obstacle ;i'm taking transports to go to college and passing all my day there;thing isn't allowded that time.It's very tough and exhausting task for me but i'm assuming that with a smily face & my parents facilitate me the conditions and buyed a new house near the college .My handicap has progresed and i only can walk a few meters and the wheelchair become a necessity .I accepted it with hapiness bcz i have faith in god and in my self: who i'm (i'm god creation and he created me in this world to testify me).Here i'm too different from Saumya condition bcz their parents change City for shame &to hide her true identity.She 's jailed in the house &ignore everything about the world minwhile her sister is enjoying everything.
People point of view changed they 're giving me big respect ;they 're watching me as an exemple ;they enjoy talking with me and they 're glad to share my way of thinking.You see these are fruits of my parents efforts first & in second place mines .I'm questioning myself what will be Saumya sort if her dad accepts her identity and gives her love and a good upbringing.They changed the city and they can hide her truth from others bcz she look like any girl.At least he gives her this right and her truth will be only between family members.I can never give resepect for such a devil father.Who haven't any fatherhood feelings for his daughter whose descriminated ,insulted and marginated only for her identity.Oh!hello father,it's you who wanted having children &your wife gived birth to that child.Assume the fact that she's different and handle your responsabilities as a father.Don't be selfish for your sake &what people would think about you.
I wished also that Saumya parents spoke with her daughter about her identity when she 's child and learned her how to have self confidence and be strong.I wished mother & father together were her shakti & facing for her all difficulties and obstacles but my lovely Saumya was unlucky only her mother was her shakti and her only world .I'm shocked with this unhuman act. why blaming someone for his identity ?It's not up to him being girl ,boy ,third gender or having some defects. Our identity and our nature are up to god.God created us equals as human but with different identities,natures and races.Be human and accept other difference for humanity. Give them the respect and love bcz they're like you humans.
Returning to my journey; to my university studies,my parents lets me choose what i love without thinking about anything.I choose spanich language and civilization.This choice didn't exist in my city but my beloved parents encouraged me .People who knows me,my parents family and my teachers were shocked and advised my parents to make me change my choice.My parents didn't accept any objection and said to them it's her dream &and she will be successful; we have confidence and faith that she's strong enough to face all obstacles and sure she will have her degree and we will be pround of her.That time they sent me alone to study and i was blessed by god ;the home university is in same place with the university.I'm ignoring that when i made my choice but i was a lucky girl one more time.I lived with lovely freinds in university home& i succeeded managing myself.
My university experience was full of obstacles ,difficulties,ups and downs of health but i didn't let anyone knowing that.I 'm doing everything with pleasure and i 'm studying hardly to succeed every year.Freinds helped me a lot in this journey but not in my personal needs ;they helped me in university matters like taking compagny with me to go to study or of bringing me books from spanish cultural center.For being from the best students; the university gived me the opportunity to do a stage in Spain & my parents allowed me to go and they sent with me my little sister bcz everyone questioning about how i 'll manage myself.I 've done my stage and i finished my studies .I have a spanish profesor degree.I'm pround of my parents and i'm lucky that god blessed me with such a lovely parents who faced families and society lower thinking and they was my shakti in the battle to proove my existence like any other normal person.
I didn't worked with my degree ,I haven't that chance bcz society need a big change in this matter but i'm not sad for this. The most importent thing that i'm well educated ,i speak many languages & have many qualities that others missing them .If God give me the opportunity to choose my nature ;i'll say create me handicap again. My handicap is my shakti ;learned me many important qualities that if i was normal i can't having them. I know the true meaning of being different this feeling makes me more human,i know what is sufferings ,tough moments ,sikness ,ups and downs in life journey bcz i lived them.I prooved my exitance in society after a long battle with help of my family support &love and my strong personality and self confidence.
I faced very tough moments these last few years due to my handicap ,i have several times big health problems &no one believe than i can recover but the Great show them miracles and i'm recovered like i haven't suffered from anything.I alaways have faith in god and i 'm thankful for everything:bad and good bcz it's given by the great.I 'm taking everything with positivity and with happiness.I learned how to be happy and how to live happy.This a glimpse of my journey .I talked about my experience to show people a real story of Shakti Astitva ka Ehsaas but it's different from Shakti serial.
I disveiled my own journey to show you why i love and support this show and why it touched me a lot .I'm interrested a lot of HaYa's journey and i hope that CVS give HaYa more important space and a lot of care bcz Shakti deserve that .It 's talking about a very sensitive topic showed first time on tv.Thanks to colors tv to bring this show on tv & bigs thanks and hats off to the most talended actors❤️ Vivian Dseena ❤️& ❤️Rubina Dilaik❤️ to accept portraying HaYa journey❤️👏 👏 👏
As a fan i'll say to ❤️Vivian Dseena❤️ we 're proud of you .You're very human ,gentil ,respectful &very humble actor.You have with your talents a big heart❤️ ❤️ ❤️
To Shakti makers plz less HarPreetoEmpireDrama and more HaYa Journey Bcz It's ❤️HaYa's love story❤️They must be centric caracter of the show .
There is big lessons and moral to learn from Shakti show.Shakti has mission to enlighten families and societies mentalities.Be proud of What you are ,make your nature as a Shakti to face life injures ,obstacles and difficulties.When you fall down from stairs never giving up and tray again to stand up and climb again the stairs.Nothing can given to you if you don't work on yourself and live your own battle.You must learn how to transform your weakness on strengh.
Have a trust that there will be in the end of tunnel light.Go on mission to find that light;you'll face obstacles but you can beat them and never giving up .For families and socities plz stop this descrimination ,disfame and blaming others for being different.Accept & respect their diffrences they're human like you and it's god who created them like that. Stop blaming and thinking badly about them.Understand them and treat them lovely. Stop hating and insulting others ;fill your heart with love for building a better world.
As a conclusion i'll say:
This world is like a mountain. Your echo depends on you. If you scream good things, the world will give it back. If you scream bad things, the world will give it back. Even if someone says badly about you, speak well about him. Change your heart to change the world.
❤️ ❤️FillYourHeartWithLove❤️ ❤️
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I choose writting the glimpse of my journey on this pureful rainbow eye to say that we need all coulours to have shining lights and we needs all rainbow coulours to enlighten humanity.I'm a positive person and i love my life and i see it full of coulours and i believe that one day we will see a big changing .Have hope and believe in it.Keep dreaming bcz dreams will transformed one day in reality.Sorry for my english ;i'm not good in it bcz as a tunisian i'm french educated.
Keep support Shakti and Believe in HaYa journey .For people who are insulting and disfaming HaYa love story plz change chanel bcz you can't understand or reach the moral of the Show.
❤️ ❤️with my love flora15❤️ ❤️
Dhieb Yosra
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