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Posted: 13 years ago
#51
What I really loved is the charming innocence of this friend of yours. He believes that women are that eager and dying to "strip down and give him a kiss" soon as they lay their eyes on him.

If you are a true friend of his, tell him that it would help him retain his job if he gets out of this habit of falling asleep at work at every available opportunity.
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Posted: 13 years ago
#52

Originally posted by: Chitrashi

What I really loved is the charming innocence of this friend of yours. He believes that women are that eager and dying to "strip down and give him a kiss" soon as they lay their eyes on him.

If you are a true friend of his, tell him that it would help him retain his job if he gets out of this habit of falling asleep at work at every available opportunity.


He doesn't work 😉 He is turning 21 soon, but his level of maturity leaves everyone shocked. Of course, he believes he's amazingly good looking and charming...oh he lives in his bubble. No one but he thinks that way of himself.

But you know, all that aside...I still didn't think I'd hear THAT coming out of his nonsensical brain *facepalm*
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Posted: 12 years ago
#54
this is outrageously depressing and i have no words to speak.

this is the image from BANDIT QUEEN movie...just horrible


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Posted: 12 years ago
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however i always have been an optimist and always will be...

women are more stronger in men in almost every department and when they can't take it...they finally show their IMPOTENCE...

I just believe in today's materialistic world where people don't care a damn abt anyone..we need to come together...where those times have vanished where women fought for the independence for the country..can't we fight for the independence of our selves..

i don't believe with the title...NO COUNTRY NO WORLD can take place without women..they might be oppressed, hurt, tortured, beaten, killed but the status they have got is almost as strong as anyone could get. Men are like WILD BEASTS...just like the real ones and they are everywhere...what we need to do is take a STAND...the problem is that we only try to be unite or feel shameful when an incident happen against a woman. why don't we get the time to devote for the upliftment just becoz we can't take time from our daily activities... Women have been rulers, warriors, queens they have achieved powerful statuses in almost department in the older times...then why now we declare that there is no nation for Women ? the spirits of those brave women must be crying for us as they hadn't expected this india to happen.

WELL its the truth, that we can only remorse or fight becoz nobody is going to help us neither the society nor the police nor the law. Nothing can bring us to shame just because if someone wants to insult us. Their impotency doesn't have any other option. I believe that rather getting sad and remorseful let's get together to form a strong and powerful force towards ourselves. if we want to make a difference it can be done by only us.
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Posted: 12 years ago
#56
That Assam incident is just disgusting. 18 people showing such an animal behavior, and people just stared! I think even animals don't attack a female in groups of 18. And people just crossed her and nobody helped. That's the people of our country, always looking for some free entertainment. And such is the state of law in our country that they didn't even bother covering their faces in front of news cameras. Nobody has any fear.

They should be neutered while conscious and raped in the ass repeatedly, maybe they will get some idea. 😡
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: bewafa

Had a conversation with a guy friend...and he goes to me "you know, there are many healthy relationships where the guy has strayed once or twice. He lives with the guilt, but the guilt does go down eventually...but he can't tell his girl, because obviously, she will leave him and he 'cares too much about her'...but sometimes, a guy's body just betrays him...9/10 guys, when put in a situation where a girl strips down and comes to give him a kiss, would continue. The only way you can remain completely faithful is to just go home straight after work. But women don't understand this"


I was shocked beyond words. It doesn't matter where you move to...some guys will have this deranged view.

He also admitted though...if a girl was to have done that...a guy would never be able to take it.



I am sorry, but I will say that is true. Not that every woman is dying to strip for and have sex with your friend. But if a girl offers to have sex with a guy, their first instinct will be to do it. Everybody will want to do it, but some will be able to control themselves out of the love and commitment to a partner. But majority, if they believe there is a chance that they will get away with it, will take up on the offer.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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And just another point of view. You people say that women are objectified in the item songs and movies. But sometimes men do item songs too. And heroes are generally expected to have a nice body and smart face.

[YOUTUBE]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZrQA-w8s-uc[/YOUTUBE]

So, here Shahrukh is also being objectified. And just look at the comments on the videos. "If only he let me touch his abs", "He should come out of pool more and that also slowly". Girls also swoon over when heroes flex their biceps, pump their chest, bulge the delts, or the great act where they take off shirt and show the six pack abs! That's why heroes have to remain fit. And the part in the original video of the song from Desi Boyz, there the male were stripping for women's pleasure. So, men were objectified too.

Another example, I was just browsing all sections of IF yesterday. There is a show Saubhagyavati Bhavah on Life OK. I don't follow it but know the story line because my sister watches it. There was a thread in which there was a photo of the second male lead(not the psycho, the other one), where he was blindfolder and hanged by his hands, and by reading comments it seemed as if he was beaten. And the girls were all like "Oh that body", "I waited x months for this", "Towel aa gaya finally", etc. Girls are all over the handsome actors and I have seen them discussing it also. Media is all about showing off. Check out the models in deodorant or male underwear ads. All with six pack, lean body, and handsome face. The whole point of glamour world is to objectify people.

I think that's sexual attraction. Both sexes are attracted by nice bodies of opposite sex. Men maybe more visual oriented and may actively search for such videos, but women also objectify men. It is not just true for men. So, I am all for fantasizing but acting on that fantasy is wrong.
Edited by Freethinker112 - 12 years ago

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