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Rich`

@cs-07

Dazzler

Posted: 13 years ago

#11

we arent elgible to be the cure for our loved ones.. but we have to be there to force them out.

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Posted: 13 years ago

#12

Originally posted by: nirvanlove
we arent elgible to be the cure for our loved ones.. but we have to be there to force them out.

He IS not my loved one so I DON'T have to be there for him. He is VERY violent, VERY indulged drunk.YOU want to help,I'd be more than happy to provide you with his address.Then YOU can play Mother Teresa-I'm NOT suicidal!
Just be warned that he is ALWAYS armed with illegal powerful guns and is prone to pull them out and point them at terrified opponents and should it go off and kill you his mother will buy him his freedom-but of course YOU won't be there to see THAT.
Happy reformation of ONE alco-hic-lic.I will have NO TRUCK with this TWADDLE of reforming of criminals.If its an illness then it needs to be TREATED as a CONTAGIOUS one.The one thing-the ONLY thing-I learned from AA was that ONE alcoholic ADVERSELY AFFECTS the lives of a minimum of FIVE lives-I wasn't willing to sacrifice any more of my life to the altar of alcohol and blind son love,So I resigned from the family.

DON"T YOU DARE QUESTION MY EFFORTS IN THE PAST OR MY COMMITMENT!!!

PS= Could you change your topic to "Undeterred Alcohiclics,please?

Edited by znursingh - 13 years ago

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Rich`

@cs-07

Dazzler

Posted: 13 years ago

#13

I didnt mean to question at all
and i havent been in a situation even remotely close
so maybe i still dont understand it.

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Posted: 13 years ago

#14

Originally posted by: nirvanlove
I didnt mean to question at all
and i havent been in a situation even remotely close
so maybe i still dont understand it.

OH NIRVAN!!! Sarcasm is lost!! Did you not notice the underlining & the exclamation marks to point to another earlier post?!!!

Edited by znursingh - 13 years ago

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Rich`

@cs-07

Dazzler

Posted: 13 years ago

#15

Originally posted by: znursingh

OH NIRVAN!!! Sarcasm is lost!! Did you not notice the underlining & the exclamation marks to point to another earlier post?!!!

I must admit, completely lost 😆

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bewafa

@bewafa

Dazzler

Posted: 13 years ago

#16

Originally posted by: znursingh

He IS not my loved one so I DON'T have to be there for him. He is VERY violent, VERY indulged drunk.YOU want to help,I'd be more than happy to provide you with his address.Then YOU can play Mother Teresa-I'm NOT suicidal!
Just be warned that he is ALWAYS armed with illegal powerful guns and is prone to pull them out and point them at terrified opponents and should it go off and kill you his mother will buy him his freedom-but of course YOU won't be there to see THAT.
Happy reformation of ONE alco-hic-lic.I will have NO TRUCK with this TWADDLE of reforming of criminals.If its an illness then it needs to be TREATED as a CONTAGIOUS one.The one thing-the ONLY thing-I learned from AA was that ONE alcoholic ADVERSELY AFFECTS the lives of a minimum of FIVE lives-I wasn't willing to sacrifice any more of my life to the altar of alcohol and blind son love,So I resigned from the family.

DON"T YOU DARE QUESTION MY EFFORTS IN THE PAST OR MY COMMITMENT!!!

PS= Could you change your topic to "Undeterred Alcohiclics,please?

Mother Theresa...please, don't bring her up in a post about doing something good for others.

This reminds me of the use of Gandhi in the DV episode. 😆 So, let us not bring that up.

Wow man...good on you for setting yourself free from that atmosphere. Thank the lord for some practicality in this world! 👏

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567043

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Posted: 13 years ago

#17

Originally posted by: bewafa

My sense of self preservation is VERY strong.He pointed a loaded high powered rifle at me when I was pregnant.Had him arrested but parents got him released & the FIR disappeared.When My daughter was THIRTEEN he threatened to have her kidnapped and put to work in the flesh trade-had him arrested.Same result-money=fir disappears! Life of a grand DAUGHTER counts for NOTHING compared to life of SON & heir-This was a RICH,EDUCATED,LEFTIST COUPLE. FRAUDS!!

NOW? My daughter & I are safe-My mother & his wives-the "ENABLERS"-are regularly beaten.VICIOUSLY.If you make a thorny bed,you will HAVE to lie in it.

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Rich`

@cs-07

Dazzler

Posted: 13 years ago

#18

ZEM make a thread on Enablers and the whole theory with it/

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Purva

@-Purva-

Dazzler

+ 5

Posted: 13 years ago

#19

@Zem

Damn, I had no idea what a thorny past I was asking you to go over when I made that request. It was only supposed to be a humorous/sarcastic take on the other crybabies.

But seriously, I know the problems with enablers - though not as potent as the ones in your family. The enablers in my family, fortunately, have little power since we come from a middle-class family. Risen from the ranks of clerks and babus.

Sometimes I feel that it is better to be in the bad books than be loved by Enablers. They practice what is called "Killing Love". If one is constantly ignored by such people one can at a point get away from it all, but an atmosphere that centers around enhancing only the negative traits - that is like poison hidden in honey.

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tulasi prasad

@amo_amo_aigoo

Inactive

Posted: 13 years ago

#20

Originally posted by: nirvanlove
Reading people's comments or even listening to people around stating their opinions. it comes across as everyone thinks that it cannot happen with me.

Correction, not "think", I am sure it will never happen to me. I have been drinking socially for almost 15-16 years but never got addicted and will never in fuure. I know many who are like me too.

But I agree with Aamir about the drink and drive hazards as I have done that myself a few times years ago. more stringent measures need to be taken for Drink n Drive. because there are many ways to escape getting caught with the machine the traffic police use to check alcohol level.

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