Originally posted by: -VildanaROSID-
We more disscus here that she dont have right to ask mata ji to forgive them, or she to forgive Maya. Also we never said that he is right Prem for what he did, but during Sunaina track she made mistakes for life but he forgive to her, even he forgive to her marriage with Roli. If u r on hid place would u forgive all this ?
i feel like i'm going around in circles... I've never at any point said simar is always right or she did right by asking mataji to forgive khushi pari and uma. I've said highlighted in both my previous comments, both premar have made mistakes... but there is no point discussing past mistakes as they've forgiven one another for them... now whether or not they should have forgiven one another is down to individual opinions.
the key point now is her behaviour towards prem which some may see as unreasonable or harsh but personally i think she's justified... Prem did wrong by putting her on stake and has gone and made things worse with his interference in sanjana's kidnapping. Even roli tried stopping him becos she could see that simar's decision was right... those kidnappers were going to release sanjana and take the money---their plan was not to keep sanjana, or murder her or anything like that... but prem messed things up.
prem may say he's never treated sanjana any differently to Anjali but the fact is that he has and has admitted to Sid too that whenever he sees sanjana he remembers vikrant which is obviously natural... but for simar, sanju is no less than Anjali as simar bought her up... i'm not trying to question prem's intentions here nor am i saying he doesn't love sanju, all i'm saying is that simar's parent type feeling for sanju is very different to prem's and its not down to the fact that she's a mother and he's a father. but more that simar has bought up sanju so her attachment, care and love for her is naturally more than say prem feels for sanjana. And thus he should have respected that and let her do as she had decided.
roli is simar's sister but this wasn't the reason why she supported simar - she supported simar because roli genuinely believed simar's decision of not involving the police was the right one since the matter involved the safety of children (and one tends to be extra careful when children are involved)... even the other family members were ok with simar's decision it was just prem that interfered and made things worse, which has now strained his and simar's relationship further. Simar's allegations against prem are not wrong and are justified in my opinion. It takes time to get over stuff like that... just like it took prem time to forgive simar after the sunaina incident... what they need is time to get over it... i don't think divorce is the solution but if they feel this isn't something they can get past together then they can stay separate for a bit and let time be the healer... divorce won't be the solution... but it is their decision if they do take it.
Edited by Yuvika_15 - 10 years ago
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