marriage a beautiful relation of trust

Wama Vasant

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hey rosidians this is one of the positive post as marriage is a beautiful relationship of trustful bond, truth and beautiful rituals which is a sign of importance and different phase of marriage i would start with the seven vachan which is the base of marriage do u believe rosidians that our rosid completed there every vows of marriage so here are all seven vow:

The Seven Vows:

Groom: You will offer me food and be helpful in every way. I will cherish you and provide welfare and happiness for you and our children.
Bride:I am responsible for the home and all household responsibilities.

Groom: Together we will protect our house and children.
Bride:I will be by your side as your courage and strength. I will rejoice in your happiness. In return, you will love me solely.

Groom: May we grow wealthy and prosperous and strive for the education of our children. May our children live long.
Bride: I will love you solely for the rest of my life, as you are my husband. Every other man in my life will be secondary. I vow to remain chaste.

Groom:You have brought sacredness into my life, and have completed me. May we be blessed with noble and obedient children.
Bride:I will shower you with joy, from head to toe. I will strive to please you in every way I can.

Groom: You are my best friend, and staunchest well-wisher. You have come into my life, enriching it. God bless you.
Bride: I promise to love and cherish you for as long as I live. Your happiness is my happiness, and your sorrow is my sorrow. I will trust and honor you, and will strive to fulfill all your wishes.

Groom:May you be filled with joy and peace.
Bride: I will always be by your side.

Groom:We are now husband and wife, and are one. You are mine and I am yours for eternity.
Bride: As God is witness, I am now your wife. We will love, honor and cherish each other forever.

what do u think rosidians your roli and sid completed all vows except for children as the are not triple yet as roli is chaste and i think sid is also so i think they did
and this post is for rosid not any one between them don't want to take the name so forget about what sid did with someone else for once and answer all questions one by one as marriage is really far from physical relationship but its a mental bond which lead to all relations as if they are mentally one then they are physically also so what u think our rosid are one or are still apart ...

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.Madhu.

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Posted: 12 years ago

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Golden Rule of Marriage:-
'To be happy with a man,
love him little and understand him a lot. - eg Roli 🤗

To be happy with a woman,
love her a LOT and DO NOT TRY to understand her :)" - eg Sidd 😆

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hangok

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Posted: 12 years ago

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oh my god, wama how beautiful have you wrote it,
at first i have to say that i dont know whats the meaning i mean for what every vow designate is... so i will try to understand and comment about it, if its ok😉

sooo i have read it and i think they both have done it undoubtedly,
my god , they are RAB NE BANA DI JODI

for the first time i saw a couple that could understand each other so well, even they didnt spoke , they trusted, lovedrespected each other...hope nothing goes wrong and we can see this couple for a whole life time...
in every relationsships can be misunderstandings, just hope that it stays as misunderstandings and dont become to fault

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Wama Vasant

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Originally posted by: hangok
oh my god, wama how beautiful have you wrote it,
at first i have to say that i dont know whats the meaning i mean for what every vow designate is... so i will try to understand and comment about it, if its ok😉

sooo i have read it and i think they both have done it undoubtedly,
my god , they are RAB NE BANA DI JODI

for the first time i saw a couple that could understand each other so well, even they didnt spoke , they trusted, lovedrespected each other...hope nothing goes wrong and we can see this couple for a whole life time...
in every relationsships can be misunderstandings, just hope that it stays as misunderstandings and dont become to fault

oh dear i know u don't know meaning of seven vows in hindu marriage but understand only this much that all vows denote only one thing that two people who are unknown tie a knot with each other then slowly there this relation turns into friendship and then they become lovers and then they support each other in every situation and the biggest example in ssk is rosid and there love can never die and in this relation both of them need each other from growing children to take care of family if men earn money than the lady will utilize for good of there family and tehse all vows denote one one thing that these everything is based on only one thing that is trust if there is no trust then that mean no love and in our rosid there is truat so there is love
marriage cannot be broken by a recently entered girl in married couple life if there love is true than biggest strom can also not erase it but if its fake then only a single mistake can erase the sign of there relation and now its both there turn as this track will show only this thing that if sid is not wrong and if he felt for that chick's advances than will roli trust him and his love will she forgive and find out the truth and she will need the emence love and support of her husband

know u will know its meaning better i m posting article here dear

One of the important features of Hindu marriages is Saat Phere or Seven rounds of a pious fire lit for the purpose. In saat phere, the groom with his right hand holds the left hand of the bride and takes steps together in rhythm with each other around the fire. First the right foot is taken forward and then the left foot amidst chanting of pious Vedic mantras. Every phera or circle around the fire has got a specific meaning attached to it and denotes a solemn vow taken which needs to be followed through out the life. Let us have a look at the meaning of each step or phera.

Step 1> A vow to earn and provide a meaningful living for the household and to avoid things that may harm them. To take all steps necessary in life to be productive and independent financially as a family.

Step 2> A vow to build, harness and develop the physical, mental and spiritual powers and to lead a healthy life style.

Step 3> A vow to earn and increase the wealthy through righteous and proper means as a way of family comfort and existence.

Step 4> A vow to acquire happiness, knowledge and perfect harmony by mutual love, understanding, compassion, companionship, faith and trust.

Step 5> A vow to lead a productive life, to have children and to be responsible for them.

Step 6> A vow to maintain self control and self discipline and to lead a healthy life.

Step 7> A vow to be true and loyal to each other and remain life long companion supporting and nurturing each other in good as well as bad times together.

u know why bride takes four phera rather than grrom

bride leads the 4 phere rather than the groom...its because the bride makes a promise to the groom that if death approaches to them then she will embrace it happily and will never let any harm comes to her husband...(this vaachan in saat phere came with the sati savitiri story where she saves her husband from the god of death thats where this vaachan came)

and i know our roli really never let any harm to come near sid she really did her job nicely hope sid also

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preetam4

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Posted: 12 years ago

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Shirja , such a great post explaining the 7 vows of hindu marriage !!! kudos to you .. 😊..

to answer your question roli is the one who ulilled all the vows (lets not talk abt children as it i too early for them) , but sid has broken vow 6 😭

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Wama Vasant

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Posted: 12 years ago

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Originally posted by: preetam4
Shirja , such a great post explaining the 7 vows of hindu marriage !!! kudos to you .. 😊..
to answer your question roli is the one who ulilled all the vows (lets not talk abt children as it i too early for them) , but sid has broken vow 6 😭

thanks preetam but believe on sid its just suspense u saw the promo na what they said will roli's beautiful relation will be sacrificed the answer is always no as the marriage is only based on trust so i think this is the track which will show roli sid's real bond and believe me sid would have not done anything wrong some clue is missing which will be revealed when cv's want but till then keep patience and dear did u see naina many things point on her characterless figure so i think something is missing they said someone has spiked there drinks but did u see that someone in that episode who spiked the drinks no na so i think it is suspense so better forget it now and when the situation will come we will discuss it later till then enjoy the post 😊

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hangok

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Posted: 12 years ago

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Originally posted by: wamavasant

oh dear i know u don't know meaning of seven vows in hindu marriage but understand only this much that all vows denote only one thing that two people who are unknown tie a knot with each other then slowly there this relation turns into friendship and then they become lovers and then they support each other in every situation and the biggest example in ssk is rosid and there love can never die and in this relation both of them need each other from growing children to take care of family if men earn money than the lady will utilize for good of there family and tehse all vows denote one one thing that these everything is based on only one thing that is trust if there is no trust then that mean no love and in our rosid there is truat so there is love
marriage cannot be broken by a recently entered girl in married couple life if there love is true than biggest strom can also not erase it but if its fake then only a single mistake can erase the sign of there relation and now its both there turn as this track will show only this thing that if sid is not wrong and if he felt for that chick's advances than will roli trust him and his love will she forgive and find out the truth and she will need the emence love and support of her husband

know u will know its meaning better i m posting article here dear
One of the important features of Hindu marriages is Saat Phere or Seven rounds of a pious fire lit for the purpose. In saat phere, the groom with his right hand holds the left hand of the bride and takes steps together in rhythm with each other around the fire. First the right foot is taken forward and then the left foot amidst chanting of pious Vedic mantras. Every phera or circle around the fire has got a specific meaning attached to it and denotes a solemn vow taken which needs to be followed through out the life. Let us have a look at the meaning of each step or phera.

Step 1> A vow to earn and provide a meaningful living for the household and to avoid things that may harm them. To take all steps necessary in life to be productive and independent financially as a family.

Step 2> A vow to build, harness and develop the physical, mental and spiritual powers and to lead a healthy life style.

Step 3> A vow to earn and increase the wealthy through righteous and proper means as a way of family comfort and existence.

Step 4> A vow to acquire happiness, knowledge and perfect harmony by mutual love, understanding, compassion, companionship, faith and trust.

Step 5> A vow to lead a productive life, to have children and to be responsible for them.

Step 6> A vow to maintain self control and self discipline and to lead a healthy life.

Step 7> A vow to be true and loyal to each other and remain life long companion supporting and nurturing each other in good as well as bad times together.

u know why bride takes four phera rather than grrom
bride leads the 4 phere rather than the groom...its because the bride makes a promise to the groom that if death approaches to them then she will embrace it happily and will never let any harm comes to her husband...(this vaachan in saat phere came with the sati savitiri story where she saves her husband from the god of death thats where this vaachan came)

and i know our roli really never let any harm to come near sid she really did her job nicely hope sid also

wow im really speechless now, thank you dear, but only one question , i want to know if i have understand it right, at first the man takes the vows where he promised here and then the bride goes in front of him to promise about the death???
ohh by the way one more question why they tied the duppatas from the groom and bride??

so after your beatiful explanation,i can only say YES, because there happend nothing between sid and the other women...
i can see only love, trust in ROSID...
once again thank you for your great explanation 👏

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Wama Vasant

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Originally posted by: hangok

wow im really speechless now, thank you dear, but only one question , i want to know if i have understand it right, at first the man takes the vows where he promised here and then the bride goes in front of him to promise about the death???
ohh by the way one more question why they tied the duppatas from the groom and bride??

so after your beatiful explanation,i can only say YES, because there happend nothing between sid and the other women...
i can see only love, trust in ROSID...
once again thank you for your great explanation 👏

yo understood it right dear here is some more explanation for u
The custom of Seven Vows/Saat Phere has had a rich historical extravaganza to it. There are a total seven vows made during the Saat Phere - the seven rounds. In the first round or phera, the couple prays to God for plenty of nourishing and pure food. They pray to God to let them walk together so that they will get food. In the second round, the couple prays to God for a healthy and prosperous life. They ask for the physical, spiritual and mental health from God.

In the third Phera the couple prays to God for wealth. They ask God for the strength for both of them so that they can share the happiness and pain together. Also, they pray so that they can walk together to get wealth. In the fourth round the couple prays to God for the increase in love and respect for each other and their respective families. The bride and groom together pray for the beautiful, heroic and noble children from God in the fifth step. In the sixth holy round around the fire, the couple asks for the peaceful long life with each other.

In the final seventh round the couple prays to god for companionship, togetherness, loyalty and understanding between themselves. They ask God to make them friends and give the maturity to carry out the friendship for lifetime. The husband says to his new wife that now they have become friends after the Seven Vows/Saat Phere and they will not break their friendship in life.

(in the first 3 phere, the groom is ahead of the bride and in the rest 4, the bride walks ahead of the groom)
dear the in fourth round bride walks ahead and take vow to protect her husband from obstacles any more query 😊

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hangok

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yo understood it right dear here is some more explanation for u
The custom of Seven Vows/Saat Phere has had a rich historical extravaganza to it. There are a total seven vows made during the Saat Phere - the seven rounds. In the first round or phera, the couple prays to God for plenty of nourishing and pure food. They pray to God to let them walk together so that they will get food. In the second round, the couple prays to God for a healthy and prosperous life. They ask for the physical, spiritual and mental health from God.

In the third Phera the couple prays to God for wealth. They ask God for the strength for both of them so that they can share the happiness and pain together. Also, they pray so that they can walk together to get wealth. In the fourth round the couple prays to God for the increase in love and respect for each other and their respective families. The bride and groom together pray for the beautiful, heroic and noble children from God in the fifth step. In the sixth holy round around the fire, the couple asks for the peaceful long life with each other.

In the final seventh round the couple prays to god for companionship, togetherness, loyalty and understanding between themselves. They ask God to make them friends and give the maturity to carry out the friendship for lifetime. The husband says to his new wife that now they have become friends after the Seven Vows/Saat Phere and they will not break their friendship in life.

(in the first 3 phere, the groom is ahead of the bride and in the rest 4, the bride walks ahead of the groom)
dear the in fourth round bride walks ahead and take vow to protect her husband from obstacles any more query 😊

very well explained, so one more😳, why they tie the duppatas from groom and bride? is this a sign for their bond, togetherness??

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Wama Vasant

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Posted: 12 years ago

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hey dear u are right its a ritual and it is sign of bond and sign of there togetherness and they walk hand in hand dear only duppatas are not tied even bride and groom hold there hand at time of phera and walk around fire it is sign that whatever work they will do from now onwards they will need each others unconditional support...

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