Effects of Surrogacy!!

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Posted: 12 years ago
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SSK is actually scaring people from accepting surrogacy as a parenting choice...people will be scared & fearful of the surrogate mother using the baby to blackmail them. SSK CV's claim to create awareness about surrogacy but contrarily they are scaring prospects away. Surrogacy which is a boon for childless couples to have their own child but after watching this track people will think a 100 times about the same

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Posted: 12 years ago
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after seeing yesterday epi noone can try to do surrogacy at any situation...who wants their baby have a surrogate mother like kushi...so danger one ..
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Posted: 12 years ago
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First of all these daily soaps r for time pass. People dont have time to take it seriously. No couple would like to pick up surrogate mother from their own family. Its looking like joke.

And few days back roli said procedure of surrogacy was done on khushi without informing them? You should file a case against such doctors who started such big procedure without informing the original parents.

I know one family whose DIL was not able to conceive the child and they decided to go for surrogacy. They have dozens of young women in their house but instead of trying it on family members they selected a woman who was in need of money. There was a contract signed by both the parents and surrogate mother. They paid half installment after the procedure and half installment after the birth of baby. Story Over. They have their own child and no pressure from any1.

I just want say that dramas r for entertainment not for taking morals. Surrogacy includes legal procedure too which was missing in it. And no childless couple would like drop the idea of surrogacy looking at simar and khushi.




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Posted: 12 years ago
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@ aastha
word!mate..
yess I agree, there has to be some legal framework which protects the parents plus the surrogate mother's rights, and the unborn child.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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frm this dramatic track,people wil decide surrogacy is totally worse than childless life or adoption...🤣
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I don't agree with aastha, tv and mass media affects so many people that you can't imagine, not everyone is aware of laws and even if they are still this drama has certainly affected masses...well for example sas bahu drama cause so much problems in families and I have witnessed it around , people speaking quote unquote dialogs...well i think this surrogacy track is such a non sense, which doctor will implant an embryo without the presence of the parents? the embryo itself costs a minimum of 20,000 dollars...this doctor will have to pay a hefty fine and may even go to jail for negligence...I know families seeking surrogacy and IVF , many times taking loans for the procedure...but in lawless tv serials , fertilize anyone(ssk), burn your daughter in law (maayeka), get your son new wife every month(kairi), marry twice thrice and throw away the wife you dislike(balika vadhu)...these are such disease of indian society which are glorified on the name of entertainment...this is disgraceful...
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: geet138

I don't agree with aastha, tv and mass media affects so many people that you can't imagine, not everyone is aware of laws and even if they are still this drama has certainly affected masses...well for example sas bahu drama cause so much problems in families and I have witnessed it around , people speaking quote unquote dialogs...well i think this surrogacy track is such a non sense, which doctor will implant an embryo without the presence of the parents? the embryo itself costs a minimum of 20,000 dollars...this doctor will have to pay a hefty fine and may even go to jail for negligence...I know families seeking surrogacy and IVF , many times taking loans for the procedure...but in lawless tv serials , fertilize anyone(ssk), burn your daughter in law (maayeka), get your son new wife every month(kairi), marry twice thrice and throw away the wife you dislike(balika vadhu)...these are such disease of indian society which are glorified on the name of entertainment...this is disgraceful...


Well, no problem if u dont agree with me but people who r not aware of laws than they must investigate about it. Before taking big decision like surrogacy they should have a look on its advantages and disadvantages. And any normal couple who dont have knowledge of law but of course they have brain to think what if after 9 months the surrogate mother developed any feelings for child as keeping a child in womb for 9 months its not a joke. What if she refused to give the child? Couple should think about each and every circumstances arising before jumping into surrogacy. They must find answer of every question by consulting lawyer, doctor or any educated person.

Surrogacy is not a game to play and not a decision to take in one mid night like simar, prem and roli. You have to study every aspect of that case.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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@-Astha- Most of us know that Hindi serials are time pass & parents considering surrogacy will do their research before moving forward with such an option. However this present track may turn people away from even researching surrogacy. Why could such an important thing not be shown in positive light giving a good example?
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Posted: 12 years ago
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@upra
Agree with u but not fully. As most of us know its just part of entertainment so why to take dramatic leads and extra evil vamp so seriously that force us to react as per the track going on in serial. In short Television is ruling our mind and heart. Any1 taking this track or any other serial track seriously than please throw tv out of ur house. If u r so much obsessed with useless track than ur family members dont deserve punishment becoz of ur extra ordinary love for roli, simar, khushi or any other senseless character. Few days back in another forum there was a post a girl nt able to concentrate on her life becoz her favorite couple was separated by the cvs. Ignoring studies and food etc. Again here there is post on people taking morals from of surrogacy from ssk. Its duty of creatives to focus on TRP only and we know they its not possible to get all sensible things from serials. Does it mean we must react as per tv track and take morals from it.? And those who r doing it i would like to wish them "Get well Soon".

Coming to ur question why they cant show such important thing with positive light and perfect example.? Completely agree with u. I guess for the first time i dont find any disagreement in ur question. There were 1000 ways to handle it without torture. Its like simar and roli going through constant mental torture from very first day of simar's pregnancy, roli leaving house, khushi's attack on simar, miscarriage, simar cant conceive, pressure of family for child, surrogacy, roli selected as surrogate mother, sid not happy with roli's decision and surrogacy was done on khushi and till today both r just fulfilling all legal as well as illegal demands of khushi. It looks like its good to be bad but bad to be good. You have to suffer if u cant conceive.

But again in this serial marriage was not handled perfectly than y to expect perfectness in surrogacy? This is not for the first time they r showing over negativity. It happened even before. Isnt it?
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Posted: 12 years ago
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This is surrogacy trak or tourchergessy trak if surriogate mother like that toh no wnats their own child wht the hell cv is showing and wht msg they r giving my god its lloking like ki dont go for surrogate mother..

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