Truth, lies and delusions of Geetanjali - A tribute from Gen4 pankhas - Page 3

Geetanjali is no victim …if she is, then it is of her own delusions …she signed up for marriage with Armaan knowing fully well that she was never going to be more than a wife in name and a mother figure to Maira..that was enough for her at that point ..eventually, when the marriage did take place, she had to literally threaten Armaan with Maira and Abhira’s relationship …she effectively manipulated her way into his life and eventually his bed …it was her own delusions and manipulation that ended up being the death of her …she brought it onto herself …we all pay the price for our ill-thought out decisions …Armaan paid for his and Geetu paid for hers …!

Originally posted by: A_Star39

But it is a true fact that Baccha Chori still happened

Even by trashing more 2-3 PLs you cannot white wash this action.

If Armaan knew that abhira wasnt married the story would have been very different for geetanjali.

He married geetanjali not out of fear that she will die but because he thought abhira moved on.

He also faced a similar situation with ruhi before right?He tackled her.

Why couldnt he do the same this time too with geetanjali?

One question - be it Ruhi or Geetanjali - both were well aware that Armaan did not live them or even want to be with them.

Both chose the weapon of taking a life to force a man to marry them, saying that if I don't get what I want, you will be left to blame for what happens.

Armaan may have innumerable faults, but if Geetanjali was such a doodh ki dhuli, why did she want to be trapped in a marriage, knowing that her partner did not even want to be with her? Mana kar deti.

Like just a few episodes back Geetanjali ne khud Armaan ko bola tha ki woh usse apni shakal na dikhaye, because he supported Abhira and Maira. Yet she comes back to frighten Maira & then tell him she wants to not be alone anymore? With her Daddu still alive?

Armaan ko chodo, why should anyone support a character who chooses to force a man into marriage who doesn't want to be in one with her. By that logic even Abhira stepped away from Armaan when she felt unwanted, twice, despite that too being a majboori wali shaadi initially. Even Armaan did not come between Abhira and Anshuman, once he felt that Abhira had moved on from him.

So everything apart, how is Geetanjali a rootable character - just because you hate Armaan, one should sympathize with a woman who ultimately wanted to kill a 7 year old child who just wanted to spend time with her father?

Originally posted by: Solitudelover

Let me not forget the question of rent.. Never knew a rent default of 3 months on 4 years could be so disastrous

Hawww - how can you forget that. Usse wasool karne ke liye toh Geetanjali Poddars ki bahu bani

I could give countless examples with pages of detailed explanation about the how and why behind X and Y characters’ actions. But the truth is, people here aren’t interested in understanding. They are only here to hate-watch. They have already created their own narrow narrative and are delusional enough to believe that every random character exists solely to whitewash the leads. These same people are quick to show sympathy for irrelevant side characters and outright toxic vamps, without any logical reasoning or value behind it. Their hate for the leads is deliberate and rooted in personal bias, not critical thought. No matter how much explanation or context is offered, it won’t matter to those who refuse to think beyond their own echo chamber.

Originally posted by: Solitudelover

@bold : My pov, he could not have been more clearer

https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/post/167386002

He could have just told No and moved on.

He went ahead with engagement for maira then when he realised that he cannot move on with geetanjali he could have just told her a straight No.

Armaan and geetanjali are both at fault in this marriage

Geetanjali was dumb and blind and armaan was acting confused with his emotions as usual

Moving on, Geetanjali to Maira

Geetanjali did put her life at stake for Maira once. But the way she treated Maira because of her own insecurities is no way an adult / a mother figure as she considered herself should have behaved with the kid.. She emotionally manipulated Maira regarding the phone and lie to every one about it, made her feel guilty for even having chocolate, did her best to unsettle Maira with Ab in the 1 month deadline that she herself had set, manipulated her to lock Ab in the room on the day of dance competition, behaved the way she did after the dance competition when Maira came to her saying she needed her as well just because she accepted Ab as mom, and terrified the kid on the day of suicide drama..

Cut to after marriage.. The obsession and insecurities shift to the next target that is Armaan .. And Maira became an hindrance.. So much so that she decided to kill off not just Ab but Maira also in cold blood..

Originally posted by: Naysayer

Geetanjali is no victim …if she is, then it is of her own delusions …she signed up for marriage with Armaan knowing fully well that she was never going to be more than a wife in name and a mother figure to Maira..that was enough for her at that point ..eventually, when the marriage did take place, she had to literally threaten Armaan with Maira and Abhira’s relationship …she effectively manipulated her way into his life and eventually his bed …it was her own delusions and manipulation that ended up being the death of her …she brought it onto herself …we all pay the price for our ill-thought out decisions …Armaan paid for his and Geetu paid for hers …!

Exactly!! I mean I get Armaan has many faults!

But how is a woman who manipulated her way into someone's life knowing fully well AND been told to her face clearly that she will never be given the spousal love she wants ever considered worthy of being rooted for!!

And to top it she thinks the best way to get what she wants is to teach a child wrong things and indulge in deceit herself.. not once or twice but as a pattern!!

And the cherry on top of all of this has to be the shameless act of forcing herself on an inebriated man and claiming it was love!!

I mean I'm ready to admit loudly that Armaan has been wrong many times but that does not and cannot in anyway mean just because he was wrong, Geetanjali is right!!

She crossed the line a while ago and didn't stop and only got from bad to worse and called this upon herself!! Seriously horrible woman!!

Originally posted by: Naysayer

Geetanjali is no victim …if she is, then it is of her own delusions …she signed up for marriage with Armaan knowing fully well that she was never going to be more than a wife in name and a mother figure to Maira..that was enough for her at that point ..eventually, when the marriage did take place, she had to literally threaten Armaan with Maira and Abhira’s relationship …she effectively manipulated her way into his life and eventually his bed …it was her own delusions and manipulation that ended up being the death of her …she brought it onto herself …we all pay the price for our ill-thought out decisions …Armaan paid for his and Geetu paid for hers …!

Both paid the price of their nonsensical decisions.

Originally posted by: A_Star39

See geetanjali is totally wrong for trying to kill maira and abhira.

I feel Armaan didnt had any option so he went ahead with geetanjali.It was clear in the epi that he was hurt by abhira moving on and he had some emotional chaos going on.

Armaan married geetanjali by seeing abhira moving on and he also was guilty that he kept geetanjali on her toes.

Geetanjali wasnt evil from start and my POV is that Armaan triggered Geetanjali's emotional chaos and insecure side.Geetanjali did stop armaan earlier and she was greedy for maira and armaan.Armaan somehow has a part in hurting geetanjali.

Armaan again failed in dealing with geetanjali like he did with abhira and ruhi.

Its my POV.Geetanjali's insecurity and jealousy was triggered by armaan with his as usual confused and casual behaviour.He could have clearly told geetanjali to make boundaries at first place and should have refused for engagement.

Armaan engaged with geetanjali seeing abhira move on as he saw her on TV and married her after assuming anshumana and abhira married.Geetanjali was a dumbass too and both created this chaos for themseleves.Geetanjali was obsessed with armaan.

Its not entirely geetanjali's fault and armaan and her both created this mess

But he made boundaries with her from before the engagement. He clearly told her that he loved Maira's mother and will only love her & that if she couldn't take that, to back away. Then Geetanjali wanted Maira in her life. After Armaan met Abhira, Geetanjali could clearly see how the three were together - that is why even when she forced Armaan's hand she said the dialogues - agar aapko mauka mile toh aap Abhira ko chunoge, mujhe nahi, toh mujhe Marne do. So it's definitely not like she did not know just how obsessed Armaan or Maira were with Abhira.

Shaadi ke baad bhi, at multiple points she asked the question of why you married me & Armaan baar baar bolta raha that it was only to keep Abhira and Maira away from her. That the shaadi was naam ki shaadi and that he would never be her husband in the true sense. He did not even sleep in the same room as her till the end. And yet her obsession was fed by Armaan? No, her obsession was with Armaan & finally when she realised that no matter what paintra she applied, she will still not be able to get Armaan, so she went nuts and wanted to kill the very people who got Armaan in her life in the first place. So yeah, that was on her - not Armaan

Originally posted by: A_Star39

He did gave signals but then why did he went ahead with engagement?

He could have just told No and moved on.

He went ahead with engagement for maira then when he realised that he cannot move on with geetanjali he could have just told her a straight No.

Armaan and geetanjali are both at fault in this marriage

Geetanjali was dumb and blind and armaan was acting confused with his emotions as usual

How is saying Mai sirf Maira ke liye tumse shaadi Kar raha Hun.. or Mai sirf Abhira se Pyaar karta Hun or saying humaare beech ye distance hamesha rahega considered as giving signals??

If these are signals then what is being clear called?