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Posted: 13 years ago

#11

I agree with you Luv4games. This is better for both Sim and Roli.The sisters relation is no more.As you said it is the first take from Roli to make the sisters relation to Devrani-Jethani when she is angry on sim and now she want to behave normal as sisters.I think simar did a good Job today.Luv you sim always.

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Posted: 13 years ago

#12

Originally posted by: sskfanTest
I agree with you Luv4games. This is better for both Sim and Roli.The sisters relation is no more.As you said it is the first take from Roli to make the sisters relation to Devrani-Jethani when she is angry on sim and now she want to behave normal as sisters.I think simar did a good Job today.Luv you sim always.

I totally agree with you...the other day she was fine with simar touching her feet...and even justified to her parents that it is no big deal and a tradition...so then why cant simar touch her feet now...now she remembers that simar is her elder sister...at least simar is consistent...she got mad at roli many times and even now she is not sucking up to her to make things fine...she is doing what is necessary...maataji will always bring up the jetani and devrani crap so the sooner they both accept it the better it is...

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uma

@upra

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Posted: 13 years ago

#13

Originally posted by: Luv4games

I totally agree with you...the other day she was fine with simar touching her feet...and even justified to her parents that it is no big deal and a tradition...so then why cant simar touch her feet now...now she remembers that simar is her elder sister...at least simar is consistent...she got mad at roli many times and even now she is not sucking up to her to make things fine...she is doing what is necessary...maataji will always bring up the jetani and devrani crap so the sooner they both accept it the better it is...

Why are we forgetting the fact that Roli was very hurt by the slap and that she had just received the letter from the college as well. Roli was very hurt at that time but I agree they should not be sisters anymore. Roli needs to learn that Simar is not reliable and does not remember the sacrifices Roli has made for Simar plus Roli has a better r'ship with mataji and the bhabhi's when she is not acting like Simar's assistant. I think this mess was created by Simar and she is digging a bigger hole for herself but not my problm as I am not a Simar fan/supporter and can never ever agree with her actions or thought process.

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Luv4games

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Posted: 13 years ago

#14

Originally posted by: upra

Why are we forgetting the fact that Roli was very hurt by the slap and that she had just received the letter from the college as well. Roli was very hurt at that time but I agree they should not be sisters anymore. Roli needs to learn that Simar is not reliable and does not remember the sacrifices Roli has made for Simar plus Roli has a better r'ship with mataji and the bhabhi's when she is not acting like Simar's assistant. I think this mess was created by Simar and she is digging a bigger hole for herself but not my problm as I am not a Simar fan/supporter and can never ever agree with her actions or thought process.

I am neither a simar fan nor roli...so from a neutral point they are both very wrong...simar should have never slapped roli in front of everyone...that was wrong...but roli is also no less than simar...she is very manipulative...yes at the time she was in a bad state but now she had alot of opportunities to say something to simar but she didnt...instead she wanted to get back to how they were before without any apologies or at least talking about it...so none of their actions can be excused...I wont blindly support any of them...to me they are both wrong but this decision of simar is right...not because roli is better with the others but because sooner or later they had to accept this change...and their sisterly bond is so weak that it would never survive...

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sskfanTest

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Posted: 13 years ago

#15

Originally posted by: upra

Why are we forgetting the fact that Roli was very hurt by the slap and that she had just received the letter from the college as well. Roli was very hurt at that time but I agree they should not be sisters anymore. Roli needs to learn that Simar is not reliable and does not remember the sacrifices Roli has made for Simar plus Roli has a better r'ship with mataji and the bhabhi's when she is not acting like Simar's assistant. I think this mess was created by Simar and she is digging a bigger hole for herself but not my problm as I am not a Simar fan/supporter and can never ever agree with her actions or thought process.

Helping elders (before the Jethani and Devrani episode) is termed as assistant.Dont yonger onces help their sisters/brothers? I dont think we have to term as assistant as it is very common in Indian families where younger ones help elders.They even use the books,clothes,toys of elders which means term as servants.I cannot agree this.

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uma

@upra

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Posted: 13 years ago

#16

Originally posted by: sskfanTest

Helping elders (before the Jethani and Devrani episode) is termed as assistant.Dont yonger onces help their sisters/brothers? I dont think we have to term as assistant as it is very common in Indian families where younger ones help elders.They even use the books,clothes,toys of elders which means term as servants.I cannot agree this.

not like Simar controls Roli...no 1 in any family does that. Simar is very thankless in my opinion who takes full adv of the fact that Roli loves her and that is a very mean thing to do.

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sskfanTest

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Posted: 13 years ago

#17

Originally posted by: upra
not like Simar controls Roli...no 1 in any family does that. Simar is very thankless in my opinion who takes full adv of the fact that Roli loves her and that is a very mean thing to do.

I dont know about others but I still know some families where youngers help elders.As Simars family is a middle class family it is very common and initially they showed 8yrs gap between the sisters , so it is like very common if there is big age gap that youngers help elders.Roli did acted weired and thankless to simar before sim tookcare of her in hospital bought parents to house and gifted a saree turn her from jethani to sis again.How weird.

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uma

@upra

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Posted: 13 years ago

#18

Simar is 20 or 21 in the show not 26 just an FYI. Roli atleast has a reason to behave the way she did. What was Simar's excuse, rather what has always been Simar's excuse? Roli has sacrificed her life for Simar so why does Simar behave the way she does with Roli. Simar is not Roli's mom or motherinlaw that she feels entitled to behave the way the way she with Roli? Also no one whether rich or middle class behaves the way simar does with their sibling. Roli is entitled to be hurt because she was hurt, backstabbed & slapped by the sister she sacrificed so much for.

Roli took the sari because she was mentally getting ready to forgive Simar; SImar is the one who is always trying to buy Roli be it with a laptop or a saree. Had Roli been selfish and she could be bought she would have taken the laptop which is way more expensive than a saree is.

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Luv4games

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Posted: 13 years ago

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Originally posted by: upra
Simar is 20 or 21 in the show not 26 just an FYI. Roli atleast has a reason to behave the way she did. What was Simar's excuse, rather what has always been Simar's excuse? Roli has sacrificed her life for Simar so why does Simar behave the way she does with Roli. Simar is not Roli's mom or motherinlaw that she feels entitled to behave the way the way she with Roli? Also no one whether rich or middle class behaves the way simar does with their sibling. Roli is entitled to be hurt because she was hurt, backstabbed & slapped by the sister she sacrificed so much for.

Roli took the sari because she was mentally getting ready to forgive Simar; SImar is the one who is always trying to buy Roli be it with a laptop or a saree. Had Roli been selfish and she could be bought she would have taken the laptop which is way more expensive than a saree is.

I am not sure what you are trying to imply by rich or middle class...does that mean lower class people have a certain way of behaving with their siblings...i dont know about others but my mom has 4 sisters and the elder ones always advise the younger ones.. if they make a mistake they get mad at each other and if the elder one is there then younger one brings tea and stuff as a form of respect not because they are assistant...that makes no sense...and simar also had a reason just like roli did...roli herself admitted that she was punishing the bhabi's so of course suspicion went to roli and roli also had a reason...the only thing is that none of them witnessed anything themselves but they just believed their assumptions and others...that is why their sisterly bond is so weak...also i advise my younger bro always that does not mean i am his mother or mother in law but he is my brother and as older sister if there is anything i know better i will tell him and yes i will also get mad at him...i am not sure where the backstabbing came from...and yes simar gave her the sari to cheer her up and because she liked and roli forgot everything else she put simar through...simar only slapped roli once and then roli made her touch her feet...both are form of disrespect so they are both equal there but roli did more than that so she should have said sorry or at least talk about it...and i think we saw how selfish roli is that she took the sari that was meant to be for simar without even feeling bad for one second or asking her if she was okay with it...

you said yourself that you are a roli fan so anything simar does right or wrong you will find fault in it... but there are two sides to this and not just one...but that is your opinion and love for roli so it is all good but in real life when sisters do something for each other it is because of love and respect and not being an assistant and there is no difference in relationships according to any class ...that just depends on the type of person

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uma

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Posted: 13 years ago

#20

Originally posted by: Luv4games

I am not sure what you are trying to imply by rich or middle class...does that mean lower class people have a certain way of behaving with their siblings...i dont know about others but my mom has 4 sisters and the elder ones always advise the younger ones.. if they make a mistake they get mad at each other and if the elder one is there then younger one brings tea and stuff as a form of respect not because they are assistant...that makes no sense...and simar also had a reason just like roli did...roli herself admitted that she was punishing the bhabi's so of course suspicion went to roli and roli also had a reason...the only thing is that none of them witnessed anything themselves but they just believed their assumptions and others...that is why their sisterly bond is so weak...also i advise my younger bro always that does not mean i am his mother or mother in law but he is my brother and as older sister if there is anything i know better i will tell him and yes i will also get mad at him...i am not sure where the backstabbing came from...and yes simar gave her the sari to cheer her up and because she liked and roli forgot everything else she put simar through...simar only slapped roli once and then roli made her touch her feet...both are form of disrespect so they are both equal there but roli did more than that so she should have said sorry or at least talk about it...and i think we saw how selfish roli is that she took the sari that was meant to be for simar without even feeling bad for one second or asking her if she was okay with it...

you said yourself that you are a roli fan so anything simar does right or wrong you will find fault in it... but there are two sides to this and not just one...but that is your opinion and love for roli so it is all good but in real life when sisters do something for each other it is because of love and respect and not being an assistant and there is no difference in relationships according to any class ...that just depends on the type of person

So the rich & middle class thing has come from a post made be a simar fan @sskfantest who said it was common in middle class families for the younger sibling to listen to the older sibling so this point was made by someone on your side of the fence not on ours because in my view both you and sskfantest are Simar fans...just my viewpoint.

Do you try and control your siblings and dictate stuff to them...no right? Most Rosid fans feel that this is what Simar does to Roli which is why I called Roli Simar's assistant. How can any1 justify a person being slapped in front of their husband and inlaws. Simar destroyed and killed her relationship with roli at that time itself so when they are not sisters how does it matter if Simar touched Roli's feet; why did Simar not object to touching Roli's feet...did she think Roli will hug her like last time this time as well just a day or two after Simar has slapped her and when Roli has evidence that Simar is responsible Roli getting kicked out of college. Their is a huge difference between assumptions and evidence...Their is a difference Simar assumed Roli was responsible wheras Roli had concrete evidence the signature and the college personnel verification as well.

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