Originally posted by: --P.K.LeLe--
She is elder sister of Roli not any random person who does not have right to say her anything , i feel as every elder make mistakes in life then it does not mean that they should be given infliction for their mistakes by their younger ones , if it happens then it's embarrassing altogether for me . i wish in next birth i could not have younger sister like Roli ..
Elders shud lead by example. Elders shud show how one shud behave by behaving that way themselves.
If Simar thinks she has a right to slap coz she is an elder, Simar shud also apologise to Roli (Ideally it shud be in front of the whole family but Roli will not mind if it in private) for losing trust in her.
Simar shud say Roli this loss of year is terrible, I know it seems like I am responsible but I'm not. I'll prove it to you by trying to talk to the dean to fix it.
Simar shud say - Roli - how can I make up for my loss of faith in you. I want my lovable trusty old sister back - I'll try to treat you as equal.
After all if in one rishta Simar is elder and in another roli - then these two shud be able to treat each other as equals. But Simar only sees her as her little sister here n in her maika and that is not fair to Roli.
If Simar likes to flash her authority all the time - then she is teaching Roli to flaunt her seniority too.