Originally posted by: tinoo
well-- he's certainly a hottie. 😆😆😆. so i can understand why she married sid.
No seriously, I can understand roli's compulsions to marry sid.
Jamuna has washed his hands off the whole matter - and does not want to have anything to do with roli anymore. Even if she got accommodation somewhere, jamuna would not pay for three years of college or hostel fees. He also would not take her back in vrindavan.
Mataji would not have kept her after all this -- just hanging around the house attending college. Her mind had soured towards simar and roli.
So this probably seemed like the best option for her -- in terms of survival -- not just the narrow sense of housing -- but more long term survival. She doesnt even have a job or an education to get a job.
Sid however is a little more puzzling -- he had no compulsions to marry her -- mataji would have kept him and even if mataji threw him out of the house -- he can still survive on his own in the outside world. He's old enough, and has been living on his own for a long time.
I think he saw that life would be difficult for roli in both the near term and far term future and decided to step up to the plate and be a man.
I missed that part of Jamnalal washing his hands off Roli. But b4 Simar blabbed about everything, Mataji suggested that Roli marry Sid, and Jamnalal simply agreed. But why, when Roli is still attending college, and just here temporarily, until she finds accommodation? That's the part that escaped me.
Given how awkward they are near each other, I can't for the life of me imagine why Sid & Roli married in the first place. All Roli did b4 Sid 'reformed' (I actually liked him better when he was in his revenge mode and auctioned the house) was to go and give him bhashans about how he treated his family, which was clearly inappropriate given that she's an outsider. So how exactly did that create a common bond b/w them that would cause them to marry? In fact, it would be a pretty good reason to make Sid dislike Roli, like he believably did then and unbelievably doesn't now.
So when Mataji suggested the marriage, Roli should have put her foot down and refused, saying that she wants to study first, and then think about marriage. If the serial is trying to introduce a 2nd jodi, then it would have made sense to show Premar romancing after marriage, while Sid-Roli's friendship slowly matured. Marrying them off in a hurry - what's next - Roli is going to be kitchen bound? And if, as the new promos show, there will be friction b/w the sisters, it's even more stupid a plot.
Yesterday's conversation, where SId suggested that they start off as friends first b4 becoming lovers - that's something one does before one marries, not after.
Anyway, I'm not watching the show, just reading the updates, and so far, the plot hasn't improved even after Premar's marriage. Ideal would have been Premar marrying, while Roli's marriage being annulled. It's different from a divorce, since in Prem-Roli's marriage, Prem had no idea that he was marrying Roli, and Roli had no intention nor desire to marry Prem. In fact, Simar could have had a guy in a sari occupying her place, in which case, would that have been a same-sex marriage?
I think Avika should look for new shows where she can play less juvenile roles than the one she played here. She has not enhanced the watchability of this serial the way she did BV.
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