apology? - Page 2

Originally posted by: fazilat786

unfortunately Rano's attitude made me angry especially her anger toward BM. Rano has forgotton that if it was not for Bm guidance Ishaans marriage would not have lasted, Suhana was a rich pampered laadli daughter not a middle class girl that adjustment is huge but Suhana has managed, I know its difficult to get everyone to go on one track when u live in a joint family but there are times when compromises have to be made for the betterment in the long run. I hope not to long winded.
Fazilat😊

Originally posted by: zackey_boy

Rano bashing Suhana is not that important as compared to the last scene of the episode...Rano simply kept a point in front of Badi Maa which do have some weightage and this would probably tell why Rano is so mad at Suhana...

According to Rano, its time for Suhana to take her seriously.. Interestingly everyone is talkiing about a scenario where they question that would Rano would have acted the same way if Ishaan was doing a TV serial...In counter I have a question too- would Suhana have done the serial if Badi Maa said no ( for whatever reason)? I guess the answer is no because she takes Badi Maa's word seriously but that's not the same with Rano...

I guess the whole reason for Rano's anger is not related much to Suhana's job but more about her position in Kashyap's house...It should be Alok and Rano who should have the last say in matters involving Ishaan, Suhana or Ishika and by doing this I don't think would cause any kind of insult to Badi Maa.

Originally posted by: zackey_boy

Rano bashing Suhana is not that important as compared to the last scene of the episode...Rano simply kept a point in front of Badi Maa which do have some weightage and this would probably tell why Rano is so mad at Suhana...

According to Rano, its time for Suhana to take her seriously.. Interestingly everyone is talkiing about a scenario where they question that would Rano would have acted the same way if Ishaan was doing a TV serial...In counter I have a question too- would Suhana have done the serial if Badi Maa said no ( for whatever reason)? I guess the answer is no because she takes Badi Maa's word seriously but that's not the same with Rano...

I guess the whole reason for Rano's anger is not related much to Suhana's job but more about her position in Kashyap's house...It should be Alok and Rano who should have the last say in matters involving Ishaan, Suhana or Ishika and by doing this I don't think would cause any kind of insult to Badi Maa.

Originally posted by: zackey_boy

Rano bashing Suhana is not that important as compared to the last scene of the episode...Rano simply kept a point in front of Badi Maa which do have some weightage and this would probably tell why Rano is so mad at Suhana...

According to Rano, its time for Suhana to take her seriously.. Interestingly everyone is talkiing about a scenario where they question that would Rano would have acted the same way if Ishaan was doing a TV serial...In counter I have a question too- would Suhana have done the serial if Badi Maa said no ( for whatever reason)? I guess the answer is no because she takes Badi Maa's word seriously but that's not the same with Rano...

I guess the whole reason for Rano's anger is not related much to Suhana's job but more about her position in Kashyap's house...It should be Alok and Rano who should have the last say in matters involving Ishaan, Suhana or Ishika and by doing this I don't think would cause any kind of insult to Badi Maa.

Originally posted by: Tani91

first of all great analysis and I do agree with you to some extent

But my question is that IF ultimately Rano does have a problem with BM then why did she let her be the family's pillar for all these years. From the start we have seen that Rano has always said to B, that BM is better at handling the family than she is, Rano has always accepted that so why should she change her mind now?? I know that she is Ishan's mom and Suhana's MIL and she does have a bigger right to them than BM but if she was so bothered with it then why give BM the authority to have a say in her kids lives?? Rano should have made a clar point in the beginning that BM can handle everything but not her children's lives. I don't think Rano has ever explicitly said she is fine with BM handling everything. Actually, I think in all the earlier years Rano has been accepting of BM's decisions because even she finds the decisions acceptable. But now that she is against them, she is voicing her opinions out. Also, Rano might have let herself be sidelined many times int he beginning because she probably also felt guilt due to BM's situation concerning BP and so let her have a far greater role in the household and thus undermining hers as a compensation for BM's loss. Even though the compensation is not something Rano should or had to fill but she did to make BM feel like this is her home.

This may be the BM-Suhana shipper in me saying this but of the biggest reasons for me watching this show is BM-Suhana's relationship. First of all Suhana listens to BM because BM is the only one who understood her apart from Ishan, Ishan and BM (and to some extent Radha bua) are the only ones who saw Suhana's innocence and naive nature rather than judging her as a spoilt brat that everyone else assumed her to be, even Rano is guilty of this.

I'm not as fond of BM...she may have shown understanding in the past but right now she kinda needs to back off a little in only the issue of letting Rano make decisions too. However, I also agree with you below...Ilesh is the main culprit and the Kashyaps should recognize that more than anything at this point because he was the start of the mess.

What I don't understand is that the main culprit is that loser Elesh yet NO ONE says anything to him and everyone is on a blaming spree for Suhana (THANK GOD Alok recognized that in Mondays episode)

Originally posted by: MadameX

Originally posted by: MadameX

Originally posted by: venture

To add on the above points ...if Panna would be in Suhana,s place and her MIL and Roanak would have problem with her working in a serial ...I bet BM would have said " do as your MIL and husband says" ...

I have a lot of respect for BM , she is a remarkable person but her partiality towards Ilaish made him the guy he is today, and partiality towards Suhana causing rift between not only Rano but also Disha and Rajni, Suhana is not fault at this, she came with the blank mind and what is being written by BM stays there.