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Originally posted by: Luv4games

i think what rano fails to understand is that suhana is close to Bm and listens to her not because of authority or because BM forces her or orders her but because bm guides her...she is more like a mentor to her...and seriously who would wanna be like rano...she should have voiced her opinion long ago not now...and not this way in a nice way so that everyone hears it...would she also get mad if suhana listens to her dad...rano didnt once hear what suhana wants or ask her...she just ordered her to leave...has bm ever done that...she never put her decision on suhana...she just guided her which is what she needed...and yah suhana would have said no if bm said so not because she is scared of bm but because she would know there is a logic behind it and bm would also explain it nicely...but rano has no logic...she is just creating problems...she cant claim her authority by sacrificing suhana's career...

Originally posted by: abhi786

Sheema di, BM will tell to panna listen to your saas and husband... But here circumstances are different... All kashyaps know that how is Panna relationship with her saas... BM also know, only rounak is supporting her..., She taunts panna and kashyaps .. So BM want panna to listen to her husband and saas.. Going against their wishes may create rift between rounak and panna itself, where her saas taunts her and rounak simply can't support her wife allways.. Just like yesterday rano scholded ishaan for supoorting suhana, evn though that time all family members were present there...

There will be no other family members to supoort panna and rounak...BM from the beginning saying take care of your saas, as she wants panna to get the love and respect,from her saas, as panna can't share every problem with them... BM wants panna and her saas relationship becomes maa-beti and panna gets all motherly love from her saas..

But in suhana case it is different, none of the kashyaps have problem with suhana working... Even though Ishaan and Rano against it...BM knows Ishaan allways wants suhana happiness.. Ishaan surely understand and support his wife... BM later has clearly asked ishaan, IS he having a problem with suhana's job... Ishaan told he doesn't... I am sure, if ishaan told, he is unhappy to BM and suhana, surely suhana would have stopped working...Instead ishaan told he is happy, as suhana is enjoying her work and he want suhana to get fame and happy for her..

BM knows ishaan very well, she is the one who stopped RB and told ishaan will win suhana's heart.. Ishaan supported suhana and is happy with her even though, knowing suhana doesn't like him ..How can he stop supporting or can't see her happiness..

As far as Rano is concerned, rano has accepted her mistake with BM, when she was wrong objecting her decision for sending ishaan.. Rano said sorry to BM and told she was right... Rano again did said sorry to her daughter ishika...Rano will react in the spurt of moment without thinking and later appolising everyone... So BM thought this time also Rano will understand after some time and support suhana...

Originally posted by: Tani91

I didn't want to quote because it might get confusing😆

Ekta- I don't know why but I do remember in one of the very first episodes of SGP they did show that BM was doing some expense report or what not and Rano playfully said that she can never handle situations like BM does. I do agree that BM is not perfect and yes she does need to give Rano the decision with her kids lives...but this situation is not entirely Rano's to have a say in. Ishan and Suhana are adults and they can take their own decisions which they did, but Rano has a problem with it and it is a legitimate problem, it's not a silly one that's why the family is on polarizing ends of it. I do think that everyone involved (Suhana,Rano,Ishan and BM mostly) are justified with what they are doing, it is just circumstances that are wrong. But SBS thing that will show Rano forgetting the whole things just because she got gifts is not sitting with me🤢

With this post, I am now a little confused on what your stance exactly is cause it seemed like earlier you were supporting BM more, right? 😆

I do like that they are showing that BM's way of handling is not the perfect way and I like that they're showing two sides of the coin rather than justifying and glorifying one while demeaning the other. Yes Rano is right in saying that BM ins spoiling Suhana because she is and she always has.

Even I don't mind them showing that BM's way of handling things isn't perfect. But then they also have to show that even BM realizes that...otherwise it seems BM is thinking only along her own ways and bending truth to her will, thus maligning her character rather than showing her as a normal human being.

Sachi di - Rano distanced herself from those type of decision making Everyone knows that Rano is sentimental and that is not a good trait to have while running a huge family like Kashyaps everyone including Rano understood that and hence she was not involved in the major decision making of the family

I know this is directed at Sachi but I want to say that I don't think Rano had issue of BM handling household technicalities...but there are very specific things that Rano is asking to being involved in but isn't getting it.

Originally posted by: Luv4games

i think what rano fails to understand is that suhana is close to Bm and listens to her not because of authority or because BM forces her or orders her but because bm guides her...she is more like a mentor to her...and seriously who would wanna be like rano...she should have voiced her opinion long ago not now...and not this way in a nice way so that everyone hears it...would she also get mad if suhana listens to her dad...rano didnt once hear what suhana wants or ask her...she just ordered her to leave...has bm ever done that...she never put her decision on suhana...she just guided her which is what she needed...and yah suhana would have said no if bm said so not because she is scared of bm but because she would know there is a logic behind it and bm would also explain it nicely...but rano has no logic...she is just creating problems...she cant claim her authority by sacrificing suhana's career...

Originally posted by: Tani91

Ekta I do support BM more mainly because Rano's way of handling the situation isnt right at all the way she lashed out at Suhana and Ishan thats my biggest problem with this whole ordeal. I know Rano is right but her way of showing it is wrong

Originally posted by: MadameX

Let's see if I have this correctly...Rano doesn't Suhana to work because of the nature of the job and the feeling that it might distance Suhana from Ishaan, right? Sorry, I didn't watch those episode so I'm not sure if that was what happened. So I'm basing things on this assumption. You're right, this isn't good justification. Suhana also does tend to see BM more as motherly figure than Rano and hence more liable to follow BM. But I still think Rano shouldn't be undermined as she is legally Suhana's MIL, a more direct relationship than BM's. So Rano should be taken into consideration by Suhana as well, whether right or wrong. Since Rano's reasoning was wrong, Suhana should be the one talking it out with Rano and telling her why she wants to work, etc, etc.