Actually the are so grown up that they can choose to keep their relations with whom they like. it shoudl be taken on indiviadual basis jisku rakhna ha rakhe jis ku nhn woh na rakhe but none should make the decison thnikngi f others; i feel everyone should have a meeting and then be announced that all are free to make thier decison and noone will judge or feel bad about others.dadi should make her own without trying to make it seem like for bm, dada should do it if he finds him trust worthy then he should otherwise no.
similarly bm should make the decision if she wants her pati back, whether kashyaps get their bro, son dad chachu back shouldnt think in that relation, if she wants her husband back she should move ahead , but at the same time her accepting her hubby doesnt mean indar panan get their dad. no it shouldnt be imposedon anyone.
i guess maha epi will see the issue getting resolved