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Posted: 14 years ago
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BM I would go with dadajee BM you have sacrificed all your life first your husband than children and his family now no more BM as dadajee says if you think you have found your love back and won him no more sacrifices now this the children should understand. But if you don't than Panna is right BM stand up again no more sacrifices for your one life enough sacrifices.

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Posted: 14 years ago
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I dont agree. He must not accept bade papa
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Posted: 14 years ago
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I think she genuinely cares for the guy. Maybe it is because she always loved him and somewhere deep down wanted him to come back to her. Even after everything if BM decides to give her relationship another chance, she has all the rights to do so. The reason that she never got a divorced shows that she wants her marriage to stay intact and work.She didnt get remarried or take panna and inder away from their relatives and spent most of her adult life for her kids and in laws and now she should be allowed to make whatever decisions she feels is right for herslef. Panna wouldnt listen to anybody when it came to forgiving her hubby so why does want to throw her decision on her mom. It is none of her business. she is an adult and married. Her mom can do whatever she wants. I am not saying it is right but if a woman who sacrificed her entire life for others wants to do something wrong that wont harm others then so be it.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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i just want Bari maa's happiness. she should decide what she want. no more sacrifice
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Posted: 14 years ago
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BM can forgive / forget live happily after but she can not expect Panna and Inder to do that. Children don't forget easily what they go through during childhood, these children suffered , it stayed with them all there lives that there dad ditched them, it's not easy to forget or forgive.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: venture

BM can forgive / forget live happily after but she can not expect Panna and Inder to do that. Children don't forget easily what they go through during childhood, these children suffered , it stayed with them all there lives that there dad ditched them, it's not easy to forget or forgive.

exactly, well said, 👏
even if she wants him back she should not force her decssion on her kids, or anyone in the family.what she has suffered maybe she can forgive for that, but to forgive what he did to his kids that should be their decision.
what feelings will they actually have? he is stranger for them, how do you love respect someone who left you when you were a kid, even as kids didnt share much bonding(remeber bm said he used to see them at nyt when they are alseep andthey used to see him in morning before going to school and at that time was sleeping) , for them its alok and dadji who matter, who they love. ishwar just coz he is labelled as father cant be shown o be forgiven by his kids so soon, even if you forgive can they actually show normal relations love and respect?

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