27th Oct discussions. - Page 9

I don't resent suhana . Actually I get her . As I get all the characters in Sgp . I have my personal 2 rules , never speak without thinking & never act without thinking . I get her , only problem I have with character is even though she has a very admirable noble heart , she doesn't get it that each actions has consequances , fore seen or not . That's it . I know , understand what Alok - Bm r doing or not doing regarding BP is wrong but this is their wish . Would I do something that My MIL or FIL doesn't want me to do ? No but I will certeinly voice My Opinion after that I will act upon thier wishes. I know people think I m against Suhana , no but having a good is not solution to each problem . If Bm - Alok doesn't want to do something like Ilesh - inders sujested , should they do it behind elder's wishes ? Will it not b wrong ? Disrespectful . That's it . If they want to show as tomorrow they tell SuShan abt BP being in the house i have no rpblem with it . For me problem comes when they do it against the wishes of elders & Suhana gets the praise for having a good heart .

I like that Suhana has a strong voice but she doesn't stop there . She does things her way . I m not comparing R D S . My liking for Rajni is cauz she reminds me of my mother , Disha reminds me of my self , working , taking care of family . I know quite a lot of Suhanas around me . I like that she has a good nature but resons I don't like the character doing certain things r my own personal 2 rules . If tomorrow they show as Suhana saying , Ishan I have complete & utter faith in BM - Papa they will handle everything . V'll support them in everything . & tells them to go to police or what ever their wishes r but also says V'll do what ever U want BM . I'll b more thnan happy. More like proud of her . But BM doesn't need Suhana.

BADI Maa Knows what she wants , thinks . She doesn't need suhana or anyone else to tell her what she should do . BM ki khamoshee unki kamzori nahi , Unki takat hain . Bm chup hain kyunki woh Dadaji ki care kaar tee hain . BM too can say hurtful things to BP but she is not going to cauz he is Dadaji's son . She can call police or do everything else but she won't it is not weeknes, strength of her character that she won't go against the wishes of her father . This is her Sanskar , shabhyata , she won't go against her Bauji. BP doesn't care abt his family's reputation , or his parents wishes but she does. That's Y she never let her kids bad mouth thier father. That is the only reasons she is not going to ask Inder - Ilesh to go against Dadaji's wishes. Alok knows this , understands it . Ek umar laag jaati hain Izzat kamane main , aur ek minute laagti hain uspe dhabba lagane main .

Nets I agree with all your points, but why only Suhana is the problem ?? why do you think that telling her would mean that she would want to come with a gun and shoot BP, I dont think she would do such a thing, she would go by BM, I dont think BM needs Suhana at all, its the other way round, BM has RB, Rano, Rajni and Disha , Suhana would be the last person she needs. Its BM,s battle and she will handle it, I agree, but its a battle for Alok, and Ambernath and Gayatri Kyshap too, its not all about BM, yes as a wife he is her mujrim but he is also mujrim for them as well. Rajni knows how Inder suffered but Disha had no direct link with BM,s suffering as Rajni had, so Suhana is in the same scenario as Disha, Suhana has seen BM suffering, Suhana felt her pain, becuase Suhana loves BM as her mother, BM loves everybody the same , if Ishaan,s wife was somebody else BM would have loved her too, so I agree that BM does not need Suhana as her Savior, its Suhana who needs to get the exposure of tough realities of life. I particularly dont think Suhana is all noble and mahan but at the same time she has qualities which not many has , and no its not only pure heart but also ability to see that she is not right all the time and she NEEDS others. If Ishaan and family pamper her unnecessarily then its not her fault. But she needs to be part of the family , I will stand by it, she is not a super woman who will fix everything, but she is a member of the family just as Ishika, and the rest, if Alok and BM decides anything she will not do anything against it.

AS I said if suhana comes n voice her POV , leave it to elders to decide actions then I m super happy. But is not they will show , super women will help BM , n every one praise her as suhana saved the day . Just like elders were super happy that suhana saved saroj's life. Truth was kashyaps supported suhana , even though they were not happy with kd decision , they did per kd's wishes.

As for suhana - bm scene , for me they gave us the scene . When inder tells everyone abt bp being in the same town. So now is there more they can show us meaningful ? No. V'll get some what scene re created . I want to see ho rajni feels regarding BM , something meaningful between her bm. Or with knder. As for disha, she is living in the house , yet she is not going do anything more than rajni is. Disha understands th e situation. Bm is not just mother but also mil too. My fear is sice suhana is lead she 'll get more exposer than rest of the characters. Suhana I don't believe will stay quite n do per elders wishes. She will get more than getting involve.

Originally posted by: venture

Why does it have to be comparison between R&D and Suhana? I am not asking for Suhana as a super saviour! She is not she has more weaknesses then strength , All the Kyshap ladies are really super amazing, but Suhana is part of the family too, good or bad she is a part, one can not shut her out because she is unpredictible, if they have that much problem with her correct her, one should be told about there mistakes and one should be given chance to improve as well, leaving a person out side will not serve any purpose.
Nets I know you resent Suhana but dear there are people like her in the world , who needs help, they can not be mahan like the other ladies around them, we do make hundreds of mistakes then become wiser, time gives you experience, experience gives you maturity . Just by treating somebody as a child will never help them grow. That what I am asking, tell them what's happening , and tell them no need to come as the elders would handle it, and if they need them they will ask for them to come. But dismissing Suhana as imbasil is not fair.

Shilu ,
I bet sona track was not in the horizon then they ( writers) would have SuShan b part of the BP track . i think SuShan r going to bump into sona soon & they don't want SuShan to b away from Mumbai any time soon. i believe as supid as it sound that might b the only logical reason.

If sona trak was not there than U would have goten ur wish as suhana might have given earful to Bp for being a jerk. Or she might later give some . 😆

Originally posted by: shilu999_balani

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i agree that the family must tell Suhana and Ishaan about this. Ishaan i guess is matured enough to understand the situation. But Suhana. I am sure if she gets to know she would want to go to Delhi to be with BM. Fair enough. IF she wants to be only the support system for BM, Iam fine with it. But if Suhana does all those things like out bursting or whatever she has done till now, it is definitely not going to be good in this situation.

Originally posted by: Shwets1502

i agree that the family must tell Suhana and Ishaan about this. Ishaan i guess is matured enough to understand the situation. But Suhana. I am sure if she gets to know she would want to go to Delhi to be with BM. Fair enough. IF she wants to be only the support system for BM, Iam fine with it. But if Suhana does all those things like out bursting or whatever she has done till now, it is definitely not going to be good in this situation.

Family has to make Suhana understand that they need to be silent now. But will Suhana hear them. Ishaan has no control over her. And Suhana's antics till now has turned into a comedy which is what i definitely not want in this track. And Suhana-BM scene regarding this matter, we have had a lot. Suhana can be matured and responsible but as u all said, she is unpredictable. Family would not want to take a chance with that.

Having said that, if Suhana acts matured and according to elder's wishes, she can be a great support to Dadaji. Dadaji will be lot cooler if Suhana is around.

Ishaan was soo happy to go to Mumbai. And now with this situation, may be the family wants them to celebrate Diwali happily there not realising how much they are missing the family.

Suhana can definitely solve this problem. But i dont want her to and hence i dont want her to come to Delhi. I dont want the lead to solve the prb especially some one else's prob. This is BM's prb and she is strong enough to solve it with her family's support. And also, I dont want Suhana coming and shouting at Ishwar as it may not look good whn a young one shouts at an elder at elder's presence