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Posted: 13 years ago

#71

Originally posted by: netri

I love it time & again , Inder stops Rajni from making mistakes , Talking sternly with her . If she is wrong , Inder doesn't cover for her or pacify her but tells her out flat she is wrong ...

V hardly saw Ishan talking to Suhana that way . Most of the time , He is talking as if he is afraid she might kill him .I get it nature is different . reactions r different but Y Suhana is dominating person or personality , get away with everything not everyone don't . !!!!

inder too could not control his wife when she had that outburst at ishaan s birthday?... he told her to keep quiet about it but did she? she had it out with BM and only calmed down after the confrontation with badi maa... same thing ilesh too couldnt control his wife at that time tlll BM spoke to her too

of cou\rse every ones naature is different... but rajni and disha have lived in a joint family all theri lives and are more mature than suhana anytime... but in times of crisis suhana has shown more courage to face the situation..

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Netri

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Posted: 13 years ago

#72

Originally posted by: shilu999_balani
yes but why hide it from suhana... she has proved time and again that under stress and in a crisis she has the guts to call a spade a spade and face the situaltion... and then all agree that she is right... she proved it last in soroj"s wedding ?
and as a son and daughter in law of the house they have a right to know whats going on ... if ishika can handle the situation.. why cant sushaan... no i dont agree that is right for them to be kept in the dark...

That's the problem Shilu , They too can call a spade a spade . They too have power to call police , throw him out of the house . THIS IS NOT WHAT THEY WANT TO DO . As Ilesh asked today " Karna kya hain Mamu , Woh toh bataiye " Q. is very appropriate . Inder wants to throw him out the house . Alok did good thing talking to him . This way NOW they know what is it USM wants !!! He wants his RESPECT , HAKQ back , which is no way he is going to get .

I believe more than any one else in the house It is BM's fight . BM is afraid of him . BM needs to look close in to her Heart WHAT IS IT THAT SHE WANTS ? The moment , BM will stand up for her right , USM will have nothing more to say . I remember one scene where BM tells Dadi what is or How exactly hse sees things when It comes to BP . Very harsh words but she was pushed to say what is in her heart . I believe , This is how It's going to b .

Suhana has proved her self , but she is VERY UNPREDICTABLE . They can't put their hands to their heart & say this is how Suhana will do things.

as for Saroj wedding , Things could have turned out either way . Which in real life can have NASTY side effects . Saroj's life turned up side down but it didn't .

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Anamta

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Posted: 13 years ago

#73

Originally posted by: netri

I believe more than any one else in the house It is BM's fight . BM is afraid of him . BM needs to look close in to her Heart WHAT IS IT THAT SHE WANTS ? The moment , BM will stand up for her right , USM will have nothing more to say . I remember one scene where BM tells Dadi what is or How exactly hse sees things when It comes to BP . Very harsh words but she was pushed to say what is in her heart . I believe , This is how It's going to b .
Suhana has proved her self , but she is VERY UNPREDICTABLE . They can't put their hands to their heart & say this is how Suhana will do things.
as for Saroj wedding , Things could have turned out either way . Which in real life can have NASTY side effects . Saroj's life turned up side down but it didn't .

I agree and ya its BM's fight even Rem. that BM-Dadi scene where she showed her firmness and make Dadi quiet.I want same BM if she will be strong and firm she will get succeeded for sure.

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poonam balani

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Posted: 13 years ago

#74

@netri... i understand what you mean... suhana is unpredictable but she can get results too like in amroha too a few times,,, in the police station too when she got her luggage back and got the hotel owner to be charged or something then again in sarojs wedding... while the others getting scared do not take any action... yes this time it is BM fight... but when others are just waiting to see what her reaction will be suhana may be able to help her put the situation into perspective and take the right decision...i dont mean that suhana will call the police and create a hungama... but that girl just sees what is right and speaks her mind out.. and then others agree with her...

ok good night now ... its past 1 .15 way past my bed time... see you again tomorrow,,,

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Netri

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Posted: 13 years ago

#75

Originally posted by: shilu999_balani
inder too could not control his wife when she had that outburst at ishaan s birthday?... he told her to keep quiet about it but did she? she had it out with BM and only calmed down after the confrontation with badi maa... same thing ilesh too couldnt control his wife at that time tlll BM spoke to her too
of cou\rse every ones naature is different... but rajni and disha have lived in a joint family all theri lives and are more mature than suhana anytime... but in times of crisis suhana has shown more courage to face the situation..

I agree , Everyone is different . Rajni - Disha didn't stay quite . But their Husbands not for one moment ask them whose fault really was . They just saw Their wives were wrong & they told that to their faces . Which is very good . THat's all I m saying . That Night not for one Moment Ishan ask Suhana " What happen ? " Or " Did they do something ? " Or ever tried to find out the truth .

Sometimes in life , calling a spade a spade is not wiser . Sometime s in life U have to look at other person , Analyse the situation !! , U don't go fight with MAD man . Which in this situation BP is . Eveyrone told him how exactly , They see him as Yet he is inside the house . This shows that None of this shouting , fighting , calling him name s, calling police or any other way is going to work with him He is basically SHAMELESS .

Sometime s V don't have to use our strengths or Power to win the war but Just use our Akkals . Think it through . They don't call the police as Dadaji doesn't wan tto . If dadaji calls police , then USM has no right to b there . Easy . But they wan tto use any of those things.

All My point is as Inder - Ilesh r quite as Dadaji - BM - Alok's wishes . Will Suhana too will remain Quite & just give support !!!!

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Netri

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Posted: 13 years ago

#76

Originally posted by: shilu999_balani
@netri... i understand what you mean... suhana is unpredictable but she can get results too like in amroha too a few times,,, in the police station too when she got her luggage back and got the hotel owner to be charged or something then again in sarojs wedding... while the others getting scared do not take any action... yes this time it is BM fight... but when others are just waiting to see what her reaction will be suhana may be able to help her put the situation into perspective and take the right decision...i dont mean that suhana will call the police and create a hungama... but that girl just sees what is right and speaks her mind out.. and then others agree with her...
ok good night now ... its past 1 .15 way past my bed time... see you again tomorrow,,,

From My personal experience One should never push others to a decision . When things doesn't turn out the way they hoped , They can blame U for pushing them .

RB is doing that . Gradually , She will help BM make up her mind . Since this is soap & Lead character , Suhana kaa koee baal bhi banka nahi kaar sakta . But in real life . Keeping UR mouth shut is the best policy . 😆

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Posted: 13 years ago

#77

Originally posted by: netri
I believe more than any one else in the house It is BM's fight . BM is afraid of him . BM needs to look close in to her Heart WHAT IS IT THAT SHE WANTS ? The moment , BM will stand up for her right , USM will have nothing more to say . I remember one scene where BM tells Dadi what is or How exactly hse sees things when It comes to BP . Very harsh words but she was pushed to say what is in her heart . I believe , This is how It's going to b .
Suhana has proved her self , but she is VERY UNPREDICTABLE . They can't put their hands to their heart & say this is how Suhana will do things.
as for Saroj wedding , Things could have turned out either way . Which in real life can have NASTY side effects . Saroj's life turned up side down but it didn't .

@Blue -- I agree... it is BM's fight... but I am getting impatience now... how much more time will she take... 😉😆 I want her to be firm & kick that USM😉😆

but on a serious note... I want to see BM the same strong & taking her stand 😊

and Yes Suhana is very unpredictable... 😊

one more thing I want to say...

I don't think we can only see & praise who takes stand & works in crisis.. who speaks out & sloves the matter... apart from Suhana... I respect Rajni's character too... for me Rajni stands out...

some ppl, specifically ladies r soft & introvert... I have seen my Mom... she never speaks... never taker her stand... nor ever argues... and always end up being Sacrificing... She always Sacrifice & let it go when it comes to her rights... my Aunt always wants more than her... she speaks out... and she gets it... doesn't mean my Mom hasn't done anything for the Family... infact she is pillar of the family... coz she has sacrificed... if she wudn't have done that then I am sure family wud have been apart since long...

Same I think for Rajni... Rajni is housewife... and she never argues to elders... but she is very mature & sensible person.. she thinks for the Family... She wants Elders to take action & then she Follows them without arguing... For me she also Supports in Crisis... but she supports silently... and that is equally important as being Vocal for the things...

For me... Rajni & Suhana both work in Crisis... but their ways of handling things are different... If you have 2 same ladies like Suhana in the house... Family can't be Joint for the longer time... You can only have one Suhana... and then other Lady has to be like Rajni to handle, accept & Love Suhana the way she is... 😃

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Netri

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Posted: 13 years ago

#78

Originally posted by: Sachi16
@Blue -- I agree... it is BM's fight... but I am getting impatience now... how much more time will she take... 😉😆 I want her to be firm & kick that USM😉😆

but on a serious note... I want to see BM the same strong & taking her stand 😊

and Yes Suhana is very unpredictable... 😊

one more thing I want to say...

I don't think we can only see & praise who takes stand & works in crisis.. who speaks out & sloves the matter... apart from Suhana... I respect Rajni's character too... for me Rajni stands out...
For me too Sachi . She is doing her way , contributing to the happiness of the family . I ahve so much respect for Rajni - Disha . I see My Mom in rajni , She too like ur mom being eldest bahu of the House secrifice so much . My Mom calls it her Tapashya !!!

some ppl, specifically ladies r soft & introvert... I have seen my Mom... she never speaks... never taker her stand... nor ever argues... and always end up being Sacrificing... She always Sacrifice & let it go when it comes to her rights... my Aunt always wants more than her... she speaks out... and she gets it... doesn't mean my Mom hasn't done anything for the Family... infact she is pillar of the family... coz she has sacrificed... if she wudn't have done that then I am sure family wud have been apart since long...

Same I think for Rajni... Rajni is housewife... and she never argues to elders... but she is very mature & sensible person.. she thinks for the Family... She wants Elders to take action & then she Follows them without arguing... For me she also Supports in Crisis... but she supports silently... and that is equally important as being Vocal for the things...

This is how I ahve seen things in my Home , Elders take the initial decision but U talk to others too . Like today's episode . I love how everyone express their views regarding USM but It was Alok who explained Y He doesn't want to do things that way !!!
Sachi , My personal view is never push anyone to make a choice or push them to make a decision . It always ends up with bad experience .

For me... Rajni & Suhana both work in Crisis... but their ways of handling things are different... If you have 2 same ladies like Suhana in the house... Family can't be Joint for the longer time... You can only have one Suhana... and then other Lady has to be like Rajni to handle, accept & Love Suhana the way she is... 😃
Girl U said it all for me . For me I just love Rajni - Disha. It is never abt speaking the awful truth . It always abt doing things with Who U truly r . Anyone can say things to USM [ Which for me BM , Inder , Panna , Alok ] has done. Nothing more U can add to it. If U want everyone to b disrespectful to USM thenHe will b more Shameless & demand more just to push those buttons more . They will kick his ... but their own way . They r dragging it until they open Mumbai track . so few more day V have to wait .

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MadameX

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Posted: 13 years ago

#79

Oh dear God, I see essays in here. *faints* I guess I was better off studying...😆

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Sheema

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Posted: 13 years ago

#80

Why does it have to be comparison between R&D and Suhana? I am not asking for Suhana as a super saviour! She is not she has more weaknesses then strength , All the Kyshap ladies are really super amazing, but Suhana is part of the family too, good or bad she is a part, one can not shut her out because she is unpredictible, if they have that much problem with her correct her, one should be told about there mistakes and one should be given chance to improve as well, leaving a person out side will not serve any purpose.
Nets I know you resent Suhana but dear there are people like her in the world , who needs help, they can not be mahan like the other ladies around them, we do make hundreds of mistakes then become wiser, time gives you experience, experience gives you maturity . Just by treating somebody as a child will never help them grow. That what I am asking, tell them what's happening , and tell them no need to come as the elders would handle it, and if they need them they will ask for them to come. But dismissing Suhana as imbasil is not fair.

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