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Sorry tejesh not agree with u ths time itz not right to put all the blame on suhana if suhana is wrong then R&D r also wrong so the fault is from both the sides can't blame anyone for ths...as suhana is right in her own way n so asR&D.
As for suhana her life has just started the whole one year she didn't accept ishaan as her husband sid ditched her n even after realisation of her love for ishaan not too much time is passed shez got BT n then ishaan's accident one after other musibat come in their life both of them have not get sufficient time to spend with each other ...which now they want too n R&D have already enjoyed all ths at their time so now itz sushaan turn... itz unfair to compare B/w three couples as to why sushaan is spending too much time together n not other two couples.
Earlier Kashyap's won't let suhana do anything say we will do it for u n now all of a sudden u want her to behave maturely help them in their work which is not possible u can't change anyone within a day not even urself give her sumtime n give her oppurtunities to do work if u scared tat suhana won't do ths or tat properly she will spoil it then sorry to say in ths way not even suhana nobody can learn anything if u can't give the person a chance to do sumthing on her own how will she learn it...ok she will do it wrongly first time second time or may be third time also but atlast she will learn it as she had learnt knitting.
Agree suhana has too behave a lil mature but R&D also has to do sumthing sensible rather than just inserting suhana do bad mouthning abt her or ignoring her at times...i believe in straightway talk if u have problem with anyone go n talk to tat person ander he ander maarne is kya faiyda if they can't say it to suhana straightly they can go n talk with BM tat we want suhana also to help us in household chores whatz problem in tat i'm sure suhana won't say no to any work.My aunt shez is living in joint family for abt 20 years but their is no problem b/w her n her devaranis itz just cuz her MIL has distributed the work B/W all three of them equally.Same thing BM has to do...bt ques who will tell them as shez unknown abt tensions b/w bahus...if BM can't feel that there is sum tension growing in the house then howcome suhana.U can't say suhana is a tubelight or she doesn't have brain offcourse she has n more than kashyap's...n these things happen with us also we r so happy abt sumthing tat we can't figure it out tat other member of the family is upset itz a part human nature nothing new plus if u don't tell the other person abt ur tension how can he/she judge c'mon shez not god or aanteryami.
N I feel elders have to be involved in all ths otherwise wht they r for if childrens have to luk after themselves doesn't matter how old they r but for parents they r still their kids my mom still after so years of marriage talk to my nani as what to do if there is any problem take advice from her n so as my sis ...there is no harm in discussing ur problems with ur elders n elders to show the correct path to their young ones...itz not BM spoonfeeding suhana n suhana just follow it.Tell me can't we do wht our elders say to us n wht BM said to suhana to luk after her husband is there anything wrong in it to which suhana has to give it a thought n use her own akal.
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