BM and dadaji played with them like puppets!! - Page 4

Originally posted by: neel_jay

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Originally posted by: neel_jay

I don't agree with some of your points.

#1 I agree that Suhana had hurt Ishan initially but in time, she had realised it as well. I also remember one episode after Sid's truth was revealed in front of her when Ishan had voiced out his hurt to her and had made her realise how she had hurt him when they first got married.

In any relationship, if a person makes a mistake, but later realises it and works hard to change themselves, you can not then keep blaming them and holding them accountable for the old mistake! You have to forgive and forget and move ahead, otherwise the relationship can never be successful.

#2 Sonali's behavior was not at all justified and on the contrary, I found it shameful! WHO is she to ask such a question to Suhana? Who is she to butt in their lives and humiliate Suhana like this? And how the hell does she feel justified to ask Suhana about the status of her marriage when she, Sona, herself has been behaving SOOOO inappropriately with Suhana's husband!! You can not forget Sona constantly throwing herself physically at Ishan! She should not have chosen THAT method to make Suhana jealous!

#3 Suhana needed a wake up call yes, but badi ma was effectively doing in that with her other little ways, without hurting Suhana's feelings. Remember how tactfully BM made Suhana realise that she should also do things to please Ishan (and the result was the chicken dumplings)? Suhana could have been made to realise things just like this..gently, lovingly, kindly.. There was no need to humiliate her and break her heart.

And at the end of this, everyone except Ishan will be able to say - we did this to make you realise. But what justification can Ishan give for HIS behaviour? He was not a part of the plan? Why did he behave so inappropriately with another girl?

Originally posted by: vishmewell

Netri, this is the best comment yaar... awesome reading that...😆

Originally posted by: mjtruelegend

I know. I have never seen 2 best friends to act like a married couple and that too in front of his official wife. Doesn't it hurt the elder's eye to see such shameful closeness of them both when Ishaan is a married guy? I know its a plan but you can't justify such physical comfort with anyone other than your partner / wife. BADI MA of all people should know as its because of another woman her husband left her so how could take this risk?? She should have spoken to both Ishaan and Suhana individually 1st to get down to the bottom of this. If she had considered how awful it feels to see your husband with another woman, she wouldn't have gone ahead I don't think. Being a mature woman to do that to a young innocent girl is injustice in my eyes. How could she have forgotten that!! There were many other methods they could have adopted but no-they had to do things OTT with chap tactics.🤢

Originally posted by: rabees011

So true! They will not realize anything, but I just hope at least Alok understands where Ishan went wrong and this time gives him a thappad for real. That's because in one of the episodes in which suhana was mimicking Alok, Alok called Ishan and asked him why he is after Sona all the time. He even said that sona is a nice girl, but he shouldn't chipkofy with her too much as Suhana doesn't like it.

I was really surprised then. If alok, being Suhana's father-in-law can understand her, why can't Rano? Rano is her mother-in-law after all. So, she should have been the first one to understand her and tell Ishan where he has gone wrong. But Ms. rano--all she does is laugh at Ishan and Sona's cosiness, and therefore her pyare patidev Alok had to take the initiative of explaining to Ishan that he isn't doing the right thing.

Originally posted by: netri

U R ABSOLUTELY RIGHT . IN RED : IS A DANGER FOR FAMILY. WHILE THEY HAVE YET NOT EXPLORE PHYSICAL ATTRACTION AND YET NOT REALIZE WHAT IT MEANS TO THEM. BM DOESN'T REALIZE THAT NOW ONWARDS IS THE SLIPPERY SLOP. IF ISHAN-SONA REALIZE THEIR PHYSICAL ATTRACTION AND ACT ON IT. SINCE ISHAN THINKS HIS WIFE DOESN'T LOVE HIM. IF HIS WIFE IS NOT GOING TO ACCEPT HIM AND SONA IS AVAILABLE & WILLING, MARRIAGE IS OVER.

THEIR IS ALWAYS DANGER OF FRIENDSHIP AFTER MARRIAGE. THERE IS ALWAYS A LIMIT TO EVERYTHING. SONA HAD BM'S BLESSING BUT IF SHE HAS FALLEN FOR ISHAN , BM HAS UNKNOWINGLY RUINED HER LIFE. IT WILL BE HARD FOR HER TO FORGET HER FIRST LOVE. AND GO AHEAD IN LIFE , GET MARRIED, FALL IN LOVE AGAIN . ALL THIS WILL BE HARD ON HER. WHILE ISHAN IS SAFE WITH HIS LOVE.

IF IT WAS A REAL LIFE.......... SUHANA WILL NEVER FORGET SONA. SORRY FORGIVE......😃 WHILE ISHAN WILL BE WATCHED BY EVERYONE. BM WOULD LOOSE ALL THE RESPECT FROM EVERYONE. AND GOD FORBID IF REST OF THE WORLD FINDS OUT IT WAS BM'S PLAN , WELL EVERYONE WILL SAY SHE MUST HAVE DONE SOMETHING TO DRIVE HER HUSBAND OUT OF HER LIFE. AND HER ACTION WILL HAVE IMPACT ON BOTH HER KIDS. SO THANK GOD IT'S DRAMA......

Originally posted by: venture

Believe me guys nothing big is going to happen, its unbelievable that nothing big is going to happen, nobody is going to question Ishaan, nobody is going to see any wrong doings by Sona or Ishaan, it will be Suhana,s MISUNDERSTANDING, even Suhana,s family would support the great Ishaan , it woud be Suhana all the way, to be responsible for everything, she would appologise , she would confess, she would thank Sonali for such a great job, and everybody woud live happy ever after, this is how it happened in OBs, all the reactions would be that Suhana is getting it wrong , Ishaan love her so much, Suhana ko Galat Fhemy hai, even her father would see her at fault.
This is the biggest flaw in SGP , everything so far was so perfect, this is the only part which they didnt handle rightly and also, they always leaves things in the air, and we all are going crazy over, Ishaan should have done this,.Suhana would have done that etc etc the CV has got completely different idea to portary, yes its not EK style but still not done perfectly, so many un answered question would be hanging about.

Originally posted by: mjtruelegend

I know this is the greatest tragedy of OBS/SGP creators. Its so bad that they have to show Lolita/Suhana as the one's at fault when I honestly do not think its their fault at all. Its the elders and only them. It their bad plan and poor judgement thats created all the problems. 😡
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Originally posted by: vishmewell

Neel_jay, you voiced my opinion about Ishaan's totally inappropriate physical, emotional and mental proximity. The same proximity he showed towards Sona as a friend, had he shown the same towards his friend/so-called wife Suhana their relationship would have blossomed beautifully and naturally without Badi Maa and dadaji's atrocious, unforgivable behavior.

Is Badi maa not a woman herself? And she should know better what it is to have another woman between married couples? Didn't her marriage break coz of a another attractive woman who was willing to give her husband more than she was willing to give? Did her husband not fall in love with another woman just coz of the close proximity of another woman?

What about Dadaji? Has he lost his mind in budhapa? How stupid is that idea od bringing another woman into Ishaan-Suhana's marriage after what Eshwar has done? For the sake of argument for the viewers who think it is ok, lets think they did it out of good intention. Then is it not their responsibility to monitor closely what is happening?

Dadaji-Dadiji mumtaj-Shajahan bane phirthe hai sara din... and badi maa is too busy doing hisab-kithaab and chit-chating w/R-R. Even at the picnic these two did not bother to see what was happening there while Ishaan was too busy carrying and hugging Sona...

Rano and dadiji are totally worthless women and characters in SGP. What kind of a mother will force her son to go a pub with a girl friend without her bahu? Will she send Alok with another woman?

The very fact Sona walks into Suhana-Ishaan's bedroom anytime and sits on their bed deserves a tight slap. She has no business to go into their bedroom that too making a grand entry with Ishaan...

Had Sona not been there, Ishaan would never have behaved out of frustration the way he did. He was simply satisfying his male hormones being close to Sona. And so is Sona. Otherwise, there is no need for either of them to get physically close.

Yes, Suhana was thinking of Sid after marriage. But she nevr ever crossed her line nor let Sid cross his line. As you said, will kashyaps be ok with Suhana chipking with a childhood male friend and entertain him in their bedroom and hug him in public? Kashyaps are nothing but bunch of Hippocrates.

CVs have lost their mind. Hopeless story telling.