His screw is dheela but I can't hate him - Page 2

ofcourse ..ishaan is an ordinary man...i dont understand yyy everybody want ishaan to be godlike person....seriously guyss...i dont find ishaan doing anything wrong......i think many of us see it only from suhana's point of veiw.....

INCONSISTENT is the word I would use for Ishaan nowadays.His behaviour with Suhana and Sona are totally different alltogether.Infront of Suhana,he becomes the bhola bhala asli Ishaan,but suddenly in front of Sona,he becomes the ultimate superman!😕He is not at all consistent and thats what is bothering me too much..esp after the picnic epi...the way Ishaan went on chipkoing Sona when Sona had nothing to do to make Suhana jealous...I dont know why are the CVs portraying his charachter as if HE is a part of the plan to make Suhana realize her lowe for him!🤔...I toh just wanted to take my joota out and pheko it to him when I saw him so OTTly chipkoing with his Sona darling!😵...No friend would behave like Ishaan is behaving with Sona..ohh sorry...they arent friends na..Sona toh ISHAAN KI SONA hai..Jai ho to Soshaan and their phrendship..that seems to be so difficult for me to understand...more than hebrew🥱😕😆

Originally posted by: shounak-rijul1

INCONSISTENT is the word I would use for Ishaan nowadays.His behaviour with Suhana and Sona are totally different alltogether.Infront of Suhana,he becomes the bhola bhala asli Ishaan,but suddenly in front of Sona,he becomes the ultimate superman!😕He is not at all consistent and thats what is bothering me too much..esp after the picnic epi...the way Ishaan went on chipkoing Sona when Sona had nothing to do to make Suhana jealous...I dont know why are the CVs portraying his charachter as if HE is a part of the plan to make Suhana realize her lowe for him!🤔...I toh just wanted to take my joota out and pheko it to him when I saw him so OTTly chipkoing with his Sona darling!😵...No friend would behave like Ishaan is behaving with Sona..ohh sorry...they arent friends na..Sona toh ISHAAN KI SONA hai..Jai ho to Soshaan and their phrendship..that seems to be so difficult for me to understand...more than hebrew🥱😕😆

shounak the right word is "soulmate"😡 as their friendship is described by inder

Originally posted by: sweetymol

...i dont think ishaan ignored suhana..ishaan was just enjoying the picnic

Originally posted by: 111192

shounak the right word is "soulmate"😡 as their friendship is described by inder

Originally posted by: shounak-rijul1

Yeah...The way he was fighting for Sona..jee kar raha tha...gala dabaa doo..

shounak again the right word is tetua dabaa doo..................as inmate in masuroori jail was about to do with suhana madam😆😆😆

If people are seeing Ishaan,s behaviour with Sonali justified then , Suhana ki koi Galti nahi thee Sid kay paas janay kee, woh to chipkee bhi Nahi thee, oops I am opening another can of worms.
the problem is not ignoring Suhana , te problem is he has never done this before, he is not dumb when he can say this to her in the room " Tum meray Moon say suuna chati ho khana kaisa bana tha", so he KNOWS Suhana is changing paying more attention to him, when she made tea for her , he said" to isleay kal say tum naraz ho" so he knows that Suhana wants to know him, when he said to Sonali, mujhay lagta hai Suhana ko tum say problem, hai, leave us alone, aur problem mat creat karo, etc etc. what was that???????
Its the CV who has corrupted his character, where was Sonali when he couldnt find any one to marry him, why didnt he say I want my SONA.

Hello every one!!! Me posting the reply after a long time.
I like everyone's reaction or shall I say frustration about this track between Suhana & Ishan.
I just want to share my two cents....As usual it is long and please read at your own risk...

First of all becuz of this track I am re-living my past, which I can relate to.... seen by seen, dialog by dialog, each and every feeling...

Let me add that none of the seens which were shown so far were OTT as I have seen it and felt it personally...

What I have learnt from this incident is "Actions should be associated with the intension of the person"
There is nothing wrong when two best friends (same gender or opposite gender) hug if their intensions are not bad.

Coming to this track, if we remember the seen where Meena is telling Suhana about Sonali and Ishan's closeness like they share their food etc... Suhana immidiately dismissed it by saying
"Well it happens between the childhood friends" She didn't take it seriously then.

What is she feeling bad about it now? Is it of their(Ishan's & Sonali's) close proximity or rapo they share with each other?
I would say the answer is NO. She is not feeling bad because of their close proximity (like most of us in this Forum are feelig).
She is feeling bad becoz she is not getting the attention from "her official Hubby".
In picnic, she should/could have started playing again when Disha or some other member of the family called her. What or who stoped her? Why was she expecting Ishan should call her?
Why was she expecting Ishan to give her attention? WHY??
She needs to get the answer for these question. Unfortunately or Fortunately she has to find the answers to these questions all alone, no one can help her with that. She been a most adorable tubelight
it is taking time to decipher her feeling and realize that "SHE HAS FALLEN IN LOVE HER OFFICIAL HUSBAND".

In between Husband & Wife relationship there is only two things are required 1) Love & 2) Trust.
Suhana already Trust Ishan more than herself. She is on the verge of realizing her LOVE for Ishan. Once that happens then no Sona, wona or Tona can come between Ishan's & Suhana's love or married life.
If I understand the charector of Suhana correctly then she so broadminded and have an Heart of Gold that she will
not mind these kind of close proximity and OTT behaviour of her Hubby dear. She would react the same way as the other members of the family are doing right now.

Every one has termed this track as Jelously track, but I would like to differ here by saying it not Jelously but realization track for both Ishan as well as Suhana, and more for the later one.

Commenting on Ishan's behaviour after arrival of Sonali, well only thing I can say is, It is been depicted really well too, as I have come accross so many female friends of mine who complain about their respective hubbies
"Arey yaar jab bhi mayre pati ke side say koi aata hai na, mayre pati ka mejaaz (behaviour) hei badal jaata hai. Mayri taraf to woh dekhte hai nahi etc etc ........"

By qouting this.. I am not justifing the action of Ishan....plzzz... I am also equally irritated and annoyed by his behaviour...But just want to let you guys know that this show is so close to reality.

I want to add more about Friendship, how it is depicted and what should happen when Ishan comes to know that it was Badima's & Dadaji's plan to call Sonali to bring Suhana close to him...May be in Next post... But don't know when... Till then TATA

^I agree with you.....I actually don't see anything wrong with the way Ishan is close to Sona....I mean I have seen worse things with friends (maybe because I'm here in the US and people act way differently here...I mean I have seen best friends give lip locks in front of their spouses/girlfriends-boyfriends😵....toh inke saamne Sona and Ishan are like Gods...)

I'm irritated at the writers more than at Ishan....like I said before...IF they had shown WHY he is so crazy about Sona then I would understand him more.....I remember Badi Ma telling Suhana that Ishan has no close friends....maybe they should have explored their freindship through flashbacks.....like how their friendship grew and why they're so close to each other...THEN I would understand Ishan more......I mean after Suhana and BM, Ishan is my most fave character....and I used to love him.....but with this Sona track....I only like him when he's being nice to Suhana


I am not fully blaming Suhana here...BUT she has to be clear with her feelings....ok she is naive and innocent....but she has to tell someone about her irriation and her insecurities with Sona......she could tell BM...and BM could understand that they've done their job well....she could tell Sanju...who can make her understand that she is in fact falling in love....she could tell Rajni or Disha who will make her understand WHY she's feeling this way



Again I stand by what I said...I don't think I can ever hate Ishan because I think he is more confused (unconsciously) of course....and some blame goes to Suhana as well....if she were more clear about her feelings then he would also understand WHY she's behaving the way she is


Again I go back to the maha episode where Ishan blasted Suhana for not being at the movies......he was shouting at her and he said "I know you dont care" .....there right there he explained it.....he knows that Suhana can never give him the love that he has given her....but of course unknown to him Suhana is trying

and comparing Sid-Suhana to Ishan-Sona.....zameen aasman ka farkh hai.....Sid was Suhana's boyfriend......Sona is Ishan's childhood friend......their relationships are different.....Sid insulted Suhana...LITERALLY insulted the poor girl yet she went to him......um isnt that wrong in itself??? that idiot humiliated her and deceived her....YET she went to take care of him...... and Ishan didnt say a word even though he was hurt.........Sona is Ishan's friend....they both know their limits (at least I hope they do) and the way you guys are describing it I don't see anything that wrong with it....(again maybe the mindset that I have grown up in has to do something with that....cultural differences)



as for where was Sona darling when they were looking for rishta....I think this is a case of I love you but not in love with you....Ishan may love Sona than anything.....but he can never be in love with her...(I dont know how to explain this though) like in Twilight....Bella and Jacob love each other....but they were never in love.....same case here I believe...but I do find it puzzling that they didnt even mention Sonali during the marriage phases...when the writers KNEW this track was coming



sorry for offending anyone....just my two cents

Originally posted by: sweetymol

ofcourse ..ishaan is an ordinary man...i dont understand yyy everybody want ishaan to be godlike person....seriously guyss...i dont find ishaan doing anything wrong......i think many of us see it only from suhana's point of veiw.....

the problem is that CV's r only showing it from suhana's point of view

EXACTLY....i think we are seeing things in Suhana's point of view thats why we're compelled to "hate" Ishan and Sona.....again OBS viewers also have another frame of reference with OBS Ishan

I seriously blame the writers/CVs for this,....I wish they would have shown atleast some flashbacks of Ishan-Sona's childhood friendship and WHY it came to be the way it is.....that would have made things SO much more easier to understand why

like I said before...I remember Badi Ma saying to Suhana once that Ishan has no close freinds...maybe that's why he feels this connection with Sonali.....she is the closest thing he has after his family before Suhana came along....(again this is all interpretation) maybe he feels a bit closer to her because he understands her more.....with Suhana....given that he and loves her and says that he understands her.....he doesnt know how to read Suhana fully.......he doesnt realize how he's hurting her....he doesnt realize Suhana's irritation....he doesnt realize how his friendship with Sona is hurting Suhana......

I think that's where I find Ishan a bit lacking....the fact that he says he loves Suhana but doesnt understand how she's feeling.....THAT'S why I'm mad at him.....and the writers also for not showing Suhana being clear about her feelings


BTW Can I just say why I love this forum so much.....maine itna sab kuch keh dala and none of you insulted me or my family😆😳 if this was any other forum toh main to jaati kaam se...I love how we can discuss like civilized people here rather than coming to bashing and insults😳....hehehe I love you guys🤗