Double Standard - Page 2

I am new to this forum. But I have followed SGP from day 1 and also been a silent reader on this forum. So I just want to say nobody gets offened for what I have to say. these are just my POV.

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Rajani-Disha-Ishia walking away while Suhana was talking was simply rude.. The CVs should have shown the same thing more gracefully... aprreciating Suhana for her concern and responsible/matured talk.

I agree they can't lecture a guest, but walking away while Suhana was still talking is a no no behavior!!!

Originally posted by: mcgregor

I am new to this forum. But I have followed SGP from day 1 and also been a silent reader on this forum. So I just want to say nobody gets offened for what I have to say. these are just my POV.

Growingup in a joint family I could relate to the Kashyaps a lot.

They do not have Double standards. They have done lot of favours to Suhana. Though she too have adjusted to their lifestyle but that was later, the first step was taken by the family to make her feel comfortable.

Coming to todays episode... Sonali didnt take dadaji anywhere it was dadaji who asked her to do so. and we dont know how and when he asked her. maybe she didnt get a chance to tell the family and dadaji was with her the whole time. But the whole point that CV's wanted to show is not whether Sona is responsible or not but Suhana's reaction to this episode. She was angry at Sona for taking her Dadaji out. The same Dadaji who is very dear to Suhana and he going out with Sona made her feel left out.

Regarding the men taking leave from office that is very natural and they dont have to go and give the true reason to their bosses.

And about leaving the conversations in betn..... this family is very casual.....their family values are respecting the elders and loving their own peers and youngsters. I dont think they meant to offend Suhana by taking away Sonali. Suhana was getting hyper and they wanted to end it. The old Suhana wud have been angry abt it or rather if sona had done the same on her own she wud be offended but she didnt mind since Rajani and Disha were involved. This is what a family bonding is. and it happens. The kashyaps love Suhana unconditionally or where wud we get to see that a jethani is serving her devrani and dont expect anything from her in return. Suhana makes her demand to them with hak and adhikar and theytoo do it for her just like an elder sister wud do. So every once in a while if they play pranks on her whats wrong in that?

Finally as for scolding or saying anything to Sonali.......Sonali is a baharwali. She is not a family member, she may be just like family. Beta or beti jaisi and beta or beti hone mein bohot fark hota hai. We cant go scolding the guests in our house no matter how irresponsible they are. But if they do something good we definitely praise them. The neeums and rules are for family members not for guests. Just like during the restaurant episode Badima scolded Rajani and Disha and not Suhana bcoz they were responsible. And Alok definitely lashed out his anger on Dadaji. They all conveyed their message to dadaji and even Sonali that what they both did was wrong.

Again the whole point of this track is to make Suhana feel alienated and finally realize her love for Ishaan which we will get to see in coming episodes.

Ya, leaving the conversation in the middle was the height of rudeness, how disha and rajini could do this to suhana, ok, sona must be asked that why she did not inform to any other family members in this regard, half of the day is not a small thing , it is a very serious matter that one of the member of the family is missing through out the day but at the same time it is Dadaji's mistake too, looking at sona's age , she is very young and is not that matured, some times we younger people excited about such surprises ki are waah kitna naja ayenga naa but we don't think about the possible outcomes, same was the case with sona, she may be in excitement of surprise to dadi ji by dadaji and at the same time was told by dada ji to not to inform, but dada ji was totally wrong in this regard and his mistake is much much bigger, being such an experienced men he should have shown some far vision before going for such an act, he must have think that what is going at the home if he remain outside the house with out informing others ,just in the name of morning walk , throught out the day.

So, it was dadaji's mistake more, wo kehte hai na ki jab apne hi baigaane nikle toh phir dusro se kya shikva, same here ki agar itne samajhdar bande ko hi samajh nahi hai toh sona toh phir bhi kafi kam umra ki hai and bahar wali bhi, usko kitna kaha ja sakta hai.

But regarding the behavior of disha and rajinii, i am 100 % agreed that it was very very rude..........😭

Originally posted by: Kasturilover

Hi,

Welcome ...........I am a silent reader too

And with due respect to you......I think you have simply missed the point.

The point is not the Gharwali-baharwali cum jealousy.

The point is a 70+? old person with several ailments was missing for almost half a day.......whose almost 70 wife was on the verge of a breakdown.

Had it been me, and even if it was a guest in my house, I would have politely told the guest that this time they went too overboard.

Secondly........I hope you didnt mean this line seriously.........

"Regarding the men taking leave from office that is very natural and they dont have to go and give the true reason to their bosses. "

else I seriously doubt and am amazed at the ethics in contemporary workers and offices.

I think in the whole jealousy track, the creatives hjave lost the plot ..........Added to this the fact that Hunar Ali plays Sonali..........its total torture.

You spoke my mind👏👏👏👏👏

Loved the beautiful POVs on your thread sheems......😛

Yest. episode confused me in the way .....that both Rajni and Disha dragged Sonali leaving Suhana's sensible talk abruptly...😕. if the intention of the unit was to add a dash of humour to the face of it.... it looked a sarcastic humour....Rajni-Disha were responsible, sensible people as shown right from the beginning and this kind of kiddish behaviour is not expected of them when it comes to witnessing Suhana's sensibility..... it was always Suhana who was attacked by them earlier for her numerous mistakes which she did unknowingly..... here the mistake done knowingly by them cannot first of all be termed a mistake.... it is sadly an act of royal ignorance gifted by them to Suhana's talks...😕. which is absolutely wrong....!

Well this is just difference of situation i guess.

Hi guys lovely thots

You made me conscious of the fact that Suhana is evolving as a person and growing responsible. Unfortunately the rest seem to be headed to justify some pretty average humor.

Originally posted by: waniya_fatima

Well this is just difference of situation i guess.

see in suahana's case the one who suffered were rajni and disha they had faced those prob which were not so good u know

in sona's case the case is indirect dadaji went to please his wife so if his wife wont be having any prob why should they schold at sona.

they did ask her why she took him along with her but dadaji is sensible person if he went with him it would have been his own choice. sona just accompanied him. rest it wa sdadiji's choice.

what if dadji took meethi along with him the family wouldnt have scholded at her ne since the choice was dadaji's so they didnt blame sona this time.

Now a days there are more filler episodes like 2 episodes wasted on dadaji missing for soan papadi. No one in the family questioned sonali or even told her that she should tell before going out.