@Shakila2244: Your VM's on Suhana & Ishan are wonderful. I would like to appreciate your proficiency on making these VM. Please keep making them.
I apology for not responding to your post individually by the time I realized I need to, it has already crossed 5 pages. It was really nice to read all the views shared by you guys. Keep them flowing like thisJ.
Following is my reply to all the post
I have no doubt about Ishan's love for Suhana. Correct me if I am wrong in saying that "Love cannot be expressed but have to be felt." I am absolutely fine when it is taking time for them to realize the Love they have for each other, as realization can't be drawn in single day.
I totally agree to the part that we are looking at Ishan from Suhana's prospective and getting annoyed. I wouldn't blame CV but give credit for making Ishan's character very realistic one.
I know Ishan is bit annoying these days but as shwets1502 said we are looking at him from Suhana's prospective but Ishan as a husband he is very much in his character and real too. Women who are married would I think agree to the fact that, when the hubby's see their childhood friend(s) or a very close relative they go nuts.
Instance 1: When the wife's ask them to about a good restaurant, or a place to hang out they would think very hard, but the same question asked by their friend(s)/relative(s) (leave alone the gender) they will come out with the entire list of restaurants, or the hang out place.
Instance 2: When wife asks to take off from work they will not have a single day to take off (PL(s) & CL(s)) but the day their friend(s)/relative(s) come, don't know from where they will have all the PL(s) or CL(s) saved.
Instance 3: There also comes a time when dear hubbies loose the track on time when they are with their friend(s)/Relative(s) and in the process forget that there is person who also needs some attention.
All said and done, I will not blame hubbies for these kinds of behavior. That's because they know that the friends/relatives will not be staying with them permanently but wife will be always there with them. In Ishan's & Suhana's case the day Suhana said that she is not going to leave the house, hence he has taken Suhana for granted. I will not say he is ignoring her but yes giving more importance to the guest who is his childhood best friend.
Hence the point is these are very common thing in real life hubby(s) and CV's have showed it really well. Also I liked the way Suhana handles these issue.
@laxmi_s: Apart from SGP, I have become your fan too. I really liked all your replies & also agree with your explanation to the first point. We need to understand when you take things on its face value and when you take things beyond the face value. I really like how Suhana handles very situation. If she doesn't understand she is ready to learn, if she is angry or hurt she doesn't keep it to herself and get over with it without keeping to her heart. She is Open and upfront.
@shounak-rijul1: Oh Boy!! I like the way you addressed me "J".
Thank you so much once againJ. Will surely try and post more but as said I am very poor in expressing things and bit lazy in punching my views too.
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