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Oh.....What a wonderful thread yaar Tanu..... mazaa aa gaya..... and thot provoking posts by all....👍🏼..... Tanu, Vish di..... loved your practical aspect.....Vish di.... loved that masculine thot.....🤣...just kidding..... i expected your analysis to be this way..... Di....😉
Laxmi....🤗 tum jo aaye zindagi mein baat ban gai 😳 n wow...lovely style..of analysis as always..From Kashyap parivaar's POV:Guyz.......let's talk about the woman "Panna" in particular who has seen the worse time in her childhood days by the way of separation of her mom and dad.....yet seen her Mom managing to hide her tears from others in the family and keeping her attitude positive by living life for others....All that Panna can contribute to this mother is satisfaction and happiness that her children r now happily settled and there is no question of HISTORY repeating itself......Ishwar's estrangement has left a scar in the marraige term for Shailaja and she is not able to overcome that fear..... She constantly monitors Panna's relationships with her inlaws, Suhana's neglection towards Ishaan all because of JUST this FEAR....!Now if in a practical way....Panna just utters this truth to her family thinking of sharing her probs with them with a way to get into solutions......Alok might be able to help her out calmly.....But what about BM? Won't this be a big blow to her as she knows the family survives on Raunak's BIG JOB status and cannot survive a middle class manner......???😲 She is matured enuf to get quite disturbed about this issue and probably Panna knows this well in advance and prefers to keep her probs to herself just like the way BM does..........!Very very well observed..i think... BM has always had a sense of insecurity when it came to Pannas marital life/the look of apparent bliss since she has many times commented about Panna looking lost...or seen a sense of sadness dawn in her eyes and each time she has constantly asked Panna about taking care of Raunak. And its only sad to see that the misfortune that struck mother..is soon going to strike the daughter too I believe that along with ensuring Raunaks ego is not hurt.. Pannas biggest worry is the blow this truth will delve on her mothers heart n mind 😭 But such is life...sometimes our worst fears do come true and when eventually the truth does come out.. BM will be hit just as hard..🥺 But weathering the storm alone wont reduce its intensity...coz beyond a point u do need that moral support...or that assurance..that when u break..theres someone to hold u...someone to hug u...n say..'Sab kuch theek ho jaega..' n thats where a mothers compassion comes in play...... n Panna surely needs it..n asap!!😳From Raunak's family POV:Raunak and his ego will be shattered if she breaks his trust and tells it to her family....Raunak's mom is bitter-mouthed and sarcastically puts the kashyap parivaar low for every issue......we know how wud she react if Kashyap parivaar offers help...... but Raunak too falls in this category....he has been sweet enuf to them in his good times as he never has been conscious..... now he is conscious about his status and in his thinking any help offered by them wud add to his wound rather than heal his hurt.....!Not to forget Panna is brought up by BM who has her principles in keeping her family image with all respects and Panna will never out of consciousness speak about her inlaws problems to her family......Laxmi..i totally agree on the part tat Panna wont share her inlaws problems... given that till date she has absorbed the rudeness n snideness of her MIL.... so thats not an issue at all.. .but yes.. coming to Raunak.. she now has to handle him with compassion ..n firmness...!! 😊 He is too lost in his lost glory to realise that by closing ones eyes..the storm wont pass over... u hv to face/ weather a storm n while facing it... muster all u got n look it in the eye..!! They say.. its not about losing.. its about keeping ones head high while losing..😳 Maybe the help offered wont be of his level.. maybe the Kashyaps mite decide not to offer any help at all.. but they can offer to stand ALONG with him...n hold his hands to keep him afloat in these sinking times..😊A woman until marraige has to think only about her family...... but when she gets married..... she needs to think about 2 families..... Panna is such a woman who thinks about the issues from both the aspects........So i don't feel she is wrong in not revealing it to Kashyap parivaar..... She is a woman who thinks much before she acts.....Yes ofcourse.. i agree here as well ..she is the one in the most sensitive position and io m sure come what may she will not open her mouth...but it will not help her in any way..barring giving Raunak a few moments of false happiness n comfort
Laxmi..i agree with Sinha....jab aap likhte ho...to likhne ko kuch bachta hi nahi 😊
Ishaani
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