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Posted: 14 years ago
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Hi everyone, just a thought came to my mind and of where better to share it than with you all. I mean its really a big deal but anyways...... here goes.......I've been thinking for a while why doesn't Suhana wear her Sindoor properly or even wear bangles?😕 I thought that tradionally you had wear your sindoor and your bangles all the time otherwise its unauspicious. I mean of course for many people its not a big deal but you see ALL the OTHER married ladies in the KASHYAP PARIVAR wear their Sindoor, Manglesutra and bangles prominently without a miss because that is what they're supposed to do!!! So why is Suhana exempt? Aren't they all supposed to be equal?? I'm surprised how none of them have picked up on that and told her to follow the tradition especially as they all do.

In the beginning she she used to do the same as the others but for the last few months she stopped. Only last friday when Badi applied sindoor that she wore it for that day but this week her sindoor is barely noticeable.

When I was married, even if I didn't wear my bangles, gosh my elders would frown at me and say its bad luck for you husbad if you don't follow the rules.

Sorry I don't mean to be petty or pernickity but I just thouhgt that they would pay more attention to all the little details because they make a big difference in the long run.

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Posted: 14 years ago
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I think it doesnt matter as Suhana,s charcter is very modern type, she does dress up in stylish way, and does wear sindor but doesnt wear the whole jar in one go! I think she does look married, and she would look very odd with so much on, as it wouldnt suit her character. I dont see any thing wrong with it, things have changed, people have come out of very traditional way to practicle ways and moderately traditional. I know many of my Indian friends who only wear there sindoors on family ocassions as they are working and its there choice not to wear it all the time and same goes with bangels. My inlaws has datoofied me in the begining but then gave up as I dont like the bangles all the time . So I like Suhana the way she is.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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okay😊 thankyou for your reply
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Actually, I think this suits her character. Do people seriously frown upon a bahu if she doesn't wear bangles and sindoor? Really? I've never heard about that, I always thought it was up to the women.
Their house is all about equality...and it IS equal. The other ladies of the house are not forced to do all of that, but since they grew up that way...they do those things. Suhana didn't grow up that way, so she doesn't.
I think it's good the way they've portrayed her...the modern Indian woman.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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i am sorry ... i like the show and everything ... so please don't take it the wrong way but the real modern woman in india works outside to home,,, is highly educated even and/or also works at home.... suhana really does not have any of those mordern indian woman type quality other than the fact that she knows english and that is only because she was educated inenglish school because her father is rich
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: nehal0119

i am sorry ... i like the show and everything ... so please don't take it the wrong way but the real modern woman in india works outside to home,,, is highly educated even and/or also works at home.... suhana really does not have any of those mordern indian woman type quality other than the fact that she knows english and that is only because she was educated inenglish school because her father is rich



The show has never talked about how much educated suhana is, may be she is an MBA😆😆 as she along with sanjana are the heir of bajpayee empire .........................and she does not want to work because she never felt the need to do work ..............also she strongly believes she is a princess and whole world works according to her whims and fancies.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Kashyaps are very flexible people.....for them these small matters are of no value as compared to harmony in family.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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I she looks good the way she is cause would look really odd if they pack on shit load of makeup and jelewery. Cause I don't like the fact that in other shows the girls wear shit load of stuff lol. And it just makes them look like their doing a advertising for jewelry and makeup haha what to use and what to not. I love her the way she is and last I seen her she always has sindoor on. Haha sorry for typo haha
Edited by terrylove1010 - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago
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guyzzzz, she is a bahu WITH A DIFFERENCE 😆😆😆 .... she looks perfectt with no TONNES of make-up, 'xyz' kg jewellery etc etc .. i luv her sareeees 😆😆😆.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: imtoosexyforyou

guyzzzz, she is a bahu WITH A DIFFERENCE 😆😆😆 .... she looks perfectt with no TONNES of make-up, 'xyz' kg jewellery etc etc .. i luv her sareeees 😆😆😆.

hahaha...remember when she tried being the 'ideal' bahu...with all that heavy jewellery...esp the sleeping with her heaviest sari and jewellery on??😆😆😆😆😆
hahaha but that was a good episode...showed that it's not the outer appearance that makes a good bahu...but it's the fact that she loves everyone...that's the identity of the ideal bahu.
I loved that message

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