Ishaan a notch above Inder & Ilesh??

Suhaana orders Ishaan out, he covers for her... Suhaana leaves Ishaan stranded, he covers for her... Suhaana leaves bhabhis humiliated, Ishaan doesn't even ask her to apologize. He is obviously proving to be a really good husband.

On the other hand... R&D are stuck by themselves. Even after Inder & Ilesh know of what had happened they clearly said they would do nothing about. While they "understand" how their wives were feeling they were not willing to "support" them. And even now they are clearly standing by Suhaana instead of supporting R&D. First, they didn't want to look like the bad guys causing tension in the family and asked R&D to deal with it themselves. And now when R&D are dealing with it in their own way, they suddenly want to intervene and go talk to Ishaan because they feel R&D are not right...

No, they aren't talking to Ishaan just cuz they feel R&D are not right, they are talking to him cuz they just want to discuss the issue....Inder is handling this very maturely.....it's not so black and white as 'let me support my wife'....he is looking at the larger picture of not wanting rifts to be created in the family.....when Ishaan covers up for Suhana, it is never by sacrificing the harmony in the house...., in fact he covers up for her FOR maintaining that very harmony.....he's stood up for his family in front of her too.....

Did you not watch the epi a few days back when Inder and Elesh discussed WHY they have to talk with Ishaan about this matter?

This is a difficult situation with no clear cut answers.....both the brothers feel torn cuz they basically want to maintain peace in the house but they can't really say anything to their wives who are so upset as well.....being the elders, they are giving Suhana more leeway cuz she's younger.

My only question is... what have they done in supporting R&D in this matter?? Have they at any point tried to help them in making Suhaana realize how wrong she was?? NO.. On the other hand it feels like its just the two bhabhis vs the family's support for Suhaana..

Ishaan wants to maintain the harmony of the family but he has not talked to Suhaana about bhabhis being upset with her at all. He is just constantly trying to make her happy. I am not saying that is wrong.. I am just saying Inder and Ilesh have not taken any steps in this matter to support R&D and do something to make them happy as well. Why is it always about "tsk.. Suhaana ko bura lag gaya..?" Just because she is younger and new and is therefore meted out this partial treatment???

Inder jee ne poured extra ghee in the already fiercely burning fire by asking Rajni to prepare different kinds of pakores for Suhana 😆 😆😆

Ishaan is newly married and he is trying to blunt any kind of pointing fingers at Suhana. First he like Badi Ma understands Suhana a little better than others, plus if others come to know about Suhana's antics, the family will be concerned and troubled ... so he wants to avoid that.

The other two have been married for some time ... they have developed an understanding so may be the need to something of Ishaan kind does not arise. Plus, their wives are sane ... 😆

Neha, the brothers are giving more leeway to Suhana mainly cuz they love Ishaan....and they feel that saying something to his wife might hurt him....this is more a case of everyone trying to avoid hurting each other's feelings by trying to make the situation simmer down....they are hoping that everyone's anger will eventually cool down and that would make everything alright without getting into big confrontations which would create ugly situations in the house.

Ishaan did try to talk to Suhana but currently she isn't very receptive on this issue which is probably why he's backed off for a bit....

Basically the husbands are all in a fix currently cuz they don't know how to get through to their respective wives.....Suhana is the biggest tubelight of them all so Ishaan has the toughest job there....Inder-Elesh won't say anything to her cuz of Ishaan....and they obviously can't say anything to their wives either.

Originally posted by: an12345678

The other two have been married for some time ... they have developed an understanding so may be the need to something of Ishaan kind does not arise. Plus, their wives are sane ... 😆

@bold: LMAO.....this is the biggest truth in this entire situation....their wives are SANE....and Ishaan on the other hand is dealing with an insane tubelight😆

Excellent point, An.....it does make a difference that the other two couples have been married for a longer time....there is a different sort of understanding there.

Well....i would wanna disagree on one count.........what have inder & elesh done for R&D.............

Originally posted by: Armu4eva

Well....i would wanna disagree on one count.........what have inder & elesh done for R&D.............

they havent STOPPED THEM from Boycotting Suhana...they havent RUN OFF to Badi MAa or the elders to tell them abt this battle royale..& additionaly they have given freedom to their wives to SETTLE This dispute in their own way.....................so how are they any less than Ishaan or any other husband?????

Ishaan is handling Suhana in a different way sinc she is DIFFERENT....that doesnt make the other brothers ANY LESS........!!

If they feel wht R&D are doing is not right ...they stated their opinion but never in front of th other family members or Suhana..so arent they SUPPORTING their wives???

I agree...and Ishaan is also not running to his Brothers to complain how their wives are treating Suhaana...So I think all the men are being equally understanding and supporting their wives in the best way possible and yet not create drams amongst the other family members

Ishaan is samajhdaar.........which most husbands on tellywood lack. His samajhdaari is keeping his marriage intact and his relations with his household strong

Originally posted by: Armu4eva

Well....i would wanna disagree on one count.........what have inder & elesh done for R&D.............

they havent STOPPED THEM from Boycotting Suhana...they havent RUN OFF to Badi MAa or the elders to tell them abt this battle royale..& additionaly they have given freedom to their wives to SETTLE This dispute in their own way.....................so how are they any less than Ishaan or any other husband?????

Ishaan is handling Suhana in a different way sinc she is DIFFERENT....that doesnt make the other brothers ANY LESS........!!

If they feel wht R&D are doing is not right ...they stated their opinion but never in front of th other family members or Suhana..so arent they SUPPORTING their wives???

i agree..all the three brothers are handling this situation the best way possible..inder esp is one of the most mature characters in the show according to me after badi ma..supporting ur wife dsnt mean only fighting wid anyone and everyone who has had a tiff wid her..rajni and disha were asked to handle it and tht the guys wnt interfere..and they are not..yes,they are trying to ease things ou whenever the tension goes out of hand..tht is y they are talking to ishaan..and yes,their wives are SANE so their behaviour is diff frm ishaan..